Why does he now want loyalty?

[Sammie1996]

So I have been seeing this guy who I thought was really great for me. In a previous question I talked about him flirting with other girls. Truth is, I broke up with him. If you want to be in an open relationship fine but you will not be on social media in an official relationship with me. I still want to try and find someone who wants to be with only me.

After he got busted, he was harassing me about when I was gonna forgive him. All of a sudden he wants to love on me, and hug me, and cuddle and have sex. So I broke it off officially with him because it was just too much.

Now we are kinda at this werid impass where we are not together but we are not single. I told him he is allowed to see other women & I get to see other men but now he's all about the loyalty. And I just don't understand why he's worried about it now. He clearly didn't care when we were together together. Now his texts are dwindling, he has excuses as to why he can't answer, and honestly we had sex & he didn't want any for play or cuddles after. It felt like a hook up.

Anyways, any advice on this situation. Has anyone ever gone through a rough patch like this at the beginning of there relationship? Or is this over before it began?

[Kha0tiic_xo]

Well to me a man that really likes and wants to be with a women isn't just going to up and get dressed right after sex like that, or at the very least would explain why he couldn't stay and make it up to you, and maybe he's jealou because now your seeing other men and saying he can see whoever, but honestly sometimes this kind of shit happens at the beginning of relationships when a person is scared of commitment amongst other things and in time will get more serious, but a lot of the times guys play games and just want to have sex and keep it at that so they'll lie!

What does your intuition tell you? Follow your gut feeling!

Goodluck