what do you say back? tell him that that isn't true, that there are people who like you. Then go and call up a whole bunch of friends and talk to them... and ignore him and tell him you're busy and you have tons of friends and you're super happy. Tell him if he's going to disrespect you and tell you that you're such a loser than you'd rather not hear it from him. And give him some time to realize what he said was wrong. give him the cold treatment, and don't ever let him hear the end of it until he apologizes.. like tell him... you are a mean person.. you like saying false things... you are a person who likes to call names... and then wait... keep waiting... and then he should apologize... hahahaahahah it doesn't always work. don't try it if it doesn't fit for you.
Maybe because that's just the way he is, and why would he change if he acts this way and you still do everything for him, he's not going to suddenly decide to start being nice if he doesn't have too. If he does put you down and hate you, then how he is your everything, the person whose your everything and who you would do anything for should be the person who loves you and would do anything for you and try and make you feel good about yourself.
he is abusive and your an enabler. you need to LOVE YOURSELF before you go crawling to get it from a man who disrespects you like that. if he has been doing that for 9 years then leave his ass before it gets worse and damages your self esteem even more
He is a control freak...He knows you won't leave him or at least that is what he thinks... You have got to put your foot down leave with the kids to your parents house...Tell him your not going to put up with it anymore! He puts you down to make himself feel more powerful chances of him changing are slim to none! Get out while you still can this guy seems like nothing but trouble!
maybe because he's a d***head, if he can't respect his wife when she's doing all these things then to me it's over.
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Women like you are stupid, I think you should continue to let him walk all over you (sarcasm), why are you even with him if he doesn't appreciate you?
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