Cuz some men have a pretty lame teenage period and the only time they actaully get to go wild and have fun is when they age up. Thats why is seems like we men are uneasy getting settled. They wanna have a lot of fun before anything serious.
The reason that is is because women mature faster than men men take a little bit longer to get there but we get there and on top of that it takes a special woman to really get a man to settle down it has to be what he wants. Do you agree
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Female value peaks at 22 years old. This, as we know, is the time when women are most healthy and most fertile; and, hence, the most desirable.
Male value peaks at 35 years old. This is the time when a man has accrued life experience, social status, and resources, while still being young enough to be fertile enough.
As you can note, resources, life experience, or social status don't mean particularly much to a male.
It essentially revolves around the different innate desires men and women have. Women desire security and comfort. Men desire physical attractiveness and comfort.
Generally, "settling down" has meant that the man dedicates his income, effort, and time to one single woman. Can you see the degree of investment and why men might take their time determining which woman they want to invest everything into? And why do that, when you can get comfort from a bunch of different women, while keeping most of your income and time to yourself? Personally, I don't see a reason to abandon that freedom, at all.
One way or another, if you ask me, the reason women are so eager to get into a long-term relationship is because relationships are, by design, more beneficial to the woman than the man. The man has to dedicate more to a relationship than a woman does, typically, in my opinion. The whole thing of "the wife is always right." All the jokes about husbands trying to please their wives, or being otherwise controlled by their wives. There's a bit of truth to jokes. And there's a lot of jokes about husbands being controlled by their wives.
I feel that people in general are like that because they like to fuck, society tends to tell us to "have fun while we can" and they don't want to be responsible. Women seem to be worse than men nowadays though, how the tables have turned.
What makes you think men even want to settle down in the first place, more projection of what females want onto males.
u I would argue women just want to settle way to early yes some men settle down late but so many women are looking for love even before they are at the legal age lol
they are still looking for prospects incase you are not the one
or
if men settle down first women may find that a turn off
or
nervous, unsure, hesitation
Cause they like to have a lot ofmsex with different women before they they accept to be inside the same vagina forever... and even then they feel at a losss lol most of them..
Because a man wants to have lots of fun and let loose, relationships prevent that.
all the above life is hard 2018 34 and still live at home
Because there are too many potential negatives for being in a relationship. It's always better to pump and dump.
Because most women aren't worth settling for.
Because tbh i dont want a relationship. I dont wanna deal with the relationship drama and the commitment. I wanna have just sex for now
because by the time a girl is 13, she's already wanting to have a boyfriend
Could ask the same question of women.
I am 23 and I already want to settle down.
excuse me wtf?
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