Why is my ex sending shirtless pictures of himself?

[Anonymous]

They aren't nudes, its just pictures of his body. He will then tell me that he's been losing weight and that he's working out everyday.

What is the reason for the shirtless pictures? We broke up, so why is he still sending me?

[TigBitties]

Hahahaha, I know I send shirtless pictures of myself purely because I hate wearing shirts around the house so every picture I take is inherently shirtless. Buuut, I doubt that is the case here. Sounds like he is trying to show off to you, possibly to try to win you back or something. Just straight up ask him, "Why do you send me so many shirtless photos?" the next time he does it.

[Yes-Man]

To show you that since you broke up he's been improving and you've been missing out a lot. Of course looks aren't that much important but it's the only thing he can use against you now.

[Asker]

Do you think it's because he's jealous? Because since we broke up, I've been out having fun with my girlfriends and posting some pictures of a few guys that we were with. Do you think that's why he's trying to impress me?

[Yes-Man]

If you believe me, even if a woman is not having good time and feels miserable after breakup, guys still tend to be jealous of them and try their best to show off how much better they became after breakup. don't pay attention at that

[Changiis07]

He probably wants to show you how good he looks to either tell you what you missed out on or because he wants to get back with you

[Asker]

But he was the one that broke up with me? I fought for him, for a long time, but when I stopped and started to move on, he now started to send me all these pictures of himself like he's trying to make me jealous or something.

But he broke up with me?

[Changiis07]

He probably regrets breaking up with you! Men are dumb and don't realize what they lost until they have "matured" So him sending you all this is probably to start a conversation, and it sucks that we always are the ones who fight for them and once we lose that they want us back and sometimes it's too late. How do you feel about him sending you the pictures? and how long ago did he break up with you?

[Asker]

You're probably right, and it really sucks. I'm actually really confused because he's giving me so many mixed signals. We broke around two months ago and the reason behind that was because he said that he still had feelings for his ex and that he still missed her, which hurt me so we decided to break up because I didn't want to be with someone who didn't really put me first. I fought for him, but now when I'm starting to move on and having fun with my girlfriends, it feels like he's a bit jealous. But I'm just confused what he really wants?

[Changiis07]

Yea he needs to stop sending you pictures and men up and talk to you straight up!! If he wants to try to get you back he needs to put effort. I know the feeling when they still have feelings for their ex is like why not just hit her up and try to get back with her. I say be careful he obviously sees you having fun and is now hitting him on what he lost. I say unless he shows you, you are a priority in his life don't bother and move on and find someone who will put you first like you would with them. How does he know you are having fun? Does he see pictures...

[Asker]

Yeah, he's still following me on social media and I've been posting a few pictures/videos on snapchat while I'm out with my friends just laughing and having a great time. I even posted some pictures with a few guys, which probably made him react a bit, but if we're not together anymore, then I should have the right to be out with my friends right?

The thing is, he's watching every story that I'm posting on snapchat, but he never likes any of my pictures on ig but he's liking every other girl's pictures?

[Changiis07]

Heck YES!!! You have every single right to go out and have fun!! You aren't together and you moved on then you can take pictures with as many guy friends as you want. That probably got him jealous. But he isn't sounding like he is putting much effort into getting back with you. Of course he isn't liking anything on your social media just other girls men are like that BUT trust me he is seeing everything about you lol I think it will be hard for you to get back with him because you'll feel insecure and in the back of your head you'll think he will always be thinking about his ex while with you... That's cool I wish I would have left my ex on my Facebook so he could see me having fun UGH I regret unfriending him but I couldn't keep looking at his stuf... that's why I asked you were brave to leave him in your social media I completely cut him off :/

[KadBitty]

To show you how sexy he is and what you're missing out on.

[Gustafsone12584]

Why do you care still? Why don't you block him? And maybe why he keeps sending you stuff, because you allow him to do that... Woman need to start growing some balls or something?

[baseball69]

He still has feelings for you and he wants to show off his weight loss. If he was over you, he wouldn't have sent them to you.

[mattyhaych]

he wants your attention and for you to want him back.

[Munin86]

he's trying to get you back.

[Asker]

Do you think it's because he's jealous? Because since we broke up, I've been out having fun with my girlfriends and posting some pictures of a few guys that we were with. Do you think that's why he's trying to impress me?

[Munin86]

He's lonely and trying to get you to think about him and go back to him... keep going out and having fun!

I prefer to completely remove an ex from my life. nothing good comes from an ex

[Anonymous]

Trying to make you remember the good times

[mellough1]

He wants you back

[TheSpartan]

He wants you back.