Guys would you date a rape victim?

[Anonymous]

Yes I would

No i won't (why)

[Miristheiss]

I don't know.

I've never had to deal with that to know how I'd feel.

If it happened long ago and she was well adjusted, she had healed emotionally, she was open to sex and she was fully able to be in a healthy relationship I think I would.

If she were still messed up, having issues, she couldn't trust men, she couldn't be sexually open with me... it was affecting her ability to have a normal romantic relationship... no.

If I were actually in a relationship with her when it happened... some guy actually screwed the girl I was in an exclusive, romantic relationship with. I don't know. That rape may just kill the entire relationship.

[TonyV]

That really depends on how the person acts about it and how much they would let their past trauma interfere with the relationship.

I'm only human, I have my own issues to deal with, I could see them being a special needs partner and that could easily become more than I can handle or deal with.

Especially sense my past trauma is basically a lack of sex, so I'd want a lot and I'd want to try a lot of things I never had the chance to try so someone who is borderline afraid of sex or scared by sexual violence would be a very bad match for me.

[FutterwackenMcSappin]

Nope.
Not without some kind of certificate in print saying she's been through years of EFFECTIVE therapy. Meaning I'm not going to get compared, ever, on any level, to the a-hole who raped her.
I don't need extra problems in today's economy and dating scene. It's hard enough finding a chick who is not already juggling the Fat-grenade, Ex-Chad issues, Daddy issues, and feminists vibes.

[Jake99999]

Of course. They are still a person and deserve to be able to live their life. I would be concerned for her state of mind though - and want to make sure she is okay, had some counseling or whatever to help her mind heal, and truly ready for a relationship. If she was, then sure I would. And I am sure it would require some extra patience and kindness. But if she was someone I was very attracted to and cared about, could be totally worth it.

[DWornock]

Of course, if she is like this young lady. Raped at the age of 13 by a Chinese/Korean broker.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-hS8A85_RE

[MCheetah]

Yes; it's not their fault what happened. For a minute thought, I really misread the question and thought it said "Guys, would you date-rape a victim?"

[JBlade]

Not sure, depends on the person and the baggage they have related to it.

[Clarke498]

Of course. The girl I'm talking to now is one. Didn't stope me at all. Made me feel bad and try to help, but I know it's not much I can do.

[Anonymous]

Na I hate two things in this world. Damaged goods, and women who play the victim. She probably didn’t even get raped just like most rape victims. Stop dressing like a ho and there will be no problem

[TurkishDİxon3419]

Yeah Because it is the fault of the perpetrator, not the one who was raped.

[anylolone]

If I wouldn't I'd be hypocritical.

[REDHOTLINE]

Why not... no problem for me

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes I have.

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe.

[Pterodon]

I have