Perfect question.
I am being realistic and talking about God at the same time.
I met women in my past life that ( we ) thought would be perfect for each other, 100% match BUT yes But she was for me. God put us together so I could help her with her next phase of life. Some how we both got it and moved in. This was no quick relationship it had lasted 4 years. My second experience was with a woman we thought we was going to be married. A friend introduced me to a Christian woman because I was depressed and she Hated men after what her ex husband put her through. The relationship started off very bad because she had no trust nor faith in men. I was from a divorce where my ex-wife cheated on me 5 times and we had three kids.
Well, the woman that hated men had a 13 year old daughter that she taught to not trust men. Any way, we was put together by our shared friends and heavily monitored. She started trusting me because her daughter liked talking to me about life. So we started dating. 6 months into dating and actually fall ( in love ). The purpose why I was in her life came to light. You can go to heaven with hate in your heart. She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and I took care of her until she died. She died being in love and not hating. I went through all of the emotions. Anger, depression, etc but at the end of the day reality kicks in after the fact and you have two choices, accept or don't accept it.
Sometimes God will use your strengths. So it might seem like the "right person wrong ". You have to look at the big picture.
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Great question. I use to believe that but for the last 10 years I have totally been proven that everything happens for a reason. I actually was being shown this my entire life, it just took me this long to figure it out as proof to myself. God was just rolling his eyes saying "finally ya get it dumbass" lol...
Every person with their qualities, quirks, quacks, and promises all played a major role in helping me become the person I a today. It was a learning process. It took a great deal of trial and error. I dated a lot had some amazing people I shared my life with some short some long term. I had always wondered why it always hurt to lose someone and why that experience needed to happen until TODAY. half a century later and I have fallen in love and totally smitten by someone who actually feels the same and has no problem expressing that to me. TRUE LOVE we know we are THE ONE made for each other and we needed our paths to go through everything it needed exactly for our paths to cross at this very moment.
This is my opinion... i am a firm believer in things happen in our lives for reasons and that sometimes we know the reasons and sometimes it takes us time to see the reason why someone was placed there and then sometimes we never know the reason... i can tell you in my life so far i know without any doubt why many people where put in my path and most where there for lessons that i needed for my future survival... so basically my answer is right person wrong time and it didn't work out or looks like its not going to work out, then that person was just a stepping stone to something bigger.. like a higher plan for your future... if its meant to be then who knows that person might resurface in your future when the timing is better, what's that saying if its meant to be it will be. I myself am in a right person wrong time situation... he was a right person wrong time who turned out 30 years later to be a right person right time now... without him i dont know if i would have gotten thur my husband's death. But i do also know that when we were growing up during that time he wasn't ready for someone like me. I hope this brings you some insight!
Yes. I have always told people especially before I turned 18, that I am not ready to be dating or is interested in that until 18. They didn't want to at least be friends or anything. They left and fooled around. Now they regret their choices. I mourned then, but now I'm not caring what they do. The right person knows how to treat you and others better. I believe in God's timing and not in our timing. Most people shouldn't even be with certain people or they lack good judgment. That has nothing to do with time.
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Absolutely, just like you can have the wrong person at the right time (feeling horny, feeling lonely) and settle hard for a while, nights or weeks, until the timing is right with someone else.
I mean, hell, you're 22, that's young, but old enough that the type of men you go for has changed some since you were 18.
At those times, they were the right person at the right time. Now though... maybe not so much.Absolutely it can happen. The circumstances of life do get in the way. There are so many examples of why it might not be the right timing.
I think so yes - I think God was showing me through signs when I prayed I would not get a guy until I was ready for one
I've learned that it takes time to get to know someone. Whether it's the right or wrong time. I have standards. Those standards have to be met in order for me to consider having a serious relationship.
I will say that we all have flaws and it's up to a person to accept them or move on.
It also depends on the situation your in when you meet someone at the wrong time.
Sometimes meeting someone at the wrong time builds a stronger relationship. If your just building a friendship first with no extra activity.
I say this because if they are willing to stick around at the wrong time. I believe things will work out better than meeting someone at the right time. I been there done that in many situations and I learned the hard way in some situations.The guy I just started dating, used to be my coworker. We've discussed dating before but decided against it because at the time we worked together. We decided to remain good friends though. He turned in his two weeks notice last month, told me that he always liked me, and he asked out on a date a few days after he quit. We've been seeing each other since then. At the time when we decided against dating, I remember thinking he was the right person but wrong time. Now, I feel if it's truly the right person but wrong time, those feelings will never go away.
Yes, but I also believe if you really feel theyâre right for you and want to marry them, youâll make that happen. It can be the wrong time but the wrong time also means lack of effort.
Generally I feel like people use this, but what they mean is âI want to date others to reallyy see if youâre as ârightâ for me as you seemâ. Aka theyâre not fully invested. I would never start a serious relationship with someone unless I see a future. A lot of people are the same in this, but sometimes theyâre just not ready for the future.Yea that was true past 2 year ago I was looking for some one on social media at that time a girl come in my life or we are in relationship a long distance relationship after that when I was started meet regularly I was found that she was not mature due to her stupidity I had breakup now.. after six months later X was stated talking with me as a just a friend or just a week later the girl was also close me now I have to take both I can't say no to my girlfriend or can't propose the another girl 😣
I'm not sure. I've heard the "i would go out with you but i'm already kind of seeing someone". a lot. First what is kind of seeing someone? Either you are or you aren't. But either i have the worst timing in the world. Or this is a bullshit line women use because they don't have the guts to tell you the truth. " i find you repulsive and i'm not interested" lol.
Despite this, yes i do believe bad timing exists. But if someone was truly that interested they would look you up if and when their current relationship ended now wouldn't they.I've had this happen. He fell very fast in love and said he could never love anyone else ever but I had lots of studies and finals to study for and he was in a very different stage in life a few years older than me. He wasn't okay with being patient really. When we met again a few months later he had already moved on. Wrong time but also wrong person probably.
I think if someone is right you don't meet at the wrong time and if you do you become friends, and then at a time when everything's in the right place it just happens and you're together because if someone is so right for you I think its difficult to drift apart entirely because you gotta be in each others lives, you'll work something out even if at the time its just friendship. Just my two cents from my experience so far in life.Well, there are two possible answers to this question. If it's the wrong time and you reject them, then, at the end of the day, that means they were the wrong person. But if it's the wrong time but you wait for them, then that means they are ultimately the right person. But Option 2 requires some sort of mutual agreement.
Absolutely. As an example there are a lot of people with good qualities who I'd want to befriend but were/are immature and we didn't get along till later after they matured. Same way with myself. There are a lot of people who would wanna be my friend when I'm perhaps a more mature and fulfilled person. The right person can come into your life at the wrong time but if they came at a different time it'd be better.
When you are young, or at a different stages in life, sure.
Like when you are yet to forge your own path because you are still in high school/college and reliant on parental support and approval.
I think dating isn't even worth it until you become independent and capable of cutting off your relatives, if necessary.I hope that the phrase "right person wrong time" is true. I have recently heard that phrase from a friend of mine. She is in a worst relationship but she don't even want to live him and has been trapped in his love. She thinks that if she leave him she will be called as a slut so trying to save the relationship which doesn't have any future. We are friends after the relationship began and she had said twice to thrice that we should have met before they they were together so that the scenario could have different. She always said you are the right person met at wrong time.
Yes there is. Consider you're about to leave the country for education something. Few months before you're going to leave, you meet someone, hit it off in the first meeting, both of you like talking to each other, meet a dozen of times or more. And then you gotta leave everything behind. So yes that does happen and does very much exist.
To a certain extent, I do believe there is such thing as right person, wrong time, but as time goes on, you might come to realise that the person was never right, it may seem right for the moment but things would never have worked out. Just as you say, if it had been the right person, then it'll all work out in the end. So I'd say there's a change of perspective along the way.
I don't know. I guess it depends on how badly the both of you want to make it work. People who say "right person, just the wrong time" are too lazy to pursue it. If they really wanted it, it wouldn't be the wrong time.
What makes it the right or wrong time? You!
You choose what to do with the timing. If this was the right person, and you didn't go for it, you made it the wrong time. It's your choice to jump or not.
This is a question of what you are willing to sacrifice if you got it wrong, and what do you believe to be the right or wrong person? You may not be able to control the timing, however, you can always choose.In these times and situations yes most defenetly i tought i met someone close to the one turns out it was a person only interested in booty calling or for partying etc you get the jist also not that above is defenetly what i wasn't looking for it was a nice ride but but not for me
Many people are the right one. Many choose not to be with the right person and go off with the wrong person, known that they are the wrong person but itâs exciting and fun Right? Later they complain when it donât work out. Seems familiar huh? Then they leave saying that that wrong person ainât shit. Remember YOU picked them and kicked the good one to the curb😳later on NOW your ready for the good guy. At this point the WALL has smashed you in the face and now you have 3 kids but 3 different baby daddies and severely obese. Now you want the good guy to except you as you are and to pay full price for something you have way for free to chad and Tyrone? not going to happen, just saying🤷🏽ââď¸
I believe in right persoon wrong time u know u 2 are really good for each other and haveing An amazing time but u can't be together because of personal stuff u have to deal with An by that time u might not be together and dont speak but if u cross paths in the filter and click again to get in a relationship
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