Is there such thing as "right person wrong time"? (Page 2)
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The right person is only right for you when both of you are in the same stage of life. You can find the woman/man of your dreams but if he doesn't want to commit, and you do, he isn't right for you.
I believe that if you meet a person at the wrong time then he's not the right one. Everything will fall into place in due time and you wouldn't have to force anything.
If it's the wrong time it's the wrong person. it would be careless to assume the right person always comes. Many come hiding their bad intentions. I've seen a lot of things. Bad and good. . . Also, you must be objective, you could be the wrong person in their wrong time.
yes, I feel there is a Right Person, Wrong Time scenario out there.
Things in Life get in the way and some where down the road, Life and Karma agree on stuff and then that person is the Right Person at the Right Time.
I think that if someone came across the right person, they would make time for them and find some way to fit the person into their life no matter what other things they had going on.
Honestly it's a matter of personal opinion, if it were the right person but you weren't ready or weren't willing to date them it technically means they're the wrong person. But again, as others have stated, if you waited for the person or waited for each other it's not that it was the wrong time, it's that it took time for you to decide that it was time to pursue a relationship.
Yes... I am afraid that this sentence is true.
About a year ago I was for a job in Switzerland. Going out with a friend of mine in the evening I met a girl. It was like love at first sight - I tell you guys! She told me that she had feelings for me as well. This scared me... I did not get the job instead I got a job offer 750 kilometers away from her... I already experienced a long distance relationship and the struggle was too big to handle.
That's why I had to break it off with this wonderful woman. It still stings in my heart when I think about her.
At the moment we have little contact and text from time to time. But she found someone else and is now happy in this relationship.. I guess so... this saddens me
I acted like a real dick just to push her away. I still believe that she would be the one. And to be frank, I still have the hope that our ways will cross again. She changed my life and I am such a douchebag for letting her go...
Im applying to go study abroad. Eventually I'll be gone. I met a girl not long ago and she liked me just as I liked her but because of my situation she decided to save the heartbreak that's coming and stop before going too deep.
Essentially right person wrong time
My opinion is more in line with @standingUP opinion.
If life has taught me anything is that there isn't a right person wrong time there is the right person and the wrong person. If he or she is the right person and the time isn't right then if they were truly the right person then when the right time comes around you'll find one another again or get together. That's how it was for my parents.
Sure I met a woman that I might have perused a relationship with once but we were separated in time she was probably in her 70's. If I could have met her at a much younger age I might have gotten involved with her.
I don't believe in it. Maybe you find some awesome person in your life, but your life is not just equal to when you found that person. People evolve, and is normal. Or, even worse, sometimes they just don't want to actually do it. It's maybe pessimistic of my part, but love cannot be just made of time or place. Sometimes, it's just don't work and it's OK.
If it's the wrong time you usually never find out if it's the right person or not. But it's certainly a lost opportunity to find out.
Yes. Sometimes you're born too late for someone and sometimes you don't give the right person a chance because your head is full of stereotypes.
If they come at the wrong time, then they are the wrong person. I'm also a firm believer that people who try to force their relationships to work are assholes though.
Why do you say that they're assholes?
i'm not sure all the events are celestially related to destiny... kinda like a fuggin game of UNO... you can plan and count your chickens, but all you can do... is play the card you CAN play at the time
Yes I believe that! It's happen a few times and I feel pissed off when it does.. but I got to keep believing that if its meant to be, it will be!
She was the right person but definitely the wrong time... bout caught a charge!!! Oh shut up I'm just playing if she's the right one there will never be a wrong time... unless.. you know
Yes of course you can meet the right person at the wrong time I've been in this situation more then once in my life and I've regretted not chucking the situation in favor of the right person
Yes and no. I think the timing can be bad for sure, but the right person also might wait and stick around also if the interest is strong enough and genuine.
I do not subscribe to the notion that there is a "one". Whilst married, I met several women I could have loved, had I been free. So the "wrong time" is certainly true.
What is interesting is how being in a partnership seems to drag other women out of the woodwork.