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To be honest, I'm a girl, I don't listen to girls problems half the time. Most of the time. Anybody complaining about stupid things makes me zone out
Thats right. I feel like im wasting most of my energy just by listening to them. If by luck we are chatting. I will type some soothing related words and it will be alright. Sometimes some people get so melodramatic.
@Aparnam glad I'm not the only one. Most of the time they don't want my advice anyway. They just want you to let them talk
Most guys don't no. They just stare at their body and fantastic but a small number of guys like myself do. And try to fix it to the best if our ability
If a guy cares about the person then he will listen no matter what. The difference is (and I am generalizing here) guys will analyze and look for solutions instead of just quietly taking it all in
I would.. I'm sure out of the 57 who have answered they would too... that's part of having friends or relations.. or just generally caring of an individual
Most guys care, but when its the same thing every day you just don't give a damn anymore. And many guys have a hard time listening without offering solutions. Which often doesn't go over well.
It's not just guys. If you're a positive person you'd get stressed out in the presence of a negative one. I find girls to be really negative in general for some reason. The fact they keep "venting" (complaining) is awareness of the fact that they are.
Yes i do listen always. if a girl shares her problems with me it means she trusted me and giving value for me. i have loads of patience to listen to girls problems and i try my best to help her.
Well it depends on the subject matter of the problems, but I'll usually listen regardless.
I listen to them but im shitty with emotional support im better at giving advice to fix the problem
Some guys are more sensitive and understanding than you may think
Ummm yeah! I'm like a psychologist to all my male/female friends lol. They share everything that bothers them, and it helps. Love helping people.
I'd love to have them helped out with their problems but I fear that It goes wrong If I try to ask them about it since I can't always properly read them.
Guys are like that they don't like talking about things but they do care there just being asses and should listen just ask him to talk to u alone
They pretend to and then ask to see boobs as reward.
Yes i care about girls and their problems. I'm a guy who likes to
listen to girl when she has problems.
Yes, it's the only way to get a deeper connection and relationship with your SO.
If you don't understand what they are going through at work or just in general, how will you become better friends?
Ur question is more like does guys listen at all to girls
I mean guys worth a shit do. I actually listen to anyone that I'm in a conversation with.
Within a mature relationship, yes, we listen. At 21, probably they haven't learned this yet.
Not all but many. (Unfortunly)
It all depends on how serious the guy is about you. If he shows a lot if interest to know about you, then he definitely listens.
If he's listening to your problems and even suggesting solutions, you should probably have a relationship with him.
i Listen and give advice on them if i want to speak out about what i have to say.
i WONāT be the guy who she keeps on coming to to tell me her āguy problemsā all the time.
it depends. if she's dead serious and actually wants him to listen, he will. if she's just rambling on about a tiny problem that can easily be solved, he might be listening, but probably not entirely
I do this and I am a girl haha
@itwasmelaniasfault haha yah everybody kinda does it I guess but girls just have better listening skills than us guys lol
Nah, it depends on the person. I will admit I am terrible listener. Plus I really just have no interest in listening to someone whine about something I consider stupid. Especially because people who do that don't even want your advise.
yeah true... if he doesn't care then what's the point of having a partner
We do but girls bullshit and we find our self questioning a lot.
That definitely depends on the guy. But I'd imagined most do.
Yeah. I like to be a good listener. And a good friend
I do , it makes me feel like my opinions matter : 3
I listen to girl's problems, but I rarely speak of my own.
Why?
I usually downplay my own, but I find more concern for others.
I listen but if their problems are trivial or they're just saying stuff for attention, I waste no time calling bullshit on them and tuning out
Energy vampires, they tell you all their problems but dgaf about anything he says.
Of course!
it's bonus points for getting laid but some guys are just idiots.
We will pretend to listen if we think there is sex to follow.
They always do. That's the weak point of every guy...
I'm a very easy person to talk to and I actually care about the person I'm talking to
The boy who truly loves a girl, can understand her problem
that's what have a boyfriend is, otherwise, i couldn't care less
I don't talk much so I'm a good listener don't really like talking about my self , but I do want to know about you every inch
Yes but if you're talking about the small stuff like her best friend Julie's problem we don't tend to as much
My ex was like that. He didn't want to lsn up for my problems or when I'm sad bcoz he don't like the drama as he called it so I had to pretend as I wasn't been sad
I like coming up with solutions, and I will happily listen to problems, but if that's all we talk about I'm going to get really bummed out whenever we talk.
good point. its better to keep things in balance.
Listen? of course. Care? Well that all depends on what day it is and if I'll hungry or not
yes always. its bitches who dont listen to mens problems.
lol tru
Very true, as people mature they become better listeners
Yes they do but girls can be so dramatic. They just pick the most important bits.
Yes, if she's willing to listen to mine. She usually is
I listen but I don't exactly care at times since women talk so fucking much
I don't know why either. I rarely talk and I have no actual female friends. It stresses me out to talk in a manner that doesn't lead to any outcome.
Guys that care will listen, guys that don't care won't really listen.
I have learned over time, that we need to listen to understand, not respond
within reason but I don't want to be used as emotional toilet paper
No, most women just go on about pointless shit. And since when do women listen to men and their problems?
You better listen to her problems for the next do and she will be sleeping with him
A lot of guys care about your problems it's just we don't like to show it.
If I had any fruebds who were girls of course I would
Yeah it's sad they don't give a shit. I think they are simple minded. Women's care is not that problem
Yea of course , by that way he could free up the girls mind , she doesn't need to be her girlfriend, she can simply be her friend or stranger
its a he. "his"
Haha , I wished I got replies for my opinion, turns out to be my grammarš
Can't I edit itš¤
yes you are right I apologise. he could free up her mind after she vents and it makes room for more creativity just like you going in to comfort her in romantic way as her partner.
Many girls have a thought in her mind that when we boys wanted to comfort her , it turns out to be a romantic approach š„
then you have to let her know beforehand that you are only there to support as friends and will help her solve her problems.
Nice, but if she is already in a problem , how will I start by saying that I'm only here to comfort š¤
to comfort is to lend a shoulder to cry on, or lend a listening ear/eyes without going romantic.
Yep I just lend my ears
I dont see why you have a problem then lol.
I always listen even when I'm not "interested" but generally the more I like you the more I'll put my heart Into my response
Well if she got awesome titties that's a yes 😂something to stare and listen
We actually listen n spend a lot of energy deciphering n picking out the sensible parts
Depend on guy who is with you in relationship. Hood guy always care for your thoughts.
Sorry good guy will always care for girl's thoughts
Ahahah Hood guy cares about taking money from the riches and give it to the poors :D
No no good guys...
That's why I'd reply on my own opinion
I was kidding pal
Okš
Talk freely and what Gingerguy said.