Well I honestly think it's starts with early childhood insecurities. Or lack of attention from their mothers. Results in them seeking for attention and leads to adult issues such as jealousy, self consciousness, and about behavior.. that is my opinion. Basically vice versa of the phrase Daddy issues within some women..
More than likely these guys have either been without a woman for so long n haven't even tried so they feel desperate n result to just trying anything to make a connection or they are lonely n can't even get a convo out of a girl or they r pigs n get hookers n just dgaf about u n how u feel or ur self worth so they offer money
I don't know, I wouldn't date a girl with big ass. It isn't my type. Also big boobs are not my type, the best boobs are the type that fit perfectly in your hand.
Downvoter - please.. i am open to debate... sorry if i offended you.. but you didn't stand p for your own opinion.. so what is that downvote supposed to change my mind or what?
Sorry to hear the news - I saw nothign wrong with the question; Aside from the symptoms of courtly love - A comment on jokers.. "Why who cries out in pride That can tax any private party?" "Or what is he of basest function That says his bravery is not on my cost, Thinking that I mean him, but therein suits his folly to the mettle of my speech? There then! How then? What then? Let me see wherein My tongue hath wronged him. If it do him right, then he hath wronged himself; if he be free, why then my taxing like a wild goose flies unclaimed of any man." As you like it. W. S. Jaques Act2Scene7
Sigh, nothing Makes them that way--that's just who they are. For every desperate guy there's an easy girl somewhere. You should level up your social interaction stat so that you're dealing in more quality gentleman.
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Because they are desperate. For real.
Nature designed males to basically be ready to risk death to get mating opportunities. Men who quietly lived alone and died are gone from the gene pool and modern men are not descended from them.
They just haven't discovered how much more fun it is to have high standards and self control. Women sense this and they are the ones that become desperate. Tell that to most guys and they would never understand.
That is a good question and it amazing how low a mans standards will drop when they are desperate. Guys will beg, lie... whatever it takes once they reach a truly desperate level. I am not proud of it but I have done it.
Because they where never taught how to be men, as a result they have no idea how to attract women (who are attracted to masculinity). Which results in little to no success and desperation quickly follows.
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It sounds like you're very full of yourself, I'd work on that if I were you.
Anon really has some serious issues with you Tsundere.
Even if she thought you were lying like she said before (was removed for viciousness I assume?) why would that even matter so much to her so much? Mean people out there. I hate to see people bullied.
@Astraea yeah, I noticed. She’s been attacking me on my other questions too telling me the same stuff. It all comes back to a guy I asked about a few times and now apparently I’m stalking him. This person is clearly a low life. I have made it known that I have depression and anxiety so I guess that makes me a target. Luckily GaG does let you block anons and I do report them and their comment usually gets deleted the next day. I don’t know what the problem is that they have with me. They don’t know me. Thanks for your kind words.
No problem. There are a lot of people like that here, this girl sounds insecure, I met a moderator like that my first day here. When you ask your question, don't allow anon remarks.
I'm shocked I've never seen guys pay for a date I thought that was something that only happens in movies but I guess some guys have a hard time getting a date
Being in love with someone who doesn't feel the can turn someone desperate but having to pay for a date sounds stupid and has nothing to do with love. So I can't pin down the reason behind it x
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Well I honestly think it's starts with early childhood insecurities. Or lack of attention from their mothers. Results in them seeking for attention and leads to adult issues such as jealousy, self consciousness, and about behavior.. that is my opinion. Basically vice versa of the phrase Daddy issues within some women..
More than likely these guys have either been without a woman for so long n haven't even tried so they feel desperate n result to just trying anything to make a connection or they are lonely n can't even get a convo out of a girl or they r pigs n get hookers n just dgaf about u n how u feel or ur self worth so they offer money
If you have a big nice ass and big ass boobs and a fucking nice body then that is why.
I don't know, I wouldn't date a girl with big ass. It isn't my type. Also big boobs are not my type, the best boobs are the type that fit perfectly in your hand.
@CaptainLegal That's good to know because I am a B cup XD
Well that's lovely to hear :)
Saying please is just petistooling and automaticallly puts you at an upper hand sooooo DON'T DO THAT FULLAS.
Downvoter - please.. i am open to debate... sorry if i offended you.. but you didn't stand p for your own opinion.. so what is that downvote supposed to change my mind or what?
Also - it is the concept of courtly love ; shown in Shakespeare's works.
Sorry to hear the news - I saw nothign wrong with the question;
Aside from the symptoms of courtly love - A comment on jokers..
"Why who cries out in pride That can tax any private party?"
"Or what is he of basest function That says his bravery is not on my cost, Thinking that I mean him, but therein suits his folly to the mettle of my speech? There then! How then? What then? Let me see wherein My tongue hath wronged him. If it do him right, then he hath wronged himself; if he be free, why then my taxing like a wild goose flies unclaimed of any man."
As you like it. W. S. Jaques Act2Scene7
Sigh, nothing Makes them that way--that's just who they are. For every desperate guy there's an easy girl somewhere. You should level up your social interaction stat so that you're dealing in more quality gentleman.
Because they are desperate. For real.
Nature designed males to basically be ready to risk death to get mating opportunities. Men who quietly lived alone and died are gone from the gene pool and modern men are not descended from them.
I agree some guys are like that normally the one's who are supposed to be players are actually the ones practically begging
Imagine if no one ever approached you and 9/10 people you approached said no. Would make you a bit desperate no?
Well I am in that situation but I don’t ask anyone out out of desperation.
Add in the other 1/10 insult you or emotionally hurt you for even asking.
@CheckPlease also has happened to me
Well love u desperate.. the other person seems desperate but might he loves u so much..
It is also a term that is ambiguous. I found most girls call desperate the romantic acts of an unattractive guy
They just haven't discovered how much more fun it is to have high standards and self control. Women sense this and they are the ones that become desperate. Tell that to most guys and they would never understand.
Fine to be desperate but constant begging is a no no. Turn off for anyone.
In terms of why. Might just want to get in you pants maybe hahaha
That is a good question and it amazing how low a mans standards will drop when they are desperate. Guys will beg, lie... whatever it takes once they reach a truly desperate level. I am not proud of it but I have done it.
Because they where never taught how to be men, as a result they have no idea how to attract women (who are attracted to masculinity). Which results in little to no success and desperation quickly follows.
It sounds like you're very full of yourself, I'd work on that if I were you.
I am not. I’m depressed and self-loathing.
I don't think so...
Anon really has some serious issues with you Tsundere.
Even if she thought you were lying like she said before (was removed for viciousness I assume?) why would that even matter so much to her so much? Mean people out there. I hate to see people bullied.
@Astraea yeah, I noticed. She’s been attacking me on my other questions too telling me the same stuff. It all comes back to a guy I asked about a few times and now apparently I’m stalking him. This person is clearly a low life. I have made it known that I have depression and anxiety so I guess that makes me a target. Luckily GaG does let you block anons and I do report them and their comment usually gets deleted the next day. I don’t know what the problem is that they have with me. They don’t know me. Thanks for your kind words.
No problem. There are a lot of people like that here, this girl sounds insecure, I met a moderator like that my first day here. When you ask your question, don't allow anon remarks.
Yes. I forgot to do that and I kind of regret it
Aw okay, well at least you know.
I'm shocked I've never seen guys pay for a date I thought that was something that only happens in movies but I guess some guys have a hard time getting a date
Being in love with someone who doesn't feel the can turn someone desperate but having to pay for a date sounds stupid and has nothing to do with love. So I can't pin down the reason behind it x
Men are more attracted to women than women are to men, dating is easy for women.
They can’t be independent. They depend on women’s approval too much. It’s fucking pathetic
Nope, they are desperate to have sex, simple. Probably virgins. Well, mostly virgins.
It is still pathetic.
Yeah it is. Both genders do stuff that is pathetic to the opposite one.
Okay... but I’m in the topic of why men do X. I’m not even talking about why women do certain things. That’s a totally different topic of discussion
SEX. Yup, SEX, they are virgins that think they will end up alone all their life if they don't have sex.
Your views of the world are about as complex as a doorstop.
Lack of maturity and self worth. They'll learn to respect themselves as they get older.
I wanted to say some have trouble getting some, and some might just really need it suddenly. Anyways who is and who isn't i don't care about