Do women like independent guys?

[doflamingo457]

[MlleCake]

Well, I like a man who likes who he is when he's alone, and can manage his own life, find his own fun, and be happy in himself. That's the kind of independence I prefer.

But for meaningful relationships, I want a man who is fully emotionally present. So if he's inaccessible and aloof, I can't take him seriously, and I have a strict policy of not chasing men.

[milantb1]

You have too many wants. Nobody is as perfect as you want them to be so you'll never have a good relationship

[kaskas19]

Triggered^

[milantb1]

Well i want a woman with natural D cups a tiny waist, a huge ass, 160iq, A virgin but great in bed, and she should never age. Do you think i can find a girl like this?

[kaskas19]

She's not asking for anything physical. Physical things are hard to achieve.

The things she listed are something nearly anyone can achieve. You're letting your emotions get the best of you. Try comparing it to something else.

[milantb1]

Personality is even harder to change than appearance. You can always go on a diet but you can never change who you are

[MlleCake]

@milantb1 Actually, I am probably one of the least demanding, chill, easy to date women you're likely to meet. It makes me a very attractive partner. I don't have to take a man seriously or love a man deeply just to date him and have some fun. But if you want more of me, and many of the men I have dated wanted the whole package, then you have to meet a few criteria. I am not harsh about it, and I put my cards on the table right from the beginning so there's no pretense. I have not found it hard to find partners that want to step-up to the plate.

I make it very easy for my lovers to give me what I want. I make it easy for them to fall under my spell. I make it mutually gratifying.

I think you underestimate how people can rise to the occasion when nothing less than awesomeness is expected.

[milantb1]

Well here are my expectations
1. Be a female
2. Be kind towards me

[kaskas19]

That's not how dieting works. It won't change your boob size. Unless you gain weight, then they'll be bigger. And unless you lose weight, they will get smaller.
As for waists, most women don't have a natural tiny waist.
Being great in bed is subjective. In order to be great in bed, it takes practice, unless you're a natural. Which is pretty rare. And it's nearly unrealistic to expect that from a virgin.

And never aging? Dude, seriously? Get a grip.

If it's too much to ask for you to be there for your partner, and emotionally present, then you never had much to offer in the first place.

[kaskas19]

Your expectations are pretty low. Most people's expectations aren't that low. It comes off as desperate.

It's better to know what you want, why you want it and how it corresponds with your needs.

[milantb1]

Are you retarded? What i said was an exaduration to show people how stupid their demands are and to maybe lower their standards a bit unless they are pamela anderson

[kaskas19]

Nice to see you can't handle confrontation without insulting someone. This conversation is over.

[kaskas19]

You're going to have to get over the fact that people aren't as desperate as you and have standards. Being rude isn't going to change that- it's actually a major turn off.

[kaskas19]

Oh wait... is expecting you not to be rude too high of a standard? I might need to keep my mouth shut before you throw another tantrum.

[milantb1]

Im not desparate im just easy going and undemanding

[kaskas19]

You can be easygoing and understanding and still expect certain standards.

[milantb1]

Well you can wait for mr perfect till you are 45 and then just marry the first guy who still wants you

[kaskas19]

Nobody is perfect hun.

Believe it or not, there are people out there with the standards she listed. They don't have to apply to you. You when your own assets I'm sure girls will like.

And I don't plan on getting married at all. Do I don't need to wait for anything.

[kaskas19]

Have* not when. Oops

[milantb1]

Honestly if a feminine looking tranny asked to suck my cock id still let him as long as he keeps his cock in his pants. There you go the ultimate easy going doenst even need to be a woman

[kaskas19]

Good for you. Not everyone wants a tranny to give them oral. Not sure that's something to be proud of, because again, it comes off as desperate. But, you do you man.

[milantb1]

See thats their problem. Never reject a good cock sucking even if its from an old man

[kaskas19]

I see you have issues. I'm leaving now.

[MlleCake]

@milantb1 I have had many ups and downs in life, but one thing that has never been a problem for me as an adult is being rich in love. Since I was 26 I have never not had a man who met my standards and loved me. I usually have several. And often several women. I don't find it the least bit difficult to get what I want if I am patient.

[doflamingo457]

why not a strict policy of not chasing see how far it takes you realllyyyy

[Moonchild714]

Yes most definitely. My last three Relationships turned out the guy was so dependant on me, needed new to be his everything. They were financially independent but nit emotionally.

[Lea96]

Yes yes and yes

[doflamingo457]

yes?

[Lea96]

Yes.

[doflamingo457]

there has been a lot of yes's for this answe but i will choose yours

[Lea96]

Lmao thank youu 😂

[Robomike3000]

I think they generally want to be seen and felt as a taming, nurturing force for an otherwise independent, strong man with resources. Like a lion tamer, essentially, taking a dangerous beast and turning it into a civil, peaceful, but fierce guardian.

[GuyTheGemini]

Bro of course you think they want to spend all the money on dates and stuff. If they see you can take care of yourself theyd be more willing to feel safe in secure in your hands.

[passinby]

They like it as a challenge at first but then they try to change you and possess you emotionally so that you turn into this spent corpse with a heartbeat. Run as fast as you can!

[karahiri]

there's independent... and there's "i don't give a fuck about you". lol. so i guess it would depend on where he fell on that scale.

[doflamingo457]

well you better be indepedent too

[browneyes13]

Yes. I think the best kind of relationships are two independent people. I have a job and am responsible. I can support myself. I expect the same from them.

[Roka_1]

okay ,,, it depends on the girl and on what kind of independence.

if it
s the good meaning of independence as a real man , personally i do and i think most of us do.

[unattractiveatbirth]

As in have a job and being a functional person in society? Yes. I hold men to the same standards as I hold myself.

[walla99z]

We do, but not so independent that you disturb our reality shows and Facebook scrolling with your open-minded thinking and logic.

[Anonymous]

Emotionally? Not really, I prefer to be his everything than being ignored or cheated on. Since I’m not really dépendant it would be great to be with a guy like me, so we will fully each other

[chunkycheeks]

I don't, I like the feeling of having a guy 'need' me.

[chunkycheeks]

I do*

[milantb1]

I like it too

[chunkycheeks]

Not many girls do.. Or At least they won't admit to it

[milantb1]

They do like it. Girls love when a guy is sick in bed so they can make him soup and cold towels. Its an instinct

[Anonymous]

Fact: women rarely know what they want all the time. At least once a month, what they want changes. So, don't worry about what they want. Instead focus on what you bring to the table.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Independent in the sense he doesn't follow the crowd and has his own identity, definitely yes. Independent in the sense he is a social recluse who hates people, no.

[Pocahontas2000]

Independent like how? I like them a bit clingy if you mean it

[Chthou95]

That's pretty rare tbh

[Myplace22]

No. I think they like men who live in their mothers’ basement and who has their mother do their laundry. 🙄🙄🙄

[motownplayer2000]

Of course, no one likes a clingy, nagging person in there life...

[bulbbapet]

Yes, because when I am searching for a boyfriend I'm looking for a partner not a child.

[JuanFrank7]

Majority of them do even when they wouldn't want to admit it

[rahul_24]

Yup, women love strong, independent guys who is confident, focused on life.

[Djaay]

Independent as in a leader and a real man , of course they do.

[rapfan107]

Nah they prefer a thug or a fuckboy with no real job or ambitions in life

[Anonymous]

Definetly not when things are getting serious. For Relationships they always choose practical guys. Independent ones just turn them on.

[twiggi]

Yes someone that doesn't need me to do everything with them is great as I still have my own life

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Yes ! There is nothing worse than a scrub

[Myplace22]

A scrub. Lol!

[pinayfit]

who wants dependent guys?

[chunkycheeks]

I do, I enjoy feeling needed.

[pinayfit]

good for you :)

[doflamingo457]

it wasn't a yes or no question or a additon it was like, do you want someone who is the full package

[pinayfit]

dependent emotionally or financially? or both?

[doflamingo457]

like both is better

[pinayfit]

i mean i want a man that can take care of himself financially

[Thetrueaussie]

Yes? Hahaha most of them do

[CabanaBoy91]

Independent from what? Them? No. Mom? Yes.

[AwesomeCookie]

@doflamingo457 I would say I personally do.

[Love_You_Always]

We don’t have a hive mind.

[kaskas19]

To a certain degree, yup.

[Ayer93]

Do men like attractive women?

[themaskedx]

Yes! They also like confident men

[cornellrwilliamsx]

Most women want to be swept off their feet

[HornetsFanAllDay]

I like independant girls

[Wwwyzzerdd]

No they want compliant men

[rogermclain]

Course to mooch

[Wwwyzzerdd]

@rogermclain Mmhm

[spaghettiyumyum]

Somehow im not surprised 😐

[acooke-13]

YES!

[doflamingo457]

yasssssssss

[olerazdaz]

YESSSSS

[doflamingo457]

yassssssssssss

[just_wondering_01]

Independent how?

[doflamingo457]

like indepedent like own own place, own estate, own job, dog, cat, house

[just_wondering_01]

Then yes please ;)

[doflamingo457]

and they dont suck in bed! sorry thats random

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Yes, of course!

[lsaiah]

Yes normal women like them cause they're real men

[Godless_flawless]

Yes, 100%.

[Angelina25]

I do actually.

[Imafreespirit]

Definitely

[drkside]

Yes move out of your mom's basement

[ahyin]

I like independent
They are more responsible

[viviannine76]

I know I do!

[Julia420]

Most girls do.

[justaskher]

Yeahhhh

[opurba]

Who won't..

[Anonymous]

Yaaass

[doflamingo457]

yassssssssssssssssssssssssssssss?

[Opinion Owner]

😂 haha yep

[doflamingo457]

whats the diff betwenn yes, and yasssssssssssssssssss, is it a like a girly stereotyp. thingy

[Dawn808]

I do

[alinakhanx0x]

Yes.

[doflamingo457]

yes i agree

[elly91]

I do...😊

[boulshyte]

yess

[doflamingo457]

thre yes in a row reaasuring

[Anonymous]

For the most part that's who they seek.

[nina2992]

Of course yes

[iamshan]

Yeah

[theFantasticJ]

You bet

[Delroy1995]

Of course they do

[VINOLIA]

It goes both ways.

[Jaybae56]

Duh.

[hugzy]

Define !