Why do I like it and allow it when guys who flirt with me or who I’m actually going on dates with control me?

[Anonymous]

Like if a guy I’m dating (not sex by the way) tells me to dress up, or something. I do it ;3

or you have guys at work who flirt and they say thing to me or do stuff and other girls would have an attitude or maybe roll their eyes etc if a guy said some stuff to them but with me I just follow men’s lead :3

If I dated a man long term and he told me what to do I’d do it :3

[zeitgeist057]

It's a natural balance. I have discovered that I enjoy "being controlling" to some extent. Telling her how I want her hair, or what to wear, or buying something for her to wear for me. Giving her feedback on her style, helping her plan her workout or even ordering for her drinks or food (though with the last, I typically order her what I think she likes, rather than something to my own tastes).

I think some women, such as yourself, find comfort and joy in the security of "being controlled". It takes decision-making out of their hands, other than the decision to consent. The male role becomes protective, considerate, nurturing. It also helps the women to feel more secure, because they know what they are doing is from their partner's impetus, so they know it is pleasing to him, which makes them happy.

It sounds like you might have the makings of an excellent sub, as in the bdsm meaning.

[Billlewis]

I can definitely relate to that. I enjoy being completely controlled by a beautiful woman who's having sex regularly and teasing me relentlessly until I'm in a state of utter frustration.

[Asker]

You wanna be submissive friends?

[BadApple69]

In this world there are leaders and followers.
It’s surprising how many people want someone to take control… I guess in their view life is easier when someone else is making the decisions.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't put up with that nonsense.

[Asker]

I know most girls wouldn’t. Y’all are strong!

[Asker]

Sometimes I act like a brat a little but at the end of the day I just wanna submit and do what they tell me to 🤣

[Juxtapose]

I could use a woman like you, why don't you message me? If you want me to order you around I don't have a problem with that.

[jahaims]

You enjoy being submissive. There could be many reasons for that.

[Masterodd]

Because you are a sub and that excites you. nothing wrong with that. :)

[Anonymous]

you are submissive and that is nice, I wish I could tell you what to dress in all the time

[swettannie]

because you're submissive

[riverrat3]

There are a lot of guys that would enjoy you

[Asker]

Really🥰 how can I find one?

[riverrat3]

Just have to put yourself in a place to meet guys

[Asker]

Maybe :3

[riverrat3]

Would you care to pm me

[Asker]

Sure

[Anonymous]

It’s your fetish

[Asker]

Lol I don’t go home and touch my pussy to this…

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know maybe you just like men controlling you

[Asker]

I love it. The sentence you just wrote “men controlling you” made me feel happy and excited.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess that’s what you want but how long will that last for you

[Asker]

Forever hopefully. What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know it’s not a short phase do you really want to man cutting you down for the rest of your life? Does that really make you happy

[Asker]

Cutting down? I just wanna be controlled 🥰🥴

[Opinion Owner]

Ok lol

[Asker]

Can you control me please?🥰

[aceleon]

İdeal girl behavior

[BigDog1989]

masochist