Why do strong women attract weaker men? (Page 2)
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If 2 strong people are in a relationship it can cause problems as they are constantly fighting for dominance.
Most alpha males don't like being challenged for dominance and alpha females don't like men getting a 1 up on them.
Humans are different to animals as the females don't see intercourse as necessary for survival. There are plenty of humans on the planet and reproduction is the least of everyones worries, so the strong pair up with the weak as they for relationship hierarchies easier.
That's a common misconception about how the "alpha couple" works. It's usually one who's socially dominant and one who's socially submissive. That's why dominant women tend to attract submissive women, and dominant women tend to attract submissive men.
Because most people want a partner who complements them, not mirrors them. We look for qualities in a partner that help fill the gaps in our own. A dominant man has little to no interest in a dominant woman. Those two will clash, not mesh. A dominant man wants a woman who will allow him to be dominant. Dating a dominant woman may as well be dating another man.
"Animal way" to remind you not many species uses the alpha and beta shit humans made up which is most likely the thing you're talkimg about. The guy who said wolfs had the alpha and beta thingy later on saw what he mistakenly perceived as the biggest being the leader or as an alpha as he wrote but after another study he did he saw that it just how their family was and even males in our human species have been the one to one lead the family and hunt but I guess we're animals too so...
It's an ego complex. Some women need to dominate and some are submissive it all depends who you are attracted to.
You are right.
it's not whether or not someone's week or it's just someone's more equipped to deal with certain situations and the other one's more equipped to deal with other situations at least in my relationship I'm weak and some areas where he is strong and vice versa
I think this all alpha and beta thing is over rated and stupid.
And no. Im strong and go only for strong guys , not p#ssies. I dont babysit.
I suppose anyone would be attracted to something that seems successful and or strong, probably stems from evolution, as in picking mates that increases chance of survival and them being fit to be a mother and take care of a child.
It's a thing of dominance subconsciously. The weak feel they need someone strong to protect them and are willing to give themselves to that person. The strong like control and weak people give it to them for protection. Generally speaking of course, i know you probably don't think of it but it's what happens subconsciously due to human nature. Of course there are a few exceptions
Genetics is all it is. Chemicals in the brain that tells you what you are attracted to and what you aren't attracted to. Someone that may seem like they are alpha to one person may just look like a tool to another.
Polarity is the reason.
"Masculinity" and "Feminity" are not attached to a specific gender. There are plenty of feminine men and masculine women.
Even in homosexual relationships, one person plays the masculine role and the other plays the feminine role.
For raw sexual attraction to take place, this polarity between two people is very important. That's the reason why strong (masculine) women often attract weaker (feminine) men.
But what about hormones and our endocrine system. Male and female sex hormone... estrogen vs testosterone... how men produce 7x more testosterone which is directly interconnected to social behavior.
@OatsnWhey If it's all about testosterones and estrogen, then how come we have "strong" women and "feminine" men in our society?
Biologically speaking? There are different variations. Some men produce more testosterone then others. Some women produce less estrogen than others. There are outliers, but the norm is still the norm.
Its simple an a dominant does not seak out another dominant they will go for the submissive and the submissive ones want to be dominated.
Strong “alphas” are usually goal oriented and are careful with their time. They want to get laid that’s and be taken care of by washing clothes cooking house cleaning. He needs to be able to focus on his objective and socialize with people who can help him get where he wants. The last the he wants to do when he gets home is spend quality time listening to some stressed out bitches problems. He needs food, sex, clothes ready for the next day and time to concentrate on his agenda.
You probably aren't as strong as you think.. or maybe your definition of "strength" is the kind that is more likely to attract the insecure men than the strong ones.
I agree with the finding a person who has personality traits you lack your subconscious attracts you to them because you feel a lack of them
Funny you're calling a man weaker but we all know a definition of a weak man to a women is a nice guy. The asshole is the STRONG man to women. How sad
Um a strong woman who loves strong men. I can’t stand a weak man! I hate push overs
Because he was attracted to her I suppose. We choose people who we think are compatible and will be great partner to reproduce with.
Great question. All weak men have some how been emasculated mostly by giving up when times got rough, so they fold up like little b***** and look for a mommy figure to cuddle him like a liitle 5 year old boy.
Lol!
It's not that strong women attract weaker men. It's that women like to feel stronger by having weaker men who won't stand up to them any typical strong male behaviour is seen by strong women as misogynistic and they don't tend to be able to handle it