Is right person wrong timing really a thing?

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If so how do you deal with it? And also how do you come to terms with it all?

DeltaCharlieEcho · Accepted Answer

Women are idiots when it comes down to it. They don’t know what they want so the so I’ll look for answers externally. When they can’t get what they are told that they want they internalize it and spread the bad advice. This is how feminism lead to women demanding equal representation in college and workplaces regardless of their lower comprehension of their majors and their lower productivity in the workplace. The result is that women have flooded the workforce and driven down the cost of labor because the supply is so high; a secondary result is less qualified and competent college graduates because men aren’t doing college anymore.

Women date across and up social dominance hierarchies and in their infinite stupidity they have effectively forced the vast majority of men into a lower class and are all chasing the top 1-5% of men in financial standings. So, yes, it is a turnoff for women to make more than their man and will almost always end in the end of their relationship if not infidelity.

You did this to yourselves; now enjoy your time in hell.

John_Doesnt · Accepted Answer

Yes, some people could be between jobs or in the middle of going to college. Or maybe having a medical problem that needs to be dealt with.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Yes I think it is a thing.

Regret is a tough one. I'm not a good person to be giving advice on that. It's always been a struggle for me. I guess the answer is time. Also distraction, moving on to better things. Or trying to right those old wrongs; that might give some closure. Or contact them, and try again! lol. See, there's no easy one answer.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes! Like right, I just met a great guy like two weeks ago. I have a feeling he likes me as much as I do. But right now I’m living with my parents and my brother, I don’t have a job, I’m literally nothing…so I don’t even want to think of talking to him knowing he is completely the opposite.

Pinay_ako · Answer

🎶 Yes it’s sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along … 🎶

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah “the one who got a away” is the girl I met 8 years ago. If she had of met me 4 years later I might of taken a knee.

However when I really think hard about it there still might of been problems. She was a moderate liberal at the time and I’m a moderate conservative. We debated (which I enjoyed) but never argued over politics. I changed her perspectives on abortion and she changed mine on gay marriage.

But she wanted to make new friends and get involved with acting. She then made friends with the wrong crowd (far, far leftist Hollywood feminist types). And I know they poisoned her mind against me. Not that I helped myself because I was going through my own struggles at the time.

I wasn’t surprised when she wanted to break up. But initially agreed to be respectful and friendly. She later treated me like I was less than human (not exaggerating). Said some of the nastiest insults to me that I’ve ever taken from a woman in my life. She knew what she was doing too.

So maybe it really was a fundamental problem. For the longest time I blamed myself but now I see it wasn’t all my fault. I am also highly suspicious she cheated (never got it proven)

Sandeeppingping · Answer

No it isn't, I used to say yes, but then I realized that there are people who'd move mountains for the people they love, meanwhile there are people who come up with bs like "ohh I'm just too busy with studying" or "I'm having problems with my family" or "I'm too busy with work I'm exhausted" ; now all the bullshit alibis that we tell ourselves and believe to excuse the other person or the other person does to excuse us is nothing but that, fake excuses, and it's usually girls/women that fall for it much more than guys, I personally know for a fact, if I love someone, there is nothing too important that could stop me from being with her

hyperben · Answer

hard yes, there are times where you meet a really compatible person but everything else is wrong, maybe you're in a relationship or joining the military/going to college etc. The "easy" option is to chalk it up to experience and move on but you will always have that lingering doubt as to whether you did the right thing. The harder thing to do is to gamble cancelling ALL your other plans and trying to make this work, obviously, there is the chance (a pretty good one) that you will regret not following your other plans and resenting that person for this (when the times are not great)

With all that said, you normally meet the "right" person when you are in a good head space, it is more about you and what you project to the world than it is about the other person, if you are happy and living a good life, you will attract the right people regardless of the timing.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes very much so, going through that at moment, or have been through it, not worked that bit out yet.

for example you may be a rocky relationship when you meet someone amazing, however you are in a relationship and it’s unfair for the other person to wait on a maybe and what if thing.

Guy13 · Answer

It is an oxymoron and nonsensical. If is the right person then it will also be the right timing as one is not a true statement unless the other is true too. And likewise, If the Timing is wrong then the person is also wrong.

"I like here but man, the Timing is bad" may be a feeling but ultimately it is a false positive and/or wishful thinking.

Anonymous · Answer

surely.. if someone close to you just died for example, or you had a bad break up, there might not be enough emotional energy to get another relation going.

Personally if someone told me it was bad timing, then I might stick around as a friend and see if it evolves later when things are settled.

UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT · Answer

Not everyone is compatible with everyone else , romantic relationship or neighbourly relations , some just cannot be around each other because of their energetical compositions which would result in abuse. Yet there are those who are ill and would rather see someone or something suffer , which is why sometimes when two beings meet it will result in the abuse of someone or something.

IveGotNoName · Answer

No. The right person, is the person who is right for who you are right now, and who you once were, and who you will be.

If we reverse it, as in you meet someone who would have been the right person a few years prior, is that the right person? No.

The right person is the one who is always the right person, not just a phase of your life. People change constantly.

yourpalval · Answer

Yes, I also believe wrong person right time is true. Like you caught them during a perfect window when things were good but there was always something lurking in the background that you thankfully never had to deal with by the time you moved to the next chapter without them.

Kabluie · Answer

Sometimes you meet cool people when you are in a disinterested stage. Maybe you had a break-up, or life things in the way. Keeping them around in terms of continuing to talk can help. There are few people I talked to but only started dating years later.

JDavid25 · Answer

No.. Because with the right person there is no wrong time.. You'll work hard and work it out.. I personally don't believe in the "right" person.. Just a person you mesh with really well, and choose to stick it out for the long run..

Wubs3000 · Answer

Yeah def a thing people have ups and downs in life. Kinda similar to right person wrong timing was when someone had a crush on me but I didn't like them back, but then later I had a crush on them and they didn't like me back.

innerman · Answer

I I met “the one” a while ago.
I knew her about 6yrs before we started dating,
Yes, she was everything I imagined, everything I wished for, everything I hoped for... all those 6 years

Now I just wish I waited a little while longer...

007kingifrit · Answer

there are lots of relationships i squandered when i was a teenager that would have been great to have when i was older, i lacked the maturity and emotional intelligence at that age to know they had to be cared for carefully. if i had met those when i was older they might have lasted

Qdbrown · Answer

It's a thing. It happens to me when I am with someone that was not the best person, but settling with.

Then this really person shows up, and you are not ready for them. Not without being unethical to them, or yourself.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, it is. Sometimes we meet someone when they aren't ready for a relationship, or we aren't, or neither of us is ready. I've been in relationships with lovely people when I wasn't capable of being a good partner.

krin_m · Answer

Yes, it can be. Some times you just have to accept the fact that it was not meant to be and move on. You may get lucky and they come back in your life. Happened to me and I feel very fortunate!

RoosterMcGavin · Answer

Yeah I would say so, but with that being said, if they are the right person then you have to do the right thing, which is always where the confusion comes in. But legitimately I dropped everything for my wife because I knew she was the right one. It definitely wasn't the right time, but I made it the right time because she was the right one...5yrs rolling strong.

Anonymous · Answer

right person wrong time is not a thing.
Every relationship will evolve just like every individual.
If it’s the wrong time doesn’t matter because life comes at you with a series of waves you just have to find the right person to navigate those waves with.
If there in the middle of a wave and you can’t or won’t join them than it’s not the right person.
If you’re in the middle of a wave and you don’t want that person to join you same.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yes all the “my types” come around when i’ve agreed to commit to someone. Shit pisses me off lol

jhl_x · Answer

The fact that it happened several times with me involving several different people kinda kill the concept of "right person", or at least an only one.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I think so, but I force myself to ignore it, let it go, and move on. It’s better to still cheer them on from the sidelines then be a home-wrecker and potentially lose a friend.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Yes it is, there may not always be a right solution to it. Example you meet someone but that person is already married, you won't break his marriage because that would be a wrong thing to do.

DermalPunch · Answer

No. Its BS. They weren't really the one or you are a coward.

Jltakk · Answer

It is absolutely a thing. There are things in life that happen and completely throw us for a loop. Some folks need time to themselves and jumping into relationships sometimes isn't the healthiest thing to do.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Not how its generally used. Right person wrong time IS true when i meet a girl who is awesome but she had sex already. Wrong time. Too bad we didn't meet before you slept around.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless you're already in a relationship no. The right person for you is still the right person for you. People don't really change. If they do. They're someone you shouldn't be with anyhow.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

Yes. It is definitely real. It’s also depressing lol

monkeynutts · Answer

If you cared you would find out what would make you right, and become that very quickly.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Is wrong person, right timing really a thing then?

Staximus · Answer

Yeah it's a thing. You come to terms by finding the right person for the right time.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Possibly but I won’t know until the right person comes

Marshymallow · Answer

Yes I’ve met some good people at really bad times.

Lickmymeet · Answer

No it’s just another way for people to not hold themselves accountable

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Yeah I had that... It feels really bad

Apulu_Imback · Answer

It's all about timing.

tanvishah123 · Answer

Nope its just an excuse

animesenpai · Answer

I think it is and I still haven't I regret so much

dophix · Answer

Yes , i met this awesome guy but he is taken.

In_Trance · Answer

No such thing as wrong time

Yuuibtony · Answer

No it just be attractive

Exterminatore · Answer

Not really.

maximumpower · Answer

oh, god yes.

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