Would you marry a rape victim?

Question

A lot of people I know say no cause she's not a virgin anymore. What's your opinion on it? Be honest!

AsankaTharindu98 · Accepted Answer

Yes I will. And this is indeed a good question. What I personally believe is that, rape victims usually don't trust others. They might get very choosy about everything and every person in their lives. And I like to help them too. So, if there is anything I could do to help a rape victim, I'll do anything in my power to help them. Marrying also. But only if they pure by heart. What I tried to say by pure heart was that, their might be some people who actually love being rape. Trust me it's a sex fantasy. I won't marry a woman like that. But a lady who has a broken heart, (rape case or whatever it is. Maybe bullied etc.) if they have kind and good heart deep down, I'll marry. I just want my partner to love me. It doesn't matter how messy their history is. What matter are trust, love and kindness. And they must be willing to help others likewise. I hope you got the idea about what I'm tryna say. Question me for more details if your curious.

Halucinator · Accepted Answer

All you wanna know about. Just remember one thing, you heard it first from Charlie oh I mean Halucinator (copying dialogues never work for me😂)

IceQueen328 · Accepted Answer

If you really love her this question shouldn't even be in your mind. Love is a share of 50% of burdens you both carry. If she is a victim but she is still living today you should give her respect for the strong woman she is and support her and be there for her to be able to see the better part of the world. show her this world is not only bad people but also good people. Don't be the part of the world that makes her feel ashamed of who she is.

JewishPeanut · Accepted Answer

Uhm, I don't know what culture you live in, in most of the western world people don't really care if a person is virgin or not when it comes to wedding. Even very convinced and devout christians I know don't really care about it, as long as they abstain from sex when they are convinced

cflr0227 · Accepted Answer

Really because she's not a virgin after being raped? It sounds like the people you know are assholes, I would date a rape victim, it takes absolutely nothing away from who they are or make them any less than in my eyes

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't even date a female who says she is a rape victim, generally because I don't believe 90% of women who claim to be rape victims are actual victims. Since these days women claim rape when they do shit while drunk and don't want to take responsibility, regret poor decisions, want to hurt a guy because she feels he "tricked" her into having sex, etc.

Rape (Actual forced aggressive rape) is rare... less than 1 in 1000 as per actual crime statistics that include an estimate for "fabricated percent" of those that don't come forward.
https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv14.pdf

SO... I would have to ask questions and since doing that is considered "victim shaming", I would simply just not bother and assume the average.

CowboyLover16 · Answer

Honest and truthfully I would because that was there past and this is now and u can't always judge a book by its cover just make sure you get them tested by a doctor before you have any sexual relationship with that person because they could have a disease

skytatoe · Answer

Lol tf.

I wouldn't care that she's a virgin, but rape is no joke. That can leave some serious scars and self destructive behaviours. I'd want to be sure that she had her time to heal and get a handle on that before I take such a big step with her.

Babyygirl__18 · Answer

So, how would u feel if ur daughter was the rape victim and another guy find it attractive that a stranger or another man took advantage of ur daughter against her will while she fought back but was helpless?

Miristheiss · Answer

Can you be more specific?

You are dating a woman and she shares that years before she had been raped.

Your current girlfriend is raped while you two are exclusive with each other.

What types of scenarios are you meaning?

SirMavane · Answer

Why wouldn't i? If people only care about virginity then they must have really shitty morals. I mean its not something the person could do something about in the first place

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes , what happened in her past is sad but wasn't her fault , if she is a good person and has a heart and treats me well then that wouldn't stop me. Who is saying No? A virgin? What is that lol

Nicole_Is_Bored · Answer

Yes, it wouldn't be a problem unless she was constantly bothered by it. It's hard to move on from that kind of thing, but it'd be easier for her to deal with it if she didn't bring it up a LOT.

Anonymous · Answer

IT wouldn't be a factor in my decision. The only guys who want to marry virgins that badly, are nut cases.

dejakris9988 · Answer

My x wife was a rape victim.. just because they had a rough past don't make them who they are

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If I met a male rape victim I would marry him if I liked him. I'm not interested in girls.

Anonymous · Answer

What happened to her was completely out of her control and not her fault.. i think that would be pretty shitty to not marry someone because of a terrible thing like that that was out of her control.

Maxemeister · Answer

The question implies that the reason is wholesome to the decision. If I liked her, sure. If the experience made her unbearable to be around, then no, probably not

LasPlagas · Answer

It would not be fair if say no because of that. Its wasn't her fault, if a person would consider someone a bad choice because she got raped I would slap him

alice55 · Answer

I wouldn't, it mean he would have issues and I'm very embarrassed to talk about those stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

Uh. It depends on how she was effected by it. I met a girl who cut herself well into adulthood & used to torture dogs & she was always effected by her past of being abused sexually.

dardorsama · Answer

Yes I would since she raped against her well and didn't choose to lose her hymen that way. So technically she's still pure as a virgin.

pinayfit · Answer

its not that person fault, that person already been punished , they need someone that will accept them who they are and will understand them.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes i would marry a rape victim as long as she had a great personality.

BirdFly · Answer

It would be so much fun to do some rape roleplay fantasies in bed with her. Yeah I would marry her.

Flower-petal · Answer

I'm a rape victim and was married. I think it's stupid if anyone says they wouldn't.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, as long as she doesn't have baggage that gets in the way of a healthy romantic and sexual relationship.

ok359 · Answer

The ones who dont think it affects the sex life in a negative way

rahul_24 · Answer

My ex has a rape victim tbh. Virginity isn't the factor depending where is she living.

That2kKid21 · Answer

Depends if she's "traumatized" by it. If she's not, sure.

olister · Answer

Yes I think change nothing except be more patient on intimacy things probably

Anonymous · Answer

Where I’m at in my life right now, no, I don’t think I would. I just don’t want the baggage.

Cannuk22 · Answer

Well it’s not their fault. I guess I would go out or date her and see

Anonymous · Answer

My wife had been raped several times before I breastfeed

Cwazzycwafter · Answer

If I like her personality, I absolutely would!

Wollu · Answer

I would. I have a people helpers disorder. :)

-acid- · Answer

Hm... not sure. Probably.

coolio1234 · Answer

yeah of course i would marry her

Blu91 · Answer

I would, without any doubt.

Dxk007 · Answer

It wasn't her fault so, yes.

Shihab-91 · Answer

Why not? She is a victim not her fault

vatsalrv99 · Answer

Yeah sure depends on her nature

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I would. My boyfriend was raped.

AlexDelux · Answer

Why not, if she trusts me enough

PaganGod · Answer

Depends

CT_CD · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Who raped you?

fredrick89 · Answer

Yeah

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