I want a girl, a particular girl who could get princess treatment from the majority of men, something she says she likes but in truth she needs anything but, she needs a fucking handler quite literally as she is a handful. Someone who won't tolerate her shit, something she's probably become accustomed to with excessive princess treatment and it's not going to fucking happen with me, like fuck it would. I don't want her to be a princess or even act like one, I want her at her most raw and unrefined, completely comfortable to be herself around me because I'm the guy she's no reason to act a certain way around or necessarily want princess treatment from, I want her to be completely at ease with her situation with me and the feeling would be mutual. I want a relationship based on solid respect for each other and genuine interest in each other's interests, I want a lasting companion and she'd be the one! Acts and the feelings for wanting to include them in your relationship, have no place in this 'ideal' as I see it, or any I'm involved in for that matter
No, I prefer down-to-earth women. I like balance. A woman who has her tomboy side where she enjoys beer, football, video games, geeky stuff, makes crude jokes, can be aggressive (and kinky) sometimes... but also is mostly feminine, cares about fashion, wears heels, sometimes wears lingerie to bed, is sweet, kind, caring, and all the things that make their man all warm and fuzzy inside. However, I don't want her to be too vain to the point where she expects her man to bend over backward for her and put her on a pedestal.
I will put my woman first, I will sacrifice for the right one, but she has to earn it. She has to put me first too and treat me like a king if she wants me to treat her like royalty.
Well, that is my ideal mate, but I know as well as anyone that our ideals aren't always realistic. For example, if she hates heels, then maybe sandals (not a fetish, but I like sexy feet). heh. Or if she doesn't care for football at all, I could tolerate that since I am only somewhat into it myself. There is always some give and take. Not with core beliefs and values though. Like for example, I like to drink on occasion and get a little bit wild, so a woman who can let her hair down sometimes and be safely irresponsible is a must. Can't be having a woman who is always uptight; we do the adult thing 98% of our life, got to have that 2% time to loosen up and let our freak flags fly. Or the fact that she must be a least somewhat sexually adventurous. Need sexual compatibility for a good relationship to last.
The point is when I think "Princess", I think of a woman who expects to be catered to just because she is the woman. To me, Princess = Entitled.
But it is a two-way street. A Princess doesn't see it that way. She expects prince charming but without any effort. Princesses also seem to be quite fragile. I don't want a woman I can't call out on her bullshit or feels like I am going to break her in bed.
I'm not exactly a princess in the high maintenance way where I want a guy to do everything for me, and buy me everything. However, I am a Princess in the submissive way, and I'm my Sir's Princess. :) He likes spoiling me usually with affection, but he also likes buying me dresses to wear because he thinks I'm beautiful in them. That is not very often though since we aren't at a super great income at the moment. Which I'm fine with! I buy him gifts too. So.. yes I am a princess, but not in the spoiled rich girl way, and in the submissive "good girl" way. And I'm only a my sir's princess. No other man, or woman get's me the same way.
I am grumpy sometimes, and needy, like a lot of subs are, but my Sir knows how to handle that just the right way.
@SupMaNiBBas Oh? I wasn't aware a dog could have sex with, and be in love with a man. You are very rude, and clearly know nothing about the dom/sub dynamic.
Lol. Some people have sex with their dogs... just saying. And yeah it sounds like you're an expensive dog. Or an expensive sex toy. You're young, it won't last.
I'm no princess! My guy thinks I am his little princess, so he often treats me like a "Pretty Little Princess" , his words. Truthfully when he treats me like he truly values me for who I am, not for being a whiney little brat, which I'm not either. I'm just his best friend forever, his very fortunate wife, whom he treats with love and respect every chance he gets, he pampers me, he's affectionate and I'm beyond blessed to have such a wonderful man in my life! When any guy loves a girl like that, it's never hard to give that same love back to him and then some!
Obviously some do, or else the men here wouldn’t be constantly screeching about how they want a traditional wife who won’t work and will stay home with the kids.
Where I come from, women who “stay home with the kids” actually have nannies, fancy cocaine addictions and expense accounts at Neiman Marcus.
No I just like playing simple girls does it matter fact I want the other end for the princess I want the Cinderella the one who has had it rough hasn't had what most people have had has been hungry before hasn't been able to take a shower before has just been on Hard Times because that person knows the true meaning of life and struggle and has a good heart and can see things before they happen she would not be mean because someone has treated her meme I've been mean to her so she knows what it feels like she's been hungry so she can see but it feels like if she sees a Vietnam vet or somebody on the street she would feed them if somebody's having a hard time doing something and she's walking by she would help them for me that girl would be the princess would be the richest woman in the world because of everything that she has experienced she would know what love was the meaning of love and commitment have a good heart and they give her at self because she has been there before
Nope there the type that annoy me the most. The self-entitled types need to brought back down to earth. I knew a few in school and one wasn’t even pretty even if she thought she thought by her behavior she thought she was the most beautiful girl in school lmao. I usually avoid them otherwise I would be very tempted to mess with them since they need to sober up. Nothing wrong with being confident and knowing what you want but those types usually push it too far since they have spent most of their life’s having others kiss their feet and doing whatever they want.
I actually dislike such divas. I try to avoid them if possible.
Do i like brats, yes. Do i like needy, yes. Do i like tomboies, fuck to the god damn yes. The tomboy once feel much easier to be around and tend to be even on a lot of stuff, i like the backbone there might there mental strength ; as the icing on the cake they tend to be the most freaky and aggressive types when all nice and got going, there is nothing that beats a bite fight during making out. Hits all the right spots.
Yes, a brat is not a princess. In my use of the term, a brat is just someone that is Braty in a teasing and cute way. E. x: "I need to get my hair done then my nails then my face mask, then we can go get a drink." While a brat is more like: "But i am not ready yet, i need to prepare; and don't tell me i don't need it, i know i am special."
Alright let mw try to simplify it. High maintenance on the emotional level the needy i consider a brat. High maintenance on the monetary terms i consider to be a princess.
I don't... first of all they are fake. All the fake stuff they do to make their outward appearance more attractive is just a manifestation of the fakeness inside. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eyes too... she was bound to phuck with fake guys too.
I'd prefer a good looking woman without makeup that can provide (or at least be 50% of) a good conversation as we go crabbing. To think that a man is supposed to be a piggy bank, funny man, personal psychotherapist, problem solver, and all just to "entertain" her into looking pretty and open to being phucked.
I'm sorry but any woman that disposes themselves to that position in life deserves to feel threatened by these sex dolls that's found a market amongst dudes that's done dealing with any princess.
Rich guys might like this sort of thing, but there aren't a lot of rich guys. I'm certainly not, so I can't speak for them, but what it ultimately comes down to is whether or not we have the disposable income to pay for all the stuff she wants to spend our money on. If we do, then being high maintenance isn't likely to bother us if she's attractive/sexually satisfying enough to be 'worth it'.
But for the ~99% of guys who haven't inherited a fortune, if she supports her habits with her own job and/or inheritance, sure. Otherwise it just makes her look like a common moocher, which is a largely unattractive attribute.
I am seriously a low maintenance woman I promise you and my ex whom I ran into like a month ago told me (out of the blue) that we didn't work out because I was too low maintenance, easy going, and not creating any problem and he wants a high maintenance woman with difficult personality. I am like WTF, is he serious?
I'm no princess, nor am I a queen. I'm a goddess 😏
Hahaha jokes aside, most men don't enjoy a high maintenance women unless he's got the money and lifestyle to be a sugar daddy.
I assume however most men prefer class over sass. A girl that is balanced in being classy but is yet down to earth and knows how to keep things grounded with enjoying the simple things in life.
Nah, I'm a pauper. I'm too chill honestly, like I don't make a big deal out of things. I know that I'm not the best thing since sliced bread so I"m not gonna act like I am. I'm not demanding or mean because it makes me feel guilty. That's the one good thing about me, I"m chill and I just don't really care about things
Well, a high maintenance girl is not entirely my thing though if she's a sweetheart that would be the nr 1 criterium to be happy in a relationship with her :D Anyway, I guess girls like to be called a princess so even without all the make-up and expensive clothes I'd make her feel like my princess :D
I vote they do not seek them out but will tolerate this if they are getting what they want out of the deal whatever it is she has to offer greater than non-princess types available
Yes i agree, i think we're going to see a lot of "no, i don't want a diva" however... when i look at the actions of men.. we do like a bit of it. I am sure this is equivalent to the "a-hole" guy, while most women won't write this down on paper, i think a "hint" of it makes the guy worth while?
Yea, guys will overlook quite a bit when it comes to beauty however all things equal.. guys do like a bit of sassy. It brings a sense of "challenge" back into the mix.
Of course, i don't think any guy wants to deal with a temper tantrum but if a girl is a bit sassy or diva, to me.. it's pretty feminine like being upset about nail color or hair, not "This Car is only Worth $20,000?"
but.. each guy will have his own preference... so find the right guy that likes the amount you want to be. :)
I would like to think we all are on our own way. If I use lots of make up and use shallow clothes. No. I don't think so. But then again it varies from people to people opinions 😫
Do I hate myself? Yes. Do I hate myself to a point where I will allow some b! tch to walk all over me and treat me like shit while demanding I still give her more? F*ck no.
Only thing I'm high maintenance in is my ice cream, I got one favorite brand and you better get me that one, other then that I'm chill, high maintenance is for girls with a sugar daddy
I love to think I'm a princess. If that makes me high maintenance so be it. I like being treated like a princess and spoiled, but not with things. I like attention and affection and I love being cuddled. I like feeling important, like a princess and it just makes me happy when I'm called one.
For me, it just comes down to feeling important and I like that.
I'm not necessarily OK with entitlement. That being said, that doesn't mean I won't treat a girl like a princess. I probably will, but I feel that if she's constantly expecting anyone to dedicate their life to her needs, then she's in for a rude awakening. But I do feel that guys should put in the work to make a girl feel appreciated, whether she expects it or not
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