Why doesn’t he change like he promised?

[Anonymous]

We broke up because my boyfriend would disappear for days without a word.
I told him I can’t deal with that and I need to be alone to think about our relationship.
He begged me to take him back. He said he would never do it again. I listened and said yes because I believed him and I care about him a lot.
It’s been a month since we got back together and he’s doing it again.
I haven’t heard from him since Thursday. I texted him and no answer. Why is he doing it again?

[Kkaos]

Because he missed you and said whatever he thought you might want to hear in order to take him back. Now you're together again he's gotten comfortable and is taking you for granted again. I think this tends to happen a lot when exes get back together. Probs best to have a serious talk with him and think about whether or not you should cut him off for good.

[Anonymous]

So now it's goodbye permanently. You gave him a second chance and he blew it. Does he do drugs? If so that would explain it. But he might have just said the words, but not making the effort to change.

[Asker]

I guess he said what I wanted to hear.

[spartan55]

Why were you dumb enough to think he would change? He won't, you can't make him. Dump him and move on.

[Pterodon]

Leopards don’t change their spots and people don’t change either. I can’t believe you are this naïve

[hellacray]

Obviously he's Batman fighting crime.

[Diya010]

Ask him