Why does my boyfriend agree with everything I say?

[Anonymous]

[BCRanger10]

Maybe because he's afraid it might start a fight or create friction in the relationship? Personally, I don't think it would be a bad idea to ask him how comfortable he would feel disagreeing with you. I asked my girlfriend the same thing a few weeks ago.

[Avallach]

1 flattering
2 walks away from fights
3 passive

[Asker]

Anyway to know which one.

[Avallach]

Decide yourself, you have more information

[Asker]

But YOU are the guy. If I could decide for myself then this site would be debunk lulz ♥️❤️ ty!

[Avallach]

Next time please elaborate on a situation
I would make a guess judging from your and his age that he just avoids any conflict

[Asker]

Hey thnx I appreciate

[Lejan07]

Probably because his dad or friends told him that the only thing women want to hear is “you’re right”.

[Asker]

Thanks for the answer. He will go out of his way in our next convo after I politely disagree to state my POV as his own. Is this a sign of love? What's up? I think it's sweet but why lol

[Lejan07]

I think he’s definitely doing it to be nice to you, but it’s kinda a sign of weakness as well. Someone shouldn’t hide their own opinion to please someone else, or think it’s not important or good enough.

[Asker]

I think he's worried I'll say, "We aren't compatible because we disagree on this really big issue." So I guess it's a good sign!

[Jzjzjz]

Maybe he’s trying to impress you by having the same view on everything :/

[Asker]

Why the :/

[Jzjzjz]

because I’m not quite sure :/ so it’s kind of a confused face haha

[Asker]

Oooh ok! Hey I appreciate you helping me out :) ♥️

[Jzjzjz]

:) no problem

[SmoMan71]

Because he doesn’t have an opinion of his own.

[Asker]

But he does! He's so smart-so why change his opinion?

[SmoMan71]

Being smart doesn’t mean he is capable of thinking on his own.

[Asker]

True. Do guys ever act like they have different opinions to impress a girl?

[SmoMan71]

Couldn’t tell you what other people do. I haven’t ever done that. Not much point in pretending to be someone I’m not for the sake of making someone else like me. If someone doesn’t like me it’s their problem, not mine.

[Asker]

Right? That's how I think! I'm flattered that this guy is adapting to fit me-and he has said he is too open minded and he's looking for someone more firm-so maybe it's good

[SmoMan71]

If you are having fun, explore it. Just be cautious.

[Asker]

I am-not sure if this is a red flag. It feels weird but at the same time it just seems like puppy love.

[SmoMan71]

Oh, I wouldn’t stay in that sort of relationship. I need someone with a mind of her own.

[Asker]

Oh I understand! I almost test him sometimes just to see if he'll start mirroring me. I have a very strong INTJ masculine personality, so I'm glad he's more beta. At the same time, being headstrong is downright sexy when it's done right by a man.

Hey, I appreciate your helping me out! You rock Smo!! ♥️❤️

[SmoMan71]

… Do you actually know me, or is that just a huge coincidence?

[Asker]

That I called u by ur online name?

You figure it out, Smo. Listen to ur heart. Mwahaha

[SmoMan71]

Strong confident woman, tendency for shitty relationships. “You rock” you sound quite a bit like a girl who is basically my little sister.

[Asker]

I'm the oldest hahaha but go give ur sis a big hug for me lol. I'm really happy with who I am, but it def takes a lot more effort to find the right guy when you are not a typical dame.

You rock ;)

[SmoMan71]

I haven’t seen her in about a year, but the girl I was thinking of would be 26,27 now I think. “You rock” was a bit of an inside joke we had.

[Asker]

lol I'm a little younger than her. Nite Smooo youuuu rock

And roll

Obv I need sleep bc so laaaaaame

[SmoMan71]

Fair enough. night.

[outside_Toronto]

Because you have a girlfriend

[Asker]

No upvote for youuuu lol

[outside_Toronto]

You can't tell me you respect a guy that does that. You might find it cute now, but you'll be gouging your eyes out later. Tell him to grow a pair

[Asker]

I actually find it reassuring bc otherwise he is not an affectionate guy

[outside_Toronto]

I suppose that's all that matters.

[Asker]

Hey ty! I lurve House by the way ♥️❤️😘

[outside_Toronto]

👍👍 excellent

[cantorism]

how do you react when he disagrees?

[Asker]

If it's important I say we may be incompatible. If it's little then I just say, "I disagree bc ____ and we leave it at that."

[Asker]

Put ending " in wrong place-should be after _______

[Welshman2]

He's a doormat

[Asker]

But lol he said he didn't love me

[rapfan107]

Cause he doesn't want start fights

[Revolver_]

He just does

[Asker]

3 more words and I'll upvote u

[Revolver_]

Thank you madam

[Asker]

LOLOL

[Anonymous]

He’s whipped

[Asker]

But he said he doesn't love me yet... then why agree on everything

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know?
Just b/c he hasn’t said it, doesn’t mean that he does not live u

[Asker]

lol I know bc I said it and he said he just doesn't know me that well... I think he does. Maybe that's why I disagree with him.. to be reassured that he wants me. So I guess the prob is with me! Wow. Thanks Anon!