How do you bruise a player's ego?

[Anonymous]

What ticks these bad guys off?

how should a wise woman play it cool with them and deal with them the RIGHT way?

[Brando]

Well since there are plenty of girls that would fall for a player's games, then there's not much you can really do. My best guess would be to treat him exactly how he describes what he does: a game. Show him that you recognize every move he makes as some calculated move. If you call him out at every move, that's actually pretty funny to watch. I had a few classes with this middle aged black woman and she made me love black women even more.

Some dude was trying to charm her and she let him know that she didn't want to be bothered. He kept trying so she proceeded to just embarrass him into going away. She said things like "Oh, I suppose now you're trying to act like you're some rare prize, aren't you? Guess this the part where I turn you down so you can turn on your bad boy act huh?"

^^Stuff like that could possibly cut him.

[confused4now]

Players are too dumb to know they've been rejected... much less care. So, the dude's suggestion will not work. The only way to get back at a player is to do something that offends his sensibilities. Try this... get a group of your friends... make him think he's "in" and go on a road trip. Go skinny dipping in a lake or something and have one of your friends collect the clothes... then you all pile in the car, take off and get dressed... leaving him with no ride, no money, and no clothes. Won't bruise his ego... but he'll be really pist.

[Asker]

LMAO! sounds like a scene from the movie! I wish I totally could, but it seems unrealistic right now =/

[Flexy]

This is a tricky one, because you have to become one to beat one really.

I guess you could play dumb, and then just randomly drop in the fact that you are really serious about someone else, maybe if you are actually serious with the person, make sure they hear about it - but then usually you wouldn't care about the player when you've met someone new that you're serious about.

You could also patronize them, by thanking them for pushing you into this amazing guy, who you discovered you really love, and thank him a lot, cos you learnt a lot from him, and you're taking it to your new relationship.

The thank you will feel weird if he's aware of him being a player, if not, he'll be glad he got away without appearing like a douche.

[luciaa]

I did this, an it actually worked. Stop calling him. Block his number, do not answer his texts. Just let him sweat for a while. Then acknowledge his contacts with something really lame like " call you later" then don't. For once, he'll be thinkin' what the f***?

[Asker]

Lol yes! that's what I figured and did, and it did work! I have no interest in him anymore though, he's a jerk

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

I suppose you could do the "Let's hang out!" dance.

You contact him, tell him you want to hang out. On the day you're suppose to hang out, you tell him "OH! Sorry, I forgot."

Rinse and repeat.

[Asker]

Hahahah lol! I should try that thanks!

[Flexy]

Good one!!