What makes someone "bang-able"?

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

Okay guys... I've heard this term used once, but it's played on my mind since. What makes someone "bang-able"?

Is it confidence? Is it the physical appearance?

What makes someone "bang-able"?

I know it sounds like a weird question, but I'm curious and it might answer a question I have playing on my mind.

[MrOracle]

It's strictly a function of physical appearance.

You know those signs at the carnival that say "you must be THIS tall to ride the ride?" "Bangable" means "you must be THIS hot to ride my penis."

To put it another way, men very commonly use the "10 point scale" as a shorthand way of describing his opinion of a woman's face/body/appearance. And most men will "set the bar" for women they would sleep with at a 5 or a 6. So, if a given guy would sleep with a "5" on his scale, then "bangable" for him means any woman that he considers a 5 or above.

To go further, some guys may use that word sarcastically - to point out a VERY attractive girl - and say, "yeah, she's bangable" - to try to make it seem like he's such a stud that he barely considers this hottie to be a 5 on his scale - when she's probably a 9+ in actuality. But when guys do this, every other guy knows he's just being funny, and no one takes him seriously.

Let's be clear, though - we're JUST talking about having sex, NOT being in a relationship, and so personality largely doesn't matter - because if you're just going to bang a girl some night, you won't have to deal with her personality long enough for it to matter. That's why "bangable" only deals with appearance - and it's usually only applied to women you don't know, and are just SEEING for the first time, and appearance is really the only thing you have to judge anyway.

[winterfox10]

It's the whole package! It's confidence, as well as a nice jiggly body, and a sweet personality.

There are some women who you just want to have sex with... and it isn't to exploit her for her body, it's because there is something smuldering deep in her soul that makes you want to share pleasure with her.

[Anonymous]

If you're not too fat or too ugly, most guys will think you are bangable

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

So in other words... I'm screwed 😔😔😔

[Opinion Owner]

Not really, there are always guys willing to bang any girl, they will just put a bag over your head. Always remember, some straight guys get so horny they even bang trannies! loL

[DarkWasTaken]

Not the best attempt at Moral Boosting there Opinion Owner ahah.

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

@DarkWasTaken To be honest, I kinda felt like that was going to be the answer I would get 😔😔

[DarkWasTaken]

Put in more moral friendly terms, body weight is only an issue if you're lazy, you can always work towards a healthy body.

Being ugly is subjective, your face will always attract someone in the world unless it went through acid and flames if you know what I mean.

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

@DarkWasTaken yeah, I know what you mean. I'm not a lazy person. I do martial arts 2/3 times a week, personal trainer 2/3 times a week. But I don't wear make up, because 1) I have sensitive skin and 2) I don't know how to apply make up

[Opinion Owner]

@DarkWasTaken My face went through acid and flames and I still get banged ;)

[DarkWasTaken]

@Opinion Owner You get the paper bag treatment and everything ;o?

[Opinion Owner]

@DarkWasTaken Yup, plastic bag once.

[DarkWasTaken]

Plastic? That's see through.

What kind of new kink is that cx

[Opinion Owner]

@DarkWasTaken Black Bag

[Decentguy]

depends on the individual. some people find physical beauty attractive, some people find Inner beauty Attractive
to me : Maturity, Loyalty, A Attractive face, Honesty, and if i can have deep intimacy with her, A strong emotional connection between us

[Anon-ymous1]

Physical appearance. Confidence matters but it's a distant second for us. Basically, slim/fit, decent tits that are firm and well-formed (B cup minimum), long legs, 5'6" or under, tight small ass, nice slim tummy, easy smile.

There you have it. The other minor stuff like nails, hair, shoes, clothing doesn't really matter much to us if the above stuff isn't there.

[Wolf1967]

Different for everyone. I like a tight body. Skinny to athletic. I dont care about the size of the boobs, and I will play with them ;) !

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

But it's mainly appearance that matters 😔

[Anonymous]

Not obese. Acceptable hygiene. As you get older the standard might get a little higher.

Honestly for women, bangable is a pretty low standard. It means sticking your dick in her is more appealing then jerking off.

[Nik1hil]

A nice physique and having physical traits which turn someone on

[Cody01]

Physical appearance. Nearly all guys wouldn't fuck a 400lb confident woman.

[Marklaw12]

Openness, good listener, hearing the right words and always by your side mostly. You become bangable

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

That's what I done during the entire period of my last relationship and yet he cheated on me 😕😣

[Marklaw12]

Sorry about that

[DizzyAster]

For me, bang able doesn't mean I'd date her or even bang her. Just that she's hot enough to bang by someone else.

[nihlani]

In the order of preference
1. External beauty
2. Internal beauty
3. Awesomeness
4. Chrming/ funny

[aapunpred]

A bangable person is someone that you find mostly attractive, but not enough to date.

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

But what if that termed is used and they dated the person that's been described as bang-able?

[aapunpred]

More specifically they are not looking for a relationship with that person. Don't get me wrong... More then once has the person actually fallen for that bangable person.

[OlderGuy965]

A chick who is less than 250 lbs.

[Anonymous]

If they're physically attractive to someone else

[WhereAmI]

Appearance.

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

So in other words... I'm screwed 😔😔

[WhereAmI]

Not necessarily. There will always be guys that would have sex with anything with a vajayjay.

[Brutal_Honesty]

having a hole

[false]

at least 1 hole

[disgustingweebtrash]

physical appearance

[CT_CD]

A nice body

[Dantheman101]

You are

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

I don't think I am. I'm average height, a bit over average weight (but I'm working on lossing it) and I've always been compared to with other girls

[Dantheman101]

Sounds good to me 😉👍

[Kay_Swiftie1989]

I don't believe that, personally

[Dantheman101]

Well I would show you if you was here