Why do some men treat pretty women like objects? (Page 2)

Question

A couple of times there has been random guys who treat me like a play piece on a board game. Down right disrespectful. For instance:
- I was standing in line getting food and some guy who always stares at me, but has never spoken to me, was standing in front of me. His friends walked over and stood in line behind me laughing and pushed me toward him while asking him if he had a hard on. And proceed to stand behind me as close as possible, so I couldn't move away.
- In the computer lab one time some guy was with his friend and switched seats just so he could look over my shoulder and spy on me. I was currently finishing a 30pg memoir for my Grandmother and it was really personal and heart wrenching and the two of them just kept on talking and judging it the whole time. And when I finished his friend goes "dude how was it?" and he just laughed and said "It was really corny, but sad dude."
- Another kid that always stares at me once walked by me and purposely bumped into me and I almost fell. So I turned around and said "what the hell" and he just smirked at me and kept walking. 
- Some random guy started playing with my hair one time in line at starbucks, caught my bra and snapped it. 
- One time I was walking and I guess my sunglasses fell out of my back pocket bc the dude behind me picked them up going "hey you dropped these" slide them in my pocket for me while simultaneously squeezing my ass. 

I think one of my biggest problems is I don't know how to stand up for myself and when things like this happen, I just get so awkward and uncomfortable I stay quiet.

Jager66 · Answer

That's fucked up, no one should be treated like that.

hotcode · Answer

It just a matter of howbdo you expose yourself to be I mean men will always be attracted to beautiful women so if you been marked as a beauty but with no admirable personality you may be objectified like this

Hiram · Answer

I read your whole story and I was about to say that you need to start standing up for yourself.

mancatten · Answer

Some people are despicable, man or woman. Have you ever thought of taking a martial art, such as brazilian jiu jitsu or muy thai?

Smegskull · Answer

Why do some women treat wealthy men like objects. Some people can't fight the extremes of our nature.

bigcoolguy · Answer

Maybe those women are presenting themselves as objects.

little_Snail · Answer

For 22 its really weird) Only little boys and teenagers act like this, because they don't know how to behave with someone you like

MarketData · Answer

People may be invading your personal space because you lack "presence". You need to learn assertiveness and practice a confident demeanour.

imparveenkhatri · Answer

U r srong all U need is to believe in urself then U will definitely feel better

prasantsaud · Answer

Thats only some men.  Not every man is like that. We know even some women treat some gentle men like trash.

lsaiah · Answer

If a man treats a woman like an object, it's because she has no other value besides sex

ArnaldoAlvaradoJr · Answer

Probably because they don't don't see value of something until they're gone.

undead99 · Answer

Not all, some guys are just wrong the way they treat woman! Im one of those who would do anything for my girl!

JordanTheMan · Answer

Some guys don't treat Woman like they are not objects because they think they are better than anyone.

Beam_ · Answer

You need the right one. There sooo much guys the want only *** but there are some guys they never do this but they are to 85% shy

Shigellosis · Answer

Is This at work, uni, etc? Get the big cheese involved. Otherwise, get the cops involved

Anonymous · Answer

I think if a guy treats you like that you shouldn't allow him put yourself first

just_N · Answer

Sometimes you have to wear this evil mask to scare idiots around you...

Slim57 · Answer

Because women have treated them like objects in the past

kitkatbar565 · Answer

Guys r just assholes... Period. Date girls

Anonymous · Answer

Why do girls pretend guys who don't get dates or attraction from girls easily don't exist?

BigJake · Answer

Women who get treated that way are usually women who use their sexuality as though it were a tool.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop being quite if you want it to stop. Do you wanna talk?

Yesnomaybe85 · Answer

Yeah You need a little more bitch in you I think.

thatJamiefellow · Answer

I personally think its because they hate females.

Rycer · Answer

You've got to find yourself a good man

Anonymous · Answer

You define how people treat you

oldoldold · Answer

Try these works fuck off. Seems to be appropriate

Riyarobert · Answer

Oh... It's bad thing to do with any one...

newguy26 · Answer

Same reason it's done to us

ok285 · Answer

Get a strong protective boyfriend

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Because it's the shit!

CorvetteBret · Answer

Just tell those guys to stop

Drifting_tiger · Answer

U probably liked it 😏

Anonymous · Answer

That's why I hardly go anywhere by myself.

jamesstarc007 · Answer

Those are some bad guys...

jlad666 · Answer

Some guys weren't raised right

Vishy4dollar · Answer

Those men are actually brainless

ReasonCalm · Answer

Only in America 🇺🇸

Rk7377 · Answer

watch Deadpool😂😎

De_Doctor · Answer

I feel sorry for you

Anonymous · Answer

because its what most of you girls want

daddysir77 · Answer

Because she likes it.

rider42 · Answer

It's end of story...

Juliet1202 · Answer

I don't even know

youmeonly1 · Answer

Wrong men

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