How to get a player's attention?

[Anonymous]

how to get a player's attention and be everything in his eyes ?

[rivka]

That is the question of the universe. If you figure it out, bottle it and sell it for a million bucks.

Honestly, the guys here are right...their attitude is one of disposable affection (like that? I just made that up), and head games. The level of immaturity doesn't seem to diminish with age. I know some players in their 40s. I'm sure there are older players than that also.

Some act like you are the only girl for them (they want to fool you) but then are doing other women the same way. [hmmm...Tiger Woods? Kobe? ring any bells?]

If you want to be a female player, and want to just do it back without any emotional connections, then you might be able to beat him at his own game, but it's not the way to real love.

Best bet is to spend your time on a real, emotionally available, mature guy, of any age.

Good luck.

[rivka]

Thanks. hope it helped. Just know we're allll going through this same thing...it never ends. : ) Happy Holidays.

[Asker]

Mm true unfortunatly, but as I knw that this guy has been in love b4, and he told me that already. I don't know if he s a real player, but he seems to, he is hot and has done sex b4 alot..

anyway thnx and happy holidays for you too :)

[KayleighP]

mix in with his crowd, and peer group, then be known for being a player as well, and then, well, yh, that's all I got.

hope it helped!

[Asker]

Thnk you :)

[Anonymous]

How is the fact that he's had TONS of sex before attractive? and just because she's a "player" and has "been in love before" doesn't mean a thing. In fact, he's never been in love before if he cheats on every girl he's with or sleeps around... Players don't know what love is. Sorry

Also just because he's "hot" doesn't mean you love him... Just because he gets TONS of girls and all the girls want him and you have this sexual infatuation with him doesn't make it love. To find love you have to look deeper in someone, someplace you wouldn't normally look.

He's gonna hurt you. just sayin'... You aren't gonna be anymore special to him than the 19 other girls he's slept with...

Sorry to be brutally upfront, but use your head! He's not worth it.

[gotc147]

You can't. They're called "players" for a reason, because they play women then dump them and move on.

[stercor]

You can't. You'll get hurt. Bad.

[dks210]

Once a player always a player.

[Anonymous]

you can't