Why do some men feel entitled to get the same affection and attention from pretty women as the good looking men get?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And they get bitter if they don’t.
Meanwhile, they treat women the same way,

don’t they show more attention and affection to the pretty women rather than average looking ones? So why expect women to be different?

This question is not based on my personal life experiences, instead it’s inspired by my observations online.

Why judge others for being shallow when your entire existence is based on being shallow?

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+1 y

My bad, I read something and I post impulsively. I don’t mean everyone’s like that or that anything’s wrong with piking whoever you like.

I’ve not met men like that in real life. It’s just online I read lots of frustrating judgments sometimes.

Have a nice day, everyone.

[DJB72]

Equality darlin. "Feminism" opened up that can of worms 60 years ago by telling women they can have it all.

Now men want it all too because there's no balance in society any more. Men get shot down for not earning enough to support the woman's desired lifestyle but get told they're not entitled to anything for doing it.

80 % of divorces are initiated by women - if the woman is ivy league that number jumps over 90% and men get screwed over by laws written when you could support an average family on a single income and have savings.

Women wanted it all. They sowed the wind, now reap the storm of "equality".

A lot of guys have become cynical because of how they get treated by average women and now by obese women who bring zero to the table but expect everything. Their entitlement has fucked up an entire generation of guys who can't possibly hope to meet the expectations dumped on them, then get criticised when they break under the unrealistic strain they're placed under.

International Men's Mental Health month is June. always has been. Now that's usurped by "Pride". October is historically Men's Suicide Awareness Month. Most people have never heard of it.

75% of suicides are men. But the media twists it to being about the 1 in 4 that are women, ignoring the 3 in 4 that aren't. The militant minority of toxic feminists demand "equality" but don't look at the ugly jobs men do in the blue collar sector on power lines, in sewers and sweeping streets. They only look at the top executives, expect half to be women then expect their prospective partners to have a six figure income, a house in the Hamptons (whatever the fuck that means), two cars on the drive and a 401k (whatever that is). God forbid he has emotional baggage and he's expected to not care that she thought so little of her own self value that she refers to her ex boyfriends as a "body count".

Why do "average" men feel they're entitled to equal treatment as the 5% women queue up to be with irrespective of how they look and what they bring to offer?

Because toxic feminism has lied to our society for 60 years and told both sexes men are a commodity.

Look at how traditional husbands are portrayed in the media. Homer Simpson. Ned Flanders. Weak simps and incels. Young guys who marry their High School sweetheart are the butt of the joke.

And the final insult is being told they're not worthy of having the same affection shown to them because they don't have a six pack.

I'm sure this answer is likely to get me blocked by some people. I don't care if it does. I know if something happened to my wife now and I wanted to remarry I'd be the overweight guy missing one leg and half his remaining foot who's a single father to a young son and over 50. I'd be written off before I get met. "Swiped" over in a throwaway society for trying my whole life to be the decent guy.

I'm not bitter. I love my family. I grieve for what my five year old son will have to grow up in though!

[WindAtMyBack]

Because to do otherwise is self defeating. Let her decide if she wants to be with him. For him to decide ahead of time that she is "out of his league" without even trying is a road to failure.

If he likes her, he should go for it. It doesn't matter if he is a 2 and she is a 9. He should go for it.

No he is not entitled to her affection. But he is entitled to try, which is what he should do.

[Nikki1989]

Nobody is entitled to anything. Looks have nothing to do with it.

[love_conquers_lust]

Another nice pic.

[Lionman95]

It's human nature that everyone wants to be loved and cherished. The rather average woman gets also bitter when she feels she's not as much respected and loved as she wants to be. There is a so called mis match in society either way and people getting bitter about is a natural reaction.

[cloud9vortex1234]

I don't see it that way from my observation. Many of the men aren't entitled because many aren't getting any attention. Their just frustrated. Most men are simple about what they want from women. Far from entitled. I think men should be more entitled. That way their more likely to filter out the wrong women.

[Sevenpointfive]

not sure if it's entitlement or lack of respect that you refer to. everyone wants to be acknowledged to a point even if it's to get rejected.

but you'll have to make your example a little more clearer. what happened exactly?

[Ben487]

I would think average men would expect the same treatment from pretty women regardless. I would also think they would tend to treat pretty women better than the upper echelon of men. It just makes sense and that has been my observation.

[John_Cobretti]

Yo what's up with these Gender wars on this site these days

[Chthou95]

Guarantee they aren't just looking for attention from attractive women. They're looking for attention from all kinds of women. Its the woman with inflated egos due to social media that think they deserve a high value man's attention

[love_conquers_lust]

I advocate judgment. I give it and take it. It’s only fair.

[jahaims]

They are entitled from being spoiled as child, neglected as a child or they have a personality disorder.

[LiamJHayden]

Who knows? No one is actually entitled to attention and affection from anyone else.

[Danny_dan92]

Human nature