Why don't men understand that no means no? (Page 3)

[rapfan107]

Cause females are confusing af

[AriesMan]

They like to gang up on you when they read into a comment the wrong way too. I have had my share of shaming by women when I didn't do a thing to them! I don't need that stuff now!

[rapfan107]

Lol I know they tend to over react always making a storm on a glass of water

[Silver158]

Because sometimes girls say "maybe" instead.

[pretty-kitty]

Irrelevant, if a girl says maybe then it's a maybe but is a girl says no, if means no!

[ObscuredBeyond]

@pretty-kitty : And what of "not now"? Because sometimes, they come looking later. Other times, "later" means "never." "Sorry, ain't happening" is better than a false "later." It prevents you from setting up well-meaning men.

And it's not savage either. Now, if a girl responds with: "What's it gonna take to get through to you?" when it's the first time a topic has ever been brought up; then I generally assume she's an incorrigible cunt. I'll point out that it was the first time the issue had ever been addressed, and she should lay off the judgmental attitude. If she responds by rolling her eyes and walking away, she's a cunt. From then on, I try to pretend she's not even there. But if she gives me shit later on, I throw her own line right back in her face.

[pretty-kitty]

Ok literally all that stuff is irrelevant.

If a girl says no, it means no.

[Silver158]

@pretty-kitty No it's not irrelevant. A lot of girls will say maybe in place of no. Then when you bring it up again they'll be like "I told you no already...". No, you didn't you said "Maybe"...

[pretty-kitty]

But the question asked why men don't understand that no means no, so your comment is irrelevant because it's asking about women who say no... not women who say maybe 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Silver158]

@pretty-kitty Because women don't say no. They say maybe... Which is the problem.

[pretty-kitty]

Some women might say maybe but some women will say no and we are talking about the women who say no

[Silver158]

@ObscuredBeyond Pest of a woman...

[ObscuredBeyond]

She and we are on totally separate pages. She's still stuck on page 4, definite rejection of a sexual advance. And we're already on page 384, about issues that are not sexual, and misdirections given, and how they will sometimes send in a pack of thugs to do the saying no for her for a non-sexual thing, getting the thugs to go after us as though it were a sexual thing, and why some women think that's acceptable.

Since she's not at that page and you and I are, she thinks we're reading an entirely different book.

[Silver158]

@ObscuredBeyond See never really had that. Except once from an ex but she was just an attention seeker Making me out to be doing things when in fact I wasn't doing anything whatsoever, never even spoke to her/saw her since we broke up. The "thugs" regretted it in the end.

However. I'm more referring to where you ask a girl to go for a drink or whatever and she replies with "maybe". Which happens more often than a flat no because girls don't want to hurt feeling etc (Depends on the girl though). Then when you bring it up at a later date they say "Well no, that's why I said no the first time you asked". But they said maybe...

[Silver158]

I mean I know she was saying it wasn't relevant, but it is. The majority of girls that ask "Why can't guys take no for an answer?" Don't actually say no. They give you some obscure answer or some body language signal and expect you to interpret that as a flat no. And, it doesn't work. And, then they complain about it not working and make out that a guy is harassing them.

[troychapman]

its called the chase

[Nate1941]

you misspelled *rape

[troychapman]

@Nate1941 hows that rape

[troychapman]

they continue persuing because they think their playing hard to get and that they want them to chase them

[Nate1941]

Having sex after she removes consent (says no) is the very definition of rape. It's not a game after she says no. If she thinks it is a game then you need to know that for sure by talking with her before hand and determining a safety word that still means no.

[troychapman]

wait what how did we get to sex so quickly im talking about the asking out phase

[Anonymous]

Because you say no no

[momo770]

Stupidity

[Tanisha69]

Usually they do.

[Brutal_Honesty]

alright then

[Anonymous]

Ask your Dad.

[Revolver_Ocelot]

because it doesn't

[dwiller943]

Yes it does.

[CT_CD]

No means yes

[Anonymous]

Dicks will be dicks

[gumballs]

tea consent bruh