Why do some guys act interested one day and distant the next? (Page 2)

[dopemean]

It's honestly probably nothing. Most of the time guys don't realize that girls think they're acting differently. If he continues to be distant, then it's an issue. If it's just random... he could be thinking the same thing as you or he could just be busy.

[CandacePerry]

They are asshole only wanted attention. always to send out mixed signal. Always blame the other partner for their mistake. Girls do it too.

[Sociopathvictim]

because you're doing something wrong and he's losing interest. Relationships work both ways, you can't control him. If a girl keeps acting like the guy should be at her mercy, forget it.

[sleepycabin]

Just ask, guys love it when women are direct because they don't have to keep guessing how you feel.

[Danish_m8]

<3 indeed

[Logorithim]

Don't know what they want, they're getting mixed Messages, busy with other Things, or met another Woman.

[victorvolf]

Usually happens when guys are unsure of themselves.

Can also be because you misinterpret signals.

[WickedPB]

Isn't that loosing interest. We were interested but after talking we lost interest for some guys like me, even if your pretty but what you talk about or the way you speak can change guys perspective on you and no longer have interest.

[Asker]

Can you describe a way of talking that would turn you off?

[WickedPB]

If you talk really fast about nonesence that is a no no.

[ThisAndThat]

There's many reasons. Slow response to the guy's interest. Guy finds another girl. Guy decides she's not the right girl. Guy wasn't serious, and so on.

[William-Davidson-Jr]

We're always interested, it just seems that we're distant because we either got shit on our mind or we just be interested in watching, a movie, TV show, game, or something that we were or are doing.

[IntuitiveMuffin]

They're just playing hard to get. Annoying isn't it.

[naitsirhc]

I would say based on how the girl responded depends on how he acts. A guy doesn't want to push things too fast because he may not be sure if you're interested and maybe he wants to see if you approach and talk to him

[Kds25]

I can say the same for girls it seems to go both ways.

[Mayday40]

Probably the same way girls act like this towards guys regarding interest. If he/she shows interest in someone but that person doesn't notice or even respond, then of course he/she will go distant.

[wannaplaytoy]

well if a guy is interested in you he acts that way if you dont act interested he will move on
why would you expect him to keep going if you dont show that you are as well

[kitty71]

The guy I am attracted now or used to be attracted was like that. But he kind of was attracted to me too. I showed i was interest in him in fact I was always the one with the initiative to ask him out first and still that did not help much.

[wannaplaytoy]

@kitty71 well Kitty he was stupid and missed out big time yes?

[Prof_Don]

The girl may not be responding quickly enough to keep his interest

[marilynmansonssextoy]

They're called assholes, sweetie.
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[pooper89]

When they do that they’re usually talking to multiple women

[jasoncrockett_16]

We are trying to get your attention. After a while of not getting it we stop trying. When we become distant we think about thinks that we should have done differently and why nothing we did worked to get your attention

[winterfox10]

Worried about coming across desperate or too eager.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Somethings changed. Most likely you're not the top priority girl anymore. They found something easier.