How to seduce a player?

[sweetmisery14]

how could you go about doing this. these kinds of guys have girls oogling over them a lot and they know that girls like them. I know he's interested in me because he has flirted with me some off and on. I'm not crushing on him completely, but I definitely want to see what is up with this guy. he is used to having girls sighing over him, but it is unknown if he is the type to follow through. he might just be a flirt but doesn't consummate. personally, I'm looking to actually fulfill some frustrations, so I kind of want to push this guy's buttons and see if he lives up to how he acts.

i know it sounds kind of bad and think what you want, but I'm just having fun.

how can I go about getting his attention without seeming too slutty but luring him in and letting him know that I want more than just silly romance.

[Lost_in_Space]

With the players I have known... I would say come off as mysterious... yes a lot of girls may want him... want to stand out... act nonchalant about it... Such as flirt... back off... tease just a little... back off.. keep some distance... every guy I have done this to has chased me for awhile trying to figure me out... the harder you are to figure out... the longer they stick around. But not every guy is the same... and some guys may walk away. Number one rule... be confident... even if you are unsure... for some reason it turns men on... another thing I have noticed... men want the girl that is somewhat inapproachable. I would be at a bar with my hubby and he would walk outside to hang out while I sat at the bar... I can't even begin to tell you how many guys would walk up to me and offer me a drink, even if I told them I was married... I would flirt with them... take the drink and either pass it to hubby... or tell them I wasn't interested in them. There was even a time where a barmaid punched a guy because he wouldn't stop hitting on me, and all I was doing was sitting at the bar, minding my own business, and scanning the bar facing away from the actual bar. Each guy is different... so take this for what it is... it works for me.

[sweetmisery14]

Thanks for the advice!

[SarahBabeeXO]

I'm in the same situation! I read what the 2 guys said but I'm just scared that I'll loose him and I deff. don't want that to happen. I'd rather be friends then not talk at all so I'm in the same boat as you : )

[darkscorpio]

You have to be a challenge to a guy like that. If he has girls all over him be the one he can't have and it will drive him crazy.. (works both ways haha). Just be prepared for him to disappear after he gets what he wants lol. Do something to get him to notice you then kind of act interested but distant, if he fancies you he will chase ;)

[sweetmisery14]

Lol what would be an example of something to get him to notice me? like saying something provocative?

[The_Love_Guru]

First start by giving him signals, after that you start talking to him in a sensual way so he can start getting interested in you, then slowly stop talking to him. He is going to be thinking why are you not talking to him!