Why do guys act interested one day and not the next ETC.?!

[Anonymous]

I am 27, and HATE GAMES! I like this guy and at first he was shy and then he talked to me, and he asked a LOT of questions about me, even if I have a BF. Some days he acts interested some he doesn't and I DON'T UNDERSTAND. Yesterday he was practically laying on me in class and today he ignored me completely! I am so confused!

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+1 y

Thanks. He goes back & forth on showing interest! What can I do to seem more responsive?!

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+1 y

Also to clarify... I DO NOT have a boyfriend. He asked me if I did and I said no,. Because I dont!

[jhova23]

Are you flirting with him? And if so do you try and talk to him when he's ignoring you? His he the one always doing all the work? It's possible he wants his to be flirted with, too. It seems he has to initiate the flirting. You should just flirt with him and maybe set something up and ask him why he's so hot and cold.

[martyfellow]

Sometimes we have a hard time containing ourselves and the next day we know we overdid it, so we're a little embarraassed about ourselves. Also, you no doubt weren't all that responsive, so maybe he has just backed off totally.

Ball's in your court now, anyway!

[Asker]

He keeps going back & forth on this. One day he shows interest and the next he doesn't and the cycle repeats...What can I do to be more responsive?

[Anonymous]

I am 27 also and hate games. You have a boyfriend, so technically you're playing a game back in even entertaining his attention and questions. If he knows you have a boyfriend, he doesn't want to compete and create any issues.

[Asker]

I don't have one!

[martyfellow]

Thanks for Best Answer anonymous. Let's be friends!

[hellothere]

You have a boyfriend anyway, so why do you care?

[Asker]

I don't have one,. He asked me if I did and I said No.

[hellothere]

Ok well you way you worded it sounds like you had one, If he shows interest then you show it back, if he ignores you, you ignore him, just don't completely ignore him or be all over him