We are programmed to notice. We don't control it because for most of us there is no need to control it. To look is not to engage, looking is not a crime when it comes to observing someone in the street. Why can't girls control the impulse to look at shoes even when they're not buying shoes? Why can't they walk past a store window?
Furthermore, if our noticing girls is such an issue then why do so many girls dress so as to encourage being noticed? No, I'm not talking about wanting to be perved on or molested when going about their normal business, but many girls dress to engage the attention of certain males of their choosing and to highlight their assets. That is undeniable. Well, you can't pick and choose who looks.
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It's just nature. It's a good indication that you're in a good shape. Trade it for some reel cool guy, just don't accept cocky kids, get somebody really elite. Once you are with him, you're more protected.
Is there really some problem here?
I love looking at cute guys !!!
My husband and I have this deal... window shopping is OK, just stay out of the store !!!
I think itโs about the same as when you notice a cute guy walk into the room, you may not start looking at every part of his body but you notice.
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No idea, we just do it, I rarely ever mean to, but if I happen to look at a woman from behind, i'll look at her butt, same from the front with boobs.
Feels like i'm just wired to look at both those areas.It's not an issue of self control, it's more an issue that men's eyes are attracted to movement. Women has a gender have intentionally developed assets over the years that wiggle and jiggle to catch mens' eyes.
Because men are much more visual creatures than women. And on top of that, no matter who you are, you don't just magically stop finding other people attractive if you're in a relationship. That's just not how it works.
Sorry, I can't relate. Find a boyfriend who'll respect you instead of putting us all in the same basket.
How are those girls dressed?
If their dresses show more than what they cover then its not completely his fault... of course he shouldn't look but come on... when ever he does that remind him that he can ONLY look at youLook at "Men and the power of the visual" on youtube and you will be enlightened in less than 5 minutes.
Just curious, do you mean they are staring or just glances? I think that many guys will glance at a good looking woman just automatically, but they shouldn't stare all the time, in my opinion
There's no harm in looking at women :) Men are biologically programmed to do that, that's how our species is still around!
All guys do it. This is how they're designed. We can't fully blame them. It doesn't help that we're wearing clothes that accentuate our curves or showing skin.
don't act like girls never check out other hot guys when they're in a relationship. haha. Everyone looks once. If they keep looking/staring then it's something worth talking about.
I don't
I see no point of looking at what's not mineNearly ALL CAN control themselves.
Assholes just don't want to do it.If he's blatantly staring for long periods of time that's one thing. If he looks every now and then well, I don't see an issue.
Why do women have to expose their bodies and whatever cloth they do have on is very tight - why?
Because their penis has no eyes lol
Because we have what you call testicles
Penis.
it's nature :D
Some can't
not all men.
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