Guys aren't desperate, they are determined. I'm not talking about a group of guys, simply one on one. I think t=tht already establishes some intimacy I can't speak for most guys, only myself, When I got over 35, my tastes started to change to feeling I had the ultimate power over a lover when my tongue had already excited he a lot ans we're closiong in on the (at least) First O. I can feel the catch in her breath as the orgasmic waves start to flow and now she has very little choice. Shorrt of a fire, she wants to cum soon. I want to stretch that out until she just can't stand any more sensations until their wonders of her own orgasm (s) squirm b=her pelvis and start her pelvic thursts. Hopefull yshe will be the type that once is the first O has happened, she will experience weytter and more intense orgasms each time thereafter. I also love keeping softened ice cubers in a glass and just as she's coming slide two inside both her pussy and her ass.
I'm just as desperate to repeating that as much or more than anything but I've noticed that girls who hav cum a few times and still want stim., will be anlot more experiemnta;. Its like theyv'e gottern permission to be nasty. Much to my delighty
It’s gonna sound sexist but it’s because in today world women hold all of the power when it comes to sex, if a girl wanted to have sex she could literally just go out and find it whereas withguys it’s hard enough just to get a date which is the very first step to sex, and in that situation a million things have to go one of two ways to lead to sex all of which are controlled by the woman. That’s my opinion anyway
Eek! I would be offended if I was offered payment for a date. That’s a new low.
I imagine either they know that you are out of their league so they will do anything to be with you or they just have low self-worth and think they must bribe a girl in order to have a date. Either way it is really sad to think about.
It's not that they are desperate its them wanting affection.. . And if you're cool they want it from you to tell them they are special in many ways. It's a compliment to you... but that's just me. I get that too! 😊 i dont mind it... it just means i am cool!
Maybe they don't have a lot of luck with women and been rejected a lot. They are probably lonely and want the company of a woman cause they never been in a relationship.
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Lack of Options.
First of we have to realize that men get attracted to women for different reasons. For men selection of mate depents on how fit the girl is meaning the waist to hip ratio and symmetrical facial features, which you girl take care of with makeup. Woman on the other hand are attached to the personality of the man caz she has to be sure that the guy is emotionally strong and can take care of her and her offsprings.
Secondly Lack of option, doesn't matter how advanced we get in society and technology the human brain is still working with evolution. A man's psychology while talking to a girl should be to be himself but rather they try to impress the girl by boasting and pretending to be someone else and it is a whole new task which takes effort. So men tend to stick to one person at any cost just because of the uncertainty of what will happen in the future (will he be able to impress another girl) just because of that fear man tend to get needy.
They boon on our society is that one the one hand they have helped woman get over they never growing self esteem with makeup and other surgical techniques but the shame is that men are still not taught to be themselves.
Side Note: The desperation of guys for you is good, try to understand it from the perspective of the guy. If guy stop being desperate and needy it would be a hard time for girl to find a guy for them.
You shuld help the guy learn from him, teach him and grow together. Caz thats wht life is all about.
Impatient society we now live in. Everything people want is available almost Instantly.
There's also a sense of entitlement with millenials.
In my day (because I'm SO old lol), we had patience. We enjoyed the "game" or the "chase".
You gotta make a girl want you. You gotta make a girl feel like she's worth the effort.
If you pressure a girl. If you can buy her, she's not worth it.
If you beg a girl that sends a message, "I beg for what I want, and I don't earn anything."
A man's gotta be a man. I think women can tell the difference.
Usually It's becuase they dont have game in my opinion, either that or they really are desperate to have a girlfriend. They can also come off as desperate when sometimes they really aren't. What I would do is start a conversation with a girl, talk about similar interests if there are any, build rapport, flirt a little, make jokes and compliment her and then ask for her number or offer to hang out somewhere. If she denies, ill try convincing her. Though if she denies a second time, I'm not gonna waste my time, she is not interested so I move on. Most guys are just stupid on how to talk to girls.
Insecurity, being raised by a single mother, continued rejection by women are just three possibilities I can think of.
Just curious, why would you consider them to be desperate? Typically a male is desperate when he goes after the ugliest of females. Since you say this happens a lot maybe next time have a tad bit of empathy and tell them what you find so pathetic as to be a turn-off and suggest how he can man up. Many guys of this era were raised by a single mother and never had any male influence to teach them. Yes, there's an entire generation of what a girl-friend of mine and I call male pussies, a product of guy's being raised by single women who were taught to pee sitting down.
There's not just one thing that can make a guy desperate, there are quite a few reasons for that...
It could be that the guy has not been in a relationship for quite a long time, could be that he looks back at his life and realizes that he is not getting any younger and wants to settle down soon, could also be that he just hasn't had sex in a very long time. Maybe they are just really lonely or have social anxiety or something like that and can't make friends so they look to find relationships instead...
Society does. Men get almost no women asking them out so it can feel lonely if the ones you try with reject you.
As a man I can tell you that it is very depressing not getting anyone ask you out on occasion. Desperation is just people who have been lonely too long.
It’s a lack of confidence and most likely co dependency issues that are driving this. They’ve also bought into the whole idea that society has thrown out there that you need to have a partner in your life in order to be complete and happy, so they’re desperately looking for someone. A confident and happy guy can function and be ok without a partner in their lives.
I would say lonely. Some people need some love and want to love others. It's not about the person just about the love. But it's a vicious cycle you are scared you will always be alone but you get more desperate and then it gets even harder to find someone.
Guys believe that finding a a woman (either for sex or relationship) is generally harder than the opposite gender. That's why they will do things WAY more extreme than normal just to have a chance with you. And unfortunately the indoctrination we get from society that we have to push it to the limit EVERY damn time in order to "score". Taking no as an answer isn't acceptable for the median male. in my opinion it's terrible as a way of life but for some of us, it's all they know.
For many guys chasing women is less of a question of who they can get with, and more about who they would rather waste their time on. Guys are taught that persistence is the key to getting the girl. If you are pretty, but not like supermodel pretty, a lot of guys will see you as more accessible and will try to win you over any way that they can.
Constant lonelyness, feeling of neglect, being alone for extended periods of time, trying to build a social life in any possible way.
Personally I live on my own in a country where I have tops 3 real friends, I get starry eyed when I get a text message, lol. I get why some guys go on a limb trying their best to start something to change a situation like that.
I've definatly been this guy but I'd put it down to a lot of my younger life I was bullied and because of this women thought I was a loser so I would get told by a lot of women I am a loser at the same time at home I was living with a single mum who verbally abused me making me feel worthless I've had to deal with depression my whole life as far back as I can remember which didn't make it easy so any time a women showed a shred of kindness I did become quiet desperate to be with and talk to them
Firstly, I like it that you have the mark from Dishonored as your profile picture. Haha
But anyway, I think guys get desperate for several reasons. Social pressure, self-pressure that may stem from social pressure, biological pressure, and maybe others.
After going dry for a while, men begin to lose confidence in their own masculinity and they forget what it is to be a man. what's left is only an outer husk of a man... unless he finally scores sex and start to feel confident again.
I already turned down by a girl that I secretly love , we are having a good convo first then I show my interest and I don't know what happen then she stoped making any contact, i tried many times but no response , then one day I called her , finally she picked up and I want to ask her what happen? Why don't u replying me? I apologised for anything that hurt but she said "np" . she know I was concerned about her... So here I am desperate guy.. you are talking about guy like me?
hahahaahaah lol no
most guys are not desperate
they seem desperate to you
cause of their conditioning just like you are conditioned
just to give you an idea 1 in ever like 8 to 9 guys are desperate
and I know this cause im a guy
and girls have called me desperate when in reality
I never was
you are just conditioned
which honestly does not make you very smart
I can even show you how conditioned you
just based off your words I can tell what you are thinking
lack of love in their life. but they are using a conter intuitive strategy which dooms them to even more loneliness. they should be taught to break the vicious circle.
I can't say anyone has ever offered to pay me for a date lol
Some guys can act desperate though...
Its because sometimes they are totaly alone because of rejection during shool times it depends, some of them are just assholes the other part are very nice people but the assholes bully them so that built insecurity and that make them desperate to feel loved or at least be wanted by someone.
Some of them get suicide after trying toó much depresion is bad.
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