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  • itwasmelaniasfault
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    To be honest, I'm a girl, I don't listen to girls problems half the time. Most of the time. Anybody complaining about stupid things makes me zone out

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    • Aparnam
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      Thats right. I feel like im wasting most of my energy just by listening to them. If by luck we are chatting. I will type some soothing related words and it will be alright. Sometimes some people get so melodramatic.

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    • itwasmelaniasfault
      itwasmelaniasfault
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      @Aparnam glad I'm not the only one. Most of the time they don't want my advice anyway. They just want you to let them talk

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  • KII-NGH
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    Most guys don't no. They just stare at their body and fantastic but a small number of guys like myself do. And try to fix it to the best if our ability

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  • 24lonewolf
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
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    If a guy cares about the person then he will listen no matter what. The difference is (and I am generalizing here) guys will analyze and look for solutions instead of just quietly taking it all in

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  • TriTree
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    I would.. I'm sure out of the 57 who have answered they would too... that's part of having friends or relations.. or just generally caring of an individual

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  • Redstang88
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    998 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Most guys care, but when its the same thing every day you just don't give a damn anymore. And many guys have a hard time listening without offering solutions. Which often doesn't go over well.

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    • vyvyn
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      It's not just guys. If you're a positive person you'd get stressed out in the presence of a negative one. I find girls to be really negative in general for some reason. The fact they keep "venting" (complaining) is awareness of the fact that they are.

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  • harry191919
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
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    Yes i do listen always. if a girl shares her problems with me it means she trusted me and giving value for me. i have loads of patience to listen to girls problems and i try my best to help her.

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  • Archemedies
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    Well it depends on the subject matter of the problems, but I'll usually listen regardless.

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  • Peachman
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    I listen to them but im shitty with emotional support im better at giving advice to fix the problem

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  • mahaim1234
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    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Some guys are more sensitive and understanding than you may think

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  • hiphopbean
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    Xper 6 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Ummm yeah! I'm like a psychologist to all my male/female friends lol. They share everything that bothers them, and it helps. Love helping people.

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  • Anonymous
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    I'd love to have them helped out with their problems but I fear that It goes wrong If I try to ask them about it since I can't always properly read them.

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  • Christinerose89
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    Xper 2 Age: 36
    +1 y

    Guys are like that they don't like talking about things but they do care there just being asses and should listen just ask him to talk to u alone

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  • azzntittiz
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    +1 y

    They pretend to and then ask to see boobs as reward.

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  • GoodGuyBreakingBad
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    Master Age: 57
    +1 y

    Yes i care about girls and their problems. I'm a guy who likes to
    listen to girl when she has problems.

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  • BradA
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    Xper 7 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Yes, it's the only way to get a deeper connection and relationship with your SO.
    If you don't understand what they are going through at work or just in general, how will you become better friends?

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  • movielover1
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Ur question is more like does guys listen at all to girls

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  • FunkleMyJunkle
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    I mean guys worth a shit do. I actually listen to anyone that I'm in a conversation with.

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  • madgoat
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    +1 y
    899 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Within a mature relationship, yes, we listen. At 21, probably they haven't learned this yet.

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    • The_Gentelman
      The_Gentelman
      +1 y

      Not all but many. (Unfortunly)

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  • lorenzo123
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    Xper 4 Age: 30
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    It all depends on how serious the guy is about you. If he shows a lot if interest to know about you, then he definitely listens.

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  • Blackfists
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    If he's listening to your problems and even suggesting solutions, you should probably have a relationship with him.

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  • Nahid1234
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    Guru Age: 27
    +1 y

    i Listen and give advice on them if i want to speak out about what i have to say.
    i WON’T be the guy who she keeps on coming to to tell me her ā€œguy problemsā€ all the time.

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  • Anonymous
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    it depends. if she's dead serious and actually wants him to listen, he will. if she's just rambling on about a tiny problem that can easily be solved, he might be listening, but probably not entirely

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    • itwasmelaniasfault
      itwasmelaniasfault
      +1 y

      I do this and I am a girl haha

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    • Anonymous
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      @itwasmelaniasfault haha yah everybody kinda does it I guess but girls just have better listening skills than us guys lol

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    • itwasmelaniasfault
      itwasmelaniasfault
      +1 y

      Nah, it depends on the person. I will admit I am terrible listener. Plus I really just have no interest in listening to someone whine about something I consider stupid. Especially because people who do that don't even want your advise.

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  • cinderelli
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    yeah true... if he doesn't care then what's the point of having a partner

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  • Coffeeshop666
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    We do but girls bullshit and we find our self questioning a lot.

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  • CameronMusick
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    That definitely depends on the guy. But I'd imagined most do.

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  • ProssimaFermata
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    +1 y

    Yeah. I like to be a good listener. And a good friend

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  • casscade
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    Xper 5 Age: 31
    +1 y

    I do , it makes me feel like my opinions matter : 3

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  • vjedi
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    Xper 7 Age: 46
    +1 y

    I listen to girl's problems, but I rarely speak of my own.

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    • blankgirl
      blankgirl
      +1 y

      Why?

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    • vjedi
      vjedi
      +1 y

      I usually downplay my own, but I find more concern for others.

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  • Rangers
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    Master Age: 26
    +1 y
    916 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I listen but if their problems are trivial or they're just saying stuff for attention, I waste no time calling bullshit on them and tuning out

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  • Wwwyzzerdd
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    Yoda Age: 39
    +1 y
    543 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Energy vampires, they tell you all their problems but dgaf about anything he says.

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  • Norsie
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    Xper 5 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Of course!
    it's bonus points for getting laid but some guys are just idiots.

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  • Regular1
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    Explorer Age: 37
    +1 y

    We will pretend to listen if we think there is sex to follow.

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  • kinggeorge007
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    Xper 7 Age: 38
    +1 y

    They always do. That's the weak point of every guy...

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  • cattertone
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    Xper 6 Age: 32
    +1 y

    I'm a very easy person to talk to and I actually care about the person I'm talking to

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  • raj581
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    Xper 5 Age: 32
    +1 y

    The boy who truly loves a girl, can understand her problem

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    that's what have a boyfriend is, otherwise, i couldn't care less

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  • whitewolf6969l
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    Xper 4 Age: 67
    +1 y

    I don't talk much so I'm a good listener don't really like talking about my self , but I do want to know about you every inch

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  • dom112214
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    Xper 4 Age: 24
    +1 y

    Yes but if you're talking about the small stuff like her best friend Julie's problem we don't tend to as much

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  • uphidden
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    Xper 4 Age: 30
    +1 y

    My ex was like that. He didn't want to lsn up for my problems or when I'm sad bcoz he don't like the drama as he called it so I had to pretend as I wasn't been sad

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  • Dr_Marley
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    Xper 2 Age: 29
    +1 y

    I like coming up with solutions, and I will happily listen to problems, but if that's all we talk about I'm going to get really bummed out whenever we talk.

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      good point. its better to keep things in balance.

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  • Scooby225
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Listen? of course. Care? Well that all depends on what day it is and if I'll hungry or not

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  • Matt-G
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    Xper 6 Age: 43
    +1 y

    yes always. its bitches who dont listen to mens problems.

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    • draallen
      draallen
      +1 y

      lol tru

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  • Outkast24
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    Xper 5 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Very true, as people mature they become better listeners

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  • Marklaw12
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    Xper 6 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Yes they do but girls can be so dramatic. They just pick the most important bits.

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  • Maxemeister
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    Master Age: 25
    +1 y

    Yes, if she's willing to listen to mine. She usually is

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  • baseballnerd24
    baseballnerd24 Follow
    Explorer Age: 30
    +1 y

    I listen but I don't exactly care at times since women talk so fucking much

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    • vyvyn
      vyvyn
      +1 y

      I don't know why either. I rarely talk and I have no actual female friends. It stresses me out to talk in a manner that doesn't lead to any outcome.

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    Master Age: 39
    +1 y
    2.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Guys that care will listen, guys that don't care won't really listen.

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  • Humbledman74006
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    Explorer Age: 55
    +1 y
    346 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I have learned over time, that we need to listen to understand, not respond

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  • BronzedAdonis
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    +1 y
    685 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    within reason but I don't want to be used as emotional toilet paper

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  • HandsomeGuy500
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    Xper 5 Age: 41
    +1 y

    No, most women just go on about pointless shit. And since when do women listen to men and their problems?

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  • soufkalifornia
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    Xper 5 Age: 46
    +1 y

    You better listen to her problems for the next do and she will be sleeping with him

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  • owen_kent
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    Xper 4 Age: 23
    +1 y

    A lot of guys care about your problems it's just we don't like to show it.

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  • Insanyx12
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    Yoda Age: 25
    +1 y

    If I had any fruebds who were girls of course I would

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  • Asiantrash
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    Xper 6 Age: 40
    +1 y

    Yeah it's sad they don't give a shit. I think they are simple minded. Women's care is not that problem

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  • teckd
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    Xper 4 Age: 27
    +1 y

    Yea of course , by that way he could free up the girls mind , she doesn't need to be her girlfriend, she can simply be her friend or stranger

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      its a he. "his"

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    • teckd
      teckd
      +1 y

      Haha , I wished I got replies for my opinion, turns out to be my grammaršŸ™ˆ

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    • teckd
      teckd
      +1 y

      Can't I edit itšŸ¤”

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      yes you are right I apologise. he could free up her mind after she vents and it makes room for more creativity just like you going in to comfort her in romantic way as her partner.

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    • teckd
      teckd
      +1 y

      Many girls have a thought in her mind that when we boys wanted to comfort her , it turns out to be a romantic approach 😄

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      then you have to let her know beforehand that you are only there to support as friends and will help her solve her problems.

      Reply
    • teckd
      teckd
      +1 y

      Nice, but if she is already in a problem , how will I start by saying that I'm only here to comfort šŸ¤”

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      to comfort is to lend a shoulder to cry on, or lend a listening ear/eyes without going romantic.

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    • teckd
      teckd
      +1 y

      Yep I just lend my ears

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    • jumpingbeans
      jumpingbeans
      +1 y

      I dont see why you have a problem then lol.

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  • Tazinat0r
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    Xper 4 Age: 26
    +1 y

    I always listen even when I'm not "interested" but generally the more I like you the more I'll put my heart Into my response

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  • Mr_weed
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Well if she got awesome titties that's a yes 😂something to stare and listen

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  • taireecd
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    Xper 2 Age: 38
    +1 y

    We actually listen n spend a lot of energy deciphering n picking out the sensible parts

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  • manthan69
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    Xper 6 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Depend on guy who is with you in relationship. Hood guy always care for your thoughts.

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    • manthan69
      manthan69
      +1 y

      Sorry good guy will always care for girl's thoughts

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    • Giacomanzo
      Giacomanzo
      +1 y

      Ahahah Hood guy cares about taking money from the riches and give it to the poors :D

      Reply
    • manthan69
      manthan69
      +1 y

      No no good guys...
      That's why I'd reply on my own opinion

      Reply
    • Giacomanzo
      Giacomanzo
      +1 y

      I was kidding pal

      Reply
    • manthan69
      manthan69
      +1 y

      OkšŸ‘

      Reply
  • Steelbonds
    Steelbonds Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 28 , mho 42%
    +1 y

    Talk freely and what Gingerguy said.

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