Why does every guy I date try to control me?

[Anonymous]

Like I am beyond over it. They just want me to live life on their terms. Like they’ll purposely do things to upset me and make sure I’m attached to them/not look at anybody else.

Why even question my loyalty? Where are the nice guys?

Updates

1 y

Update he's ok just had a little emotional breakdown yesterday lol

[ohshee]

Well the good thing is is that you are aware of what's Happening and you put a stop to it that's the first thing that is cool and that's what you have to do sometimes things just don't work out and that's because you see things happening before they happen there's nothing wrong with what is going on you're listening to yourself and that's the best part of it do you know how many people or how many girls go through the same thing that you go through but they don't listen to themselves and then they have a bad breakup keep being smart

[Slartybartfast]

%90 of guys will only approach if you invite them.
Players hit on every women they find attractive.

Sociopaths approach everything with a pulse. So the majority of the guys who approach, that you didn't initiate the interaction with, are litteraly the worst men you can find.

If you aren't proactive you will most likely wind up dating a player or worse.

Math, it's not an opinion.

[Adronicus]

Because controlling types are what you're attracted to. Could be imprinting, could be another reason but there is a reason why we are attracted to the types of people we are & if you wish to change that you'll have to figure it out. Where are the nice guys? Check you friend zone.

[spartan55]

Couldn't have anything to do with the guys you choose, right?

[Asker]

I don’t know :(

[spartan55]

Stop dating shitheads, easy solution

[EaterPeter]

You might be an enabler, coz I feel like same things happen with me, or people are stubborn by nature

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Asker]

You’re welcome

[bamesjond0069]

Woman has to get on the mans program. So choose a man you want to lead you and make sure he's leading you where you want to go.

[Juxtapose]

It's because you are not attracted to the nice guys 🤷‍♂️

[Amur8711]

Your picking the same type of guy over and over again.

[KrakenAttackin]

Control you? Perhaps they believe you are out of control.

[SignedAutographs]

Why does every girl I date try to control me?

[Asker]

Probably insecure

[SignedAutographs]

Then you have your answer

BOTH SEXES CONTROL

[SignedAutographs]

At status update. go figure. you're a woman after all

[Zygum]

You change yourself little bit, and compromise on some points, you will be accepted

[LazerBean]

Bc you date losers.

[yucel_eden]

Literally that, her choice of men is shit

[Asker]

Looooool

[TenkRealist]

Depends on what you call "control"

[Socal99]

You can have control over me if you like

[Rockstarrrrr]

Cuz you're insecure and they know it...

[Anonymous]

Cause you only date Arab guys

[boredguy007]

How do you know lol

[Opinion Owner]

@boredguy007 I mean of course I don't know her dating history but I remember reading her complain about Arab guys

[boredguy007]

Ohhh lol. I see. Would you mind dropping a follow?

[jahaims]

You're bad at picking guys