Guy asked to sleep with me before he moves away. Is he a good guy?

[Anonymous]

So this guy at my university and I have kissed a couple of times. I know he at least finds me attractive. He even fought other guys for my attention. But it's not just me he has made out with, there have been other girls too. (Hook up culture is very popular here.)

But he's leaving university, and he asked me if I would sleep with him before he goes. What does this mean? Is he a player or a good guy?

[236color]

I don't know, he's not a bad guy necessarily. Consider this carefully. Understand it's a one time, sex only thing. He's going to be gone so you don't want to catch the feels for him. If you can't hit it and quit it, don't do it.

[spartan55]

It doesn't really mean anything. If you want cheap sex then go for it.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Sex doesn't equal to love.

As you shared, "But it's not just me he has made out with, there have been other girls too." he is obviously a player. Don't give him access to your body if you're hoping that he will change.

[DishLady]

No, he’s just trying to get some. Step away from the thirsty guy.

[ohsheeT]

Well we don't know him you should probably ask all the other girls that he asked the same question to. I mean if you reread your question you answered it for yourself you just have to listen to your words

[Mr_twoface]

It simply means he wants to have sex with no strings attached with you! He might be a player and a good guy... who knows!

[slatyb]

He asked making no promises. Send fine to me. What do you want?

[bobby_bush_eater]

Well we don't know him. You're old enough to judge this, he's being forward with his intentions. It's literally up to you

[DrPepper12]

Rock his world with that magic between your legs, your mouth and your hands! Let's see him move then !!

[Anonymous]

He just wants you as a booty call.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he just wants to use you.

[AngryCarl]

I mean that's an ONS, not a relationship.

[Badgirlnatalia]

Lol no