She should give them a chance. Approach the guy first. For highschool approach a couple times, if he doesn't initiate contact with her after that. Its a lost cause, he is just a shy puppy
They could have had problems in the past and they have been betrayed a lot do they dont want to be stabed in the back again so they are being shy and not sure.
If a guy is shy, a girl has to take the lead of course. The question is, is a girl looking for a shy guy? Without judging shy guys character and qualities, but is this what girls want?
If you like a guy... Tell him, there is no secret plan or any of that garbage. It's 2018 and girls have changed, you change too :|
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"Is it true that if a guy's into you he'll make a massive effort with you?" ahhahaha no! most men will probably do nothing, we are attracted to women far more frequently than women are to men, we certainly don't make an effort with every girl we are into.
I've been a shy guy a beta fuck wasted my fucking life 6 girls approuched me and i was afraid to say yes fuck my life, but dont worry i got 3 bitches chasing my ass now
shy guys talk in their heads all the time, so maybe you can make your first move with him by asking to go somewhere with your friends around, get to know him better before making moves.:)
If you think a shy guy is interested in you I would suggest to just approach them head first and prepare the first step for them or make the first step yourself. That's at least what I often wished as a shy guy myself.
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Figure out if he's really shy or just manipulative. I've noticed the shy guy thing to be an act for some.
Yes. If he's into you he WILL make a massive effort.
From my personal experience he'd be willing to open up more, and get out of his comfort circle more often, if he see's u as a potential soulmate
She should give them a chance. Approach the guy first. For highschool approach a couple times, if he doesn't initiate contact with her after that. Its a lost cause, he is just a shy puppy
They could have had problems in the past and they have been betrayed a lot do they dont want to be stabed in the back again so they are being shy and not sure.
I think you should start the conversation give him the chance to flirt with you and if he dosent put him in the friend zone!!
If a guy is shy, a girl has to take the lead of course. The question is, is a girl looking for a shy guy? Without judging shy guys character and qualities, but is this what girls want?
Try asking him out as friends and test the waters. See if you two have fun and see how things develop.
You could make the first move, this isn't the 1900's anymore
If you like a guy... Tell him, there is no secret plan or any of that garbage. It's 2018 and girls have changed, you change too :|
"Is it true that if a guy's into you he'll make a massive effort with you?" ahhahaha no! most men will probably do nothing, we are attracted to women far more frequently than women are to men, we certainly don't make an effort with every girl we are into.
I mean you could just ask him. You can do that. You know that, right? Girls can ask guys out.
I've been a shy guy a beta fuck wasted my fucking life 6 girls approuched me and i was afraid to say yes fuck my life, but dont worry i got 3 bitches chasing my ass now
shy guys talk in their heads all the time, so maybe you can make your first move with him by asking to go somewhere with your friends around, get to know him better before making moves.:)
If a guy is making a big effort.
He means he’s experienced. It’s got nothing to do with him liking you.
Only time shows a guys love.
Not confidence
If u like someone but he's shy, make a first move. It's not always guys who make first move
Good answer
If you think a shy guy is interested in you I would suggest to just approach them head first and prepare the first step for them or make the first step yourself. That's at least what I often wished as a shy guy myself.
You should approach him otherwise you can forget about anything happening.
I am shy but I have perfected getting girls too approach me first from there I can talk too them and usually get them on a date
Tell us your secret oh Grand Master 🏯
Some of us guys are shy and can't open up to a girl cause
we fear of being rejected by a girl. That's why I'm shy.