Why don’t some men take NO for an answer?

[Brittanyroseee]

For example, I have a guy friend I hungout with not too long ago, I hungout with him of the intentions as a friend, but he pressured me into hooking up even though I kept saying NO. He continues to hit me up everyday asking me to hangout. Another example, the guy I lost my virginity to, years ago, did not stop when I asked 5 times. Another guy, I know from highschool, is a friend of mine, but constantly makes sexual remarks at me and when I say that I don’t want to hook up, I get called “wierd”. Im not weird, I am just not into hooking up anymore and im done being used. I make myself clear, but it seems like it goes from one ear, out the other ear.

[Stoner710]

Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Why are you not interested in one of these guys? Also, why did you sleep with one of them and if you’re not interested in being used keep the leg gates closed until the ring is on your hand. see your still young and 25 years the guys your been hanging around with are young as well. Guys are persistent because that the nature of guys as a woman who does not want to be used make sure it’s national guy you want to sleep with and be in a relationship with the rest of your life with. I tried doing the player sleep with every chick I know role after 2 I could do it because I wanted a relationship with the first girl I slept with she said she wasn’t introduced slept with one girl who I had no intention in after that I found out I really could sleep around because I got attached. So who are these guys you are taking to give them a chance go on a dinner date or a movie you don’t have to sleep with him kiss hi ON THE CHEEK and call it a night. Beyond that your have no obligation to do anything. Frankly you don’t have an obligation to go out with the guy who keeps asking you out he’s interested in you. Give him 1 date see how you like it you don’t have to sleep with him but give him a chance.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Males are very prideful and arguably emotional insecure creatures (especially with someone we’re attracted to), on average we don’t take rejection very well or don’t take it at all and so will either keep trying or act out in other ways or we’ll fully cut ourselves from you and anyone you know, the male psyche is very complicated and hard go explain just as the female psyche. I don’t think that all of this is inherently in a male thing as both sexes do it to a extent, but i do think that males on average are less likely to accept rejection and to keep it going directly without shame in comparison to women who’ll curl into a ball and have a bunch of cries, supportive friends with her and do something to distract her.

[FilmGuy93]

Because some people lack a sense of boundaries. There are also a bunch of men out there who life experiences where a woman will say "no," but really just want you to try harder.

[exitseven]

Sometimes you fall for somebody so hard that you make yourself think that maybe she is playing hard to get, of maybe she will change her mind about you or maybe she is just as confused as you are. So once you start down that path you have to keep going to see where it ends..

[ilovelamp]

Mixed signals is one such situation.
Where if you playfully say no stop, laugh then touch his leg or body in any other way.

Although in other cases some guys are just forceful and rape'y.

[Anonymous]

Some guys think if they keep pressuring or being forceful with a woman, she'll eventually say yes.

It sounds like you should cut yourself off from these people if they're not respecting your boundaries.

[Brittanyroseee]

Yeah i think im going to.

[Summeroflove]

The same some girls can’t. Some people just have zero boundaries. I don’t know either. But they’re only going to get themselves into a worse spot.


It’s funny. People like that always want people to respect them

[es20490446e]

If it happens often, you probably give mixed signals.

"Whanna fuck?"

"No" :D

[AviatorTom]

We men would if you women would say Yes, at least once in awhile

[Anonymous]

Because sometimes 50 "no"'s and a restraining order really means yes. 😆😆😆

[notwoke]

because they only ever talked to you in the first place for one reason. A platonic relationship is to a man what a bicycle is to a fish

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause your a good woman the type you don't come across often so there fighting to keep you in there life

[FunkyMonkee]

Because men know that, to a woman, no means yes!

[Nikki1989]

Some people can be very stubborn.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

I agree, although many Males specificity have a deep believe in “fixing things” and don’t wanna accept rejection or a simple no and believe that if you keep bringing it up and pressure a woman into it she’ll eventually agree and say yes. As my father one told me, dedication and endurance makes key. I sadly did this to my girlfriend when i was 16 and it eventually worked, although it took time and definitely felt both shitty as a person and boyfriend after and eventually even apologized for stepping out of line and making her uncomfortable as we should’ve done it when we both were 100% open to it and not me trying to be the arrogant shmuck who was convincing her that it was time and that we were going to enjoy it & be safe with it. Worst thing you can do is definitely agreeing to it and falling for a person’a demands, in my scenario it backfired massively as i’ve always had a little sensitive side to females thanks to my environment and influence of my mother & two sisters but there’s plenty of males who would take it for granted and try it on the next female if you gave him the feeling that he could pull it off.

[noohair]

Don't be nice. Try insults.

[LovrUFFAllls]

for the same reason many women dont

[Fuentes]

Block them