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What does it mean when a guy says you’re “fuck-material” but not “wife-material”?
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Probably that you are physically attractive (the idea of being intimate with your body is pleasing) but you have traits or qualities he doesn't want in the person he totally gives his heart to and would want to commit to forever.
Are you a stripper, have lots of tattoos, do you do drugs, do you drink and party a lot and have lots of casual sex... etc? These are extreme examples on things that could bump you out of someone's "wife" category.
Any hint on what it is about you that caused him to say this?
He probably wasn't "husband" material either though was he?
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Means he'd have sex with you, but doesn't find your personality good enough to marry you.
Simply put, to him you're sexy but wouldn't want to spend his life with you, meaning there's parts about you he doesn't like, which don't matter when you're just fucking.
That in his opinion you're only good for hookups but not for an actual long term serious relationship
Which means he would fuck u and leave
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That he'd screw u but if he had to spend a long time in a room with u after, he'd rather kill himself.
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That you are probably a sl*t and not a keeper, someone without anything but a good body 👌🏼
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it means he just sees you only good enough to f*ck and not for wife material
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Most likely said by a guy who couldn't get you for either or by a guy looking to appear like a stud to his little group of boyfriends.
It's like some scrub saying that he'd take a Ferrari for the weekend but would only buy a Bugatti. In reality he drives a used Ford. -
I use the terms throwaways and keepers (for a relationship, not necessarily as consideration of marriage).
These are two different standards. There is a lower standard for throwaways. For me, a throwaway just has to be average attractiveness and not have an STD. I don't have to actually like her. I usually don't tell throwaways my real name in case they turn out to be crazy.
For a keeper, she has to be quite attractive, very smart, and I have to really like her a lot. -
Well, I haven't heard that one but Id guess he means he would have lots of sex with you but that would be it. Something along the line of "I feel chemistry, you are hot af, seem like you'd be great in bed, but I can't think of other things to do together"
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Poor you?
Guys like that are one night stands or sex slave of the month club
never there when you need them
Other guys see you too much trouble to defend against other guys attracted like moths to flame later on... e. g. lazy or pussies
Then the idiots that only know what they saw growing up as "reality" and everyone else outside that mold = not "wife"
Your reply = thanks, this appraisal saves me a lot of wasted time (on you), goodbye -
It means that he has no respect for you as a person and your value is only the material pleasure in the moment. It's a cold and horrible thing to say but in some cases women are smoking hot airheads and other more plain women are wife material.
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It means he's a fucking hypocrite. He shouldn't be sleeping with her, if he thinks less of her.
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Depends on what he is critical of about a mate. Maybe he doesn't think she would be faithful... or he might think she has a smokin hottt body but she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down... Who knows? Dont worry girls. We can't read your minds either. ..
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You are pretty enough to fuck and really have a good time with, but when it comes to it he doesn't see a long term relationship happening with you. Likely because of the kind of personality you put out not matching what he is looking for.
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He is being rude and trying to hurt you, don't pay attention... It doesn't exist that "fuck/wife-material", you are human, not an object
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I can't be bothered to find out what all this basic bro ape slang means.
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Means it's about time you kicked their ass and sent them packing. If a guy said that, he means that you're nothing more than a booty call for him as far as he is concerned regardless of what you feel.
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It means he only loves sex with you.. You don't have much to offer or he don't have any emotions for you and only loves you bcoz of looks and body.
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Wife material girls are also fuckable. But girls who are only good for fucks are like sluts. There is a difference between a slut and a virgin. So it is something like that. Virgins wait for sex only after marriage but sluts can be fucked any time.
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It means in his eyes either your behavior has lead him to believe you are not a wife type you are just a good fuck toy or he see's you as a sex person rather than a wife type
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That you look good enough to fuck you but that men won't like to marry you. Maybe cause of your personality or your intelligence. It's rude to say that.
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He could never see a future with you but definitely could have sex with you
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Wife material is someone who is supportive , understanding n caring with a hot body, n fuck material is someone with just hot body!
These type of girls have nothing to offer than just sex! - 302 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Fuck material : one night stand type or short term dating
Wife material : someone worthy of long term relationship type -
You're basically an object to him. He just wants to use u for sex
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It means he is just using you for sexual course but when it comes after sex you are just waste or useless.
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