Crushing on a player?

[Anonymous]

Do you think it would be worth it to approach a guy who is known to be a player?
Like I have a crush on him and I know that he would be open to doing stuff but it probably wouldn't mean anything special to him and most likely be a one time thing.

[HorrorFan]

What is your definition of 'worth it'?

If he really is a player, you more than likely are not going to change him. If you want to give him a new mouth or pussy for a night or until he's ready to go after the next one, that is up to you.

I know a 22 year old player that has all 18 girls he's fucked in a notepad on his phone. He puts an asterisk next to the ones that he fucked more than once.

Are you okay with potentially being added to a list like this?

[MrAssHat]

Well why do people think he's a player? is it rumors or have you actually seen him actin all shady?

[Asker]

I've heard from mutual friends who have warned me about how he toys a bit with girls, I've seen him be quite touchy with other girls to but I haven't acutally seen him kiss and stuff

[MrAssHat]

well he might be a flirt.. That does not mean he's a player though.. So give him a go and keep your eyes open for red flags

[Letstrend]

If you want your young heart to get broken and your mind to get played with and to get used and eventually left behind in them streets; go ahead.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice

[Letstrend]

These player types always seem to us girls as a challenge, we hope to be able to 'change' them and to make them want go after something serious with US. Little do we know that they are very manipulative and very, very bad news. The younger, the worse. Don't lose yourself and ignore anything you KNOW is not good and healthy for you. You are worthy of all things good ;) including guys.

[Smmyskittles]

What are you hoping to gain from this?

- Do you want something more from him?

[Asker]

If possible I'd like to have a relationship but I'm pretty sure that's not what he's after

[Smmyskittles]

In that case, I would suggest avoiding him. He might use the "I'm a sweet guy who can't find the right girl" line.

Don't even give him the chance. (( Sorry to have to say that )).

But if you do, he'll do whatever it takes to get in your pants. You'll end up hurt.

- - On the off chance you do this anyway, be careful.

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah, that's probably not the smartest thing to do.

[mostwomenshouldstfu]

If you want to be treated like one of his plays, go for it.

[Anonymous]

If you want to fuck him, go for it.

If you want to date him, forget about it.

[Anonymous]

of course youd crush on a player. girls are biologically programmed to likes alpha males