Wow! Well it seems like everything is moving SUPER slow for someone in our age group girl :(. How frustrating!
Bottom line here...this is so rare a situation, I think you just need to be straight out with him. No body can truly answer what his "bad timing" means but HIM. It's his life that he hasn't really brought you into so only he knows exactly why. You deserve to know where you stand with him because up until now, it sounds like although he's been nice, you've only gotten crumbs. And that's just not good enough after 9 months you know?
I say, approach him. Make sure you're not emotionally fueled. Make sure that you don't use accusatory or "you" language; let him know you just need to open a true line of communication between you guys. As him to define to you what "bad timing" means so that you can better understand where he's coming from and what you should expect out of what you guys have. it's only fair sweetie. Good luck :)
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omg I'm going trough the same thing kinda..mines in the army and he wants to be oficiall but he's like we need to take it slow..its been 8 months and I don't see him often either,and we havnt had sex only kissed..
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It could be the past relationship.
I ended mine 10 months ago and still the thought of a relationship fills me with panic.
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