Why are men on the internet so cruel?

[Anonymous]

When I interact with other women some of them have the same odd antisocial and judgmental attitude but it's definitely not as common. Women are a lot more likely to interact with people online as if they are still face to face but men seem to feel more entitled to just say whatever cruel thought comes to mind whether or not they'd actually have the guts to say it to someone's face.

It's really obnoxious, it feels like a lot of men hate women as a hobby and are cruel to other men out of jealousy and insecurity and it all comes out the moment they can hide behind a screen. While women are more likely to direct their anger at themselves with self-deprecating comments men, especially on here, just constantly attack everyone else. If you look at the meanest comments on pretty much any post here it's mainly men. Why can't more men go to therapy? It's gotten ridiculous!

[inhua]

men are more cruel towards each other than they are cruel towards women. people have always been more cruel towards those similar to them than those opposite to them.

white people have been at war with other white people for centuries, calling each other a racist and trying to distance themselves from that label. the middle ages, the civil war, WW1, WW2 were all fought with white people against other white people.

as much as black liberals hate white people, they hate black conservatives far more and will often call them coons, sellouts, sambos, coconuts etc. the violence within their inner cities might as well be a warzone.

the majority of Islamic suicide bombings occur in muslim countries.

simps, cucks and male feminists are quick throw their fellow men under the bus and call them sexist, misogynist, incels etc. for any disagreement in regards to women.

feminazis approve of women's bad choices and shred apart women's good choices with labels of prude, pick-me etc. they believe women need the approval of the feminist hive mind otherwise those women are just following the "patriarchy". they even have a term called TERFs to label women who disapprove of transgender men being women.

even then, what constitutes as hate? telling the truth? stating some facts, stats and data? recalling a lived experienced? sure they can be uncomfortable but it doesn't make it any less true. overexaggeration? perhaps. but these truths don't just fall out of the sky from nowhere.

[Asker]

I think the issue is that "good choices" are any choices that benefit men and "bad choices" are any choices that don't. But then that's also confusing because women who are stay-at-home moms are supposed to be making the "good choice" according to males such as yourself but then women who expect a man to provide and won't pay half on the first date are bitches who are way out of line. Women are sluts when they do have sex and ice princesses when they won't. Men say they want a traditional woman who does all the domestic labor but will call her a lazy freeloader if she doesn't pay half the bills. There's so much hypocrisy and THEN most of the time if you don't align with a specific man's views exactly he will obsessively hound you about it and call you degrading names like what he hears in porn. So many men, especially on here will follow a woman from one comment to another and one post to another and get in her dms and he won't let up until she blocks him. And ofte all you have to do is dissagree with them, you don't even have to insult them back, It's like it's their part-time job and they're being paid for it! I know men don't experience this but it's quite common and very odd behaviour.

[inhua]

which "good choices" are you referring to? being a housewife doesn't benefit men. it benefits the man you love and if you do love him, that shouldn't be a bad thing. "bad choices" would be you giving away girlfriend benefits by having sex with multiple men and they don't give you boyfriend benefits in return. sure, it's your choice to do so but you can't control the thoughts of men if they view you as nothing more than a sex object.
as far as the hypocrisy is concerned, if you manage to separate the individuals from the group, you'll find it's quite consistent. no individual man is gonna say those sentences at the same time. a man who is looking for a wife/girlfriend "might" call you a slut and a man looking for sex "might" call you a prude but I can guarantee they are not the same individual. same thing with the whole freeloader and bills issue.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

We are not cruel, we are just real. When real men speak, they say the truth and they do not hide behind words. Women are emotional creatures that talk with emotions rather than logic. Men have no problem been "cruel" and use rough words whenever it's needed because we are not afraid to hurt anyone because that's how we work and it's difficult to operate in a different way so you don't "hurt" someone.

When someone asks for my opinion, I give it straight and without bullshit! Still, 99% I could have been much much cruel if I wanted but chose not to as it's probably unnecessary and won't help. So the amount of "cruelty" in my comments are ALWAYS necessary. If the truth is offensive to you, then you should only post on places that are women-only.

When it comes to real life, most men will not say it in your face because you can start screaming and crying and 5 other white knights will come to your aid so we gotta be careful and we cannot be ourselves. Same is true for women because you are also afraid. Nobody is themselves in real life so cut the crap!

About hating women, yes a lot of men do but a lot women hate men as well. I have just seeing some comments in other posts before so don't challenge me on that one.

Finally the statement that women are more likely to direct their anger at themselves with self-deprecating comments is just LAUGHABLE!!! While G@G's women are better than a lot of other platforms, a lot of women here are self-delusional to the bone! A lot of men are terrible as well but in contrast to you, I never claimed that there aren't guys that are terrible.

I think that your post is ridiculous and you and everyone else that makes these type of posts should seek therapy...

P. S. TO G@G admins: If my comment gets deleted again just because I'm saying the truth and some buts can't handle it, I'm out of G@G!

[Asker]

The thing that's really funny to me is that women are supposedly more emotional but in reality men just like to live in a fantasy land where anger is somehow a logical response to everything instead of an emotion.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Lol! Sad how I spent a lot of time for your to understand ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! It's fine if you want to get pleasurable replies that will make you feel good about your choices but not from real men. Cheers!

[Asker]

okay incel

[Anonymous]

Well there’s a number of reasons. For one, one of the main reasons is men are just tired of women’s bs. Men are realizing they’ve been shafted a lot in society when it comes to relationships. Whether that’s divorce, girl pregnant w another man’s kid, loss of finances, they’ve seen what other men have gone through. So there are a lot of men who really mean what they say. On the other hand it could be that they are just playing w you. Men show affection by being assholes. I don’t mean an asshole like straight up cruel, I mean like talking shit to each other. Let’s say some dude got crabs from some chick, we may talk shit to him like calling him “crabs.” We have a sense of humor way different than women, which honestly women really don’t seem to have a sense of humor. If I said something like damn stop eating all the donuts you’re starting to look like one, a majority of women would get hurt, feel as though I was being cruel. If I said that to my bros they’d probably say fuck you you already are a donut or some silly comeback.

[Jackblue]

Well, men are afraid of appearing to like other people because we are afraid other people will use emotional weaknesses they sense against us. We sometimes feel like respect comes from tearing other people to shreds. Making another man cry is kind of the ultimate victory.

[Anonymous]

Men have endured decades of anti-male sentiment and behavior from feminism and women in general, including in mainstream society and media. What you seeing from men online today is a product of a lot of built up resentment and anger about all of that.

[Anonymous]

It's not as common from women to you because you're not taking it as personal as you are coming from men. Pretty simple!

[Asker]

The thing is women won't be as vicious immediately or make derogatory sexual comments the moment you disagree on something.

[Opinion Owner]

Says you! I've seen just as many women antagonize guys on here just for asking an innocent question. You just think it's more men.

[Shy_Steve]

It's usually because Women are cruel to him in real life.

[Anonymous]

i say it right to people's faces as well i just don't give a shit

[slatyb]

Anymore attracts assholes.

[Anonymous]

Men in general are pretty pissed off today.

[Nahid1707]

Haters will hate