If you see how most of these girls are dressed even at simple bars that serves chicken wings and fries, there dressed in something tight and small. I remember at times I would order a meal from a bar if I was hungry and it was a late night and my sister would say don’t tip them if your taking food to go, why give a tip to someone who just handed a bag over to you... it’s true.
I never got tipped in my years of retail, I know tipping is customary in the food industry but I gotta tell ya I’ve tipped people getting poor service even and I stopped doing it unless the waiter seems genuine and really does their job well. It actually doesn’t matter to me if it’s a guy or a girl, sex appeal isn’t going to make me tip you more then a guy serving me, that’s just my opinion.
@Appless what difference does that make, I've rejected jobs because they weren’t morally right. I’ve worked crap jobs like factory labour and went to uni to pay the bills.
Whats wrong with showing off some skin? You do it when you go swimming or it’s too hot? She’s getting paid and therefore it’s letting the economy do its thing, just shut up.
@Appless lol a 16 year old is telling me to shut up to a guy in law school, I’d destroy you in a debate so please don’t further embarrass yourself online. I’ll just block ya, chow. “waives my hand”
Considering you’re still in law school whilst being 30+ it really isn’t something to brag about. Also, you’re using my age as a debate which displays your lack of argument. Just grow up and stop being sexist, it’s 2019 and the world doesn’t need people like you.
I usually tip more because when I'm eating out with friends it for three reasons 1. It is an apology if my buddies were obnoxious. 2. I'm too lazy to do the exact math so I just give a rough 15% and add maybe 5-10 dollars on top of it. 3. I have a female friend who every time we go out and eat she lies and underpays her share of the bill by claiming "we should pay more because we are guys and eat more" and then pulls the "we are a few dollars short of a fair tip" which by that point most of us only have 20s or 10s left because she took all the 5's and singles from the pot.
Sure its unfair for the guys in the situation but we are usually trying to not cause a scene or impress another girl we are with. So in the end we are forced to do it.
Heck many of us tried to call her out on her bullshit but it just causes our other female friends to complain and tell us to not cause a scene.
I was a waitress and experienced the opposite. Men tipped well when they were hitting on you but didn't at other times. Women would tip well if they thought I was fun or nice.
Also I fucking hated when guys would order for the women they're with. They're people. They know what they want to eat. So if a guy orders for them then I just turn to her and ask if that's what she wants.
You wouldn't believe how many girls explicitly say they want the guy to take care of things like this, because it shows "he's in charge", "he knows what food I like", because they "like the surprise"or because they are simply into being treated like a kid. No need to necessarily blame this on the guy. Also, if they're actually independend people who can think and decide for themselves, they don't need YOU to cuddle them either. Neither do they have to be with the guy who treats them like that.
I always tip well, especially being a server myself. And honestly I don't see much difference in my tips whether it comes from a man or a woman. As long as you do a good job people will tip well. If you do a shitty job you shouldn't expect a good tip whether it comes from a man or a woman. Trust me I know!
I don't know if its true that men tip 70% of the bill - that sounds extreme to me - I think men care more about cultural trends and our culture demands you give a tip - I personally do not believe its necessary to tip more than 10% since these waitresses are not homeless or starving to death.
I've tipped 100% a few times just for the hell of it, and tipping 10% if they did well is pretty messed up. Their work review is based on their tip average and the minimum you're supposed to maintain is a 20% average most places. If everyone tipped that waitress at 10% like you, she'd probably be fired for poor performance.
Depends on resturant I would say. I work at a fine dining (60-70.00 a plate,) and an average (10-25.00 a plate,) part time. I have been left 75.00 on a 100.00 ticket more than once at both places
I mean cmon... time and time again it shows women are cheap af... as soon as a girl has to like drive her man home or pay for an expensive dinner which he's probably done numerous times, she has a little hissy fit...
girls have been too spoiled by men... also it takes a man to be a man and give a man's tip... lol... no women can match up to the D
In my country you couldn't complain about tiping, because it's not a thing. If someone gives you a small tip you are lucky. 70% out of the meals value is way too much for a tip. Also, you want people to give you money and make no complains? Work your ass off and stop complaining.
We don't got out as often as women so we spend more when we do. We also don't spend money on clothes or make-up so that frees up some money. There's also that most men work in deadly conditions for a good wage so they celebrate when they get done. Kinda like minners in a bar.
Omg lol i totally agree, i only work at mcdonalds and i still get this. Not with the tipping ( my country doesn't tip) but with the complaining. We get all the crabby old (also uoung and normal looking but r secretly evil) women yelling about how that one potato chip was cold and they had to wait that whooole 2 and a half minutes for it blah blah.
I always tip a minimum of 25% and round up, but whatever makes your own judgement and generalizations. 🙄 Good thing for you is that many men on this site hate women because they haven't gotten laid since the dawn of time, and they're projecting their anger.
Theses something I want to add. I feel like women are more likely to argue with the staff. I’ll never forget the time I was with a group of friends and this girl that was a friend of a friend complained to the chief that she got a smaller egg than the person next to her (because sunny side up eggs obviously come in different sizes). She was such a bitch that one of us stayed behind to apologize to the waitress.
Ummm I disagree. Actually I tip a lot regardless because it’s clearly not the waiter’s fault how long it takes or how good the food is. My father and step brother on the other hand are awfully rude to waiters over the tiniest things embarrassing our entire family. I’ve even come up to the waiters after the dinner before to apologise for their behaviour and tip them. Wouldn’t generalise like that next time really
Funny thing is, I just read in Consumer Reports magazine that women are better tippers than men. However, I agree with you that men are better tippers. I have breakfast once/twice a month with a group of firefighters and we always make sure the wait staff has at least a 20% tip. Women will figure a 15% tip right down to the last penny.
Okay. Lets just talk about the tip.. Leave the rest aside. Yeah, i haven't seened it so i could be wrong.. But i always thought that thats how it is.. Men tip bigger, to impress or be liked by that waitress sexy female.. Or just to look big.
While females think of the best way to save money.. Anyways they have no one to impress with money..
Because women have been running their homes since the beginning of time and so we know how do administrate money better and efficiently. You can say women are stingy but the truth is most women prefer to spend that extra dollar in cleaning supplies for their homes or on the lettuce to serve dinner. We don’t just go around wasting money!
Young female bartenders make a ton. Older ones do not. Maybe the guys are suckers & subconsciously think tipping a lot will make you like them?
I tip 0 to 20%. 20 for ‘basic job with pleasant tude’. Less for bad tude/poor service.
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I'm stifling a laugh-if you think women are hard to "wait" on think about us poor guys having to "date" on them. If they are picky and judgmental about their food and dole out miserly reward over food think about the hoops we have to jump through for the miserly sex they impart. Women by nature are judgmental and picky-not all but enough to make it a cliche'.
Because most of the servers are women. And guys, take note: it has been shown that when a server touches you in some way- brushes your hand when taking away the menu, taps you on the shoulder as she goes around the table asking for orders, etc., guys give more money, so beware- or just enjoy it.
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If you see how most of these girls are dressed even at simple bars that serves chicken wings and fries, there dressed in something tight and small. I remember at times I would order a meal from a bar if I was hungry and it was a late night and my sister would say don’t tip them if your taking food to go, why give a tip to someone who just handed a bag over to you... it’s true.
I never got tipped in my years of retail, I know tipping is customary in the food industry but I gotta tell ya I’ve tipped people getting poor service even and I stopped doing it unless the waiter seems genuine and really does their job well. It actually doesn’t matter to me if it’s a guy or a girl, sex appeal isn’t going to make me tip you more then a guy serving me, that’s just my opinion.
Maybe they are told to dress that way?
@Appless what difference does that make, I've rejected jobs because they weren’t morally right. I’ve worked crap jobs like factory labour and went to uni to pay the bills.
If a girl doesn’t wanna wear something and do that, there are tons of other jobs out there, even if that means retail
Whats wrong with showing off some skin? You do it when you go swimming or it’s too hot? She’s getting paid and therefore it’s letting the economy do its thing, just shut up.
@Appless lol a 16 year old is telling me to shut up to a guy in law school, I’d destroy you in a debate so please don’t further embarrass yourself online. I’ll just block ya, chow. “waives my hand”
Considering you’re still in law school whilst being 30+ it really isn’t something to brag about. Also, you’re using my age as a debate which displays your lack of argument. Just grow up and stop being sexist, it’s 2019 and the world doesn’t need people like you.
Oh and it’s ciao not “chow”, you’re the idiot.
I usually tip more because when I'm eating out with friends it for three reasons
1. It is an apology if my buddies were obnoxious.
2. I'm too lazy to do the exact math so I just give a rough 15% and add maybe 5-10 dollars on top of it.
3. I have a female friend who every time we go out and eat she lies and underpays her share of the bill by claiming "we should pay more because we are guys and eat more" and then pulls the "we are a few dollars short of a fair tip" which by that point most of us only have 20s or 10s left because she took all the 5's and singles from the pot.
Sure its unfair for the guys in the situation but we are usually trying to not cause a scene or impress another girl we are with. So in the end we are forced to do it.
Heck many of us tried to call her out on her bullshit but it just causes our other female friends to complain and tell us to not cause a scene.
I was a waitress and experienced the opposite. Men tipped well when they were hitting on you but didn't at other times. Women would tip well if they thought I was fun or nice.
Also I fucking hated when guys would order for the women they're with. They're people. They know what they want to eat. So if a guy orders for them then I just turn to her and ask if that's what she wants.
You wouldn't believe how many girls explicitly say they want the guy to take care of things like this, because it shows "he's in charge", "he knows what food I like", because they "like the surprise"or because they are simply into being treated like a kid. No need to necessarily blame this on the guy.
Also, if they're actually independend people who can think and decide for themselves, they don't need YOU to cuddle them either. Neither do they have to be with the guy who treats them like that.
Ironic, how you're infantilizing those women.
@Journeyman11 could you tell me what that thing is that girls do to each other when things are tense?
I don't really understand the question.
I always tip well, especially being a server myself. And honestly I don't see much difference in my tips whether it comes from a man or a woman. As long as you do a good job people will tip well. If you do a shitty job you shouldn't expect a good tip whether it comes from a man or a woman. Trust me I know!
The same way only MEN buy girls their nudes
MEN be the ones to give token to girls on live nude cam
MEN the ones to pay for porn
Tell me one girl or woman that has ever truly payed for porn, or bought a girl`s premium snapchat, even if she were lesbian!! lol
Coincidence? lol
Bahahhahaha
@tonicandgin Heheheh let me buy your nudes lmao
Hahaha it's free if you return the favor ;)
@tonicandgin REALLY? DONE DEAL 😂😂😂
Finding all the man candies on here lol
@tonicandgin all the man candles on here? meaning 😤
Hot Germans, sexy Italians, gorgeous English and Aussies, and cute Irish guys ♡♡♡
@tonicandgin Oh, well, i`m just black mixed 🙄😔
Still hot. Lol not everyone i mentioned is white lol
@tonicandgin they still fall under the Caucasian group lol
By nationality?
I mean I'm American...
@tonicandgin No not nationality lol
Lol i just look at the region their account is registered under.
@tonicandgin Aaah alright
Lol u dont sound thrilled
@tonicandgin I honestly don`t no what to make of it hahhaahah
I also accept baby nifflers as payment ;p
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Yay!!
I dont even know why i read the whole convo.
@dosiax Cos it was entertaining lmao
I don't know if its true that men tip 70% of the bill - that sounds extreme to me - I think men care more about cultural trends and our culture demands you give a tip - I personally do not believe its necessary to tip more than 10% since these waitresses are not homeless or starving to death.
I've tipped 100% a few times just for the hell of it, and tipping 10% if they did well is pretty messed up. Their work review is based on their tip average and the minimum you're supposed to maintain is a 20% average most places. If everyone tipped that waitress at 10% like you, she'd probably be fired for poor performance.
Depends on resturant I would say. I work at a fine dining (60-70.00 a plate,) and an average (10-25.00 a plate,) part time. I have been left 75.00 on a 100.00 ticket more than once at both places
I mean cmon... time and time again it shows women are cheap af... as soon as a girl has to like drive her man home or pay for an expensive dinner which he's probably done numerous times, she has a little hissy fit...
girls have been too spoiled by men...
also it takes a man to be a man and give a man's tip... lol... no women can match up to the D
In my country you couldn't complain about tiping, because it's not a thing. If someone gives you a small tip you are lucky. 70% out of the meals value is way too much for a tip.
Also, you want people to give you money and make no complains? Work your ass off and stop complaining.
No complaints here, just curious
We don't got out as often as women so we spend more when we do. We also don't spend money on clothes or make-up so that frees up some money. There's also that most men work in deadly conditions for a good wage so they celebrate when they get done. Kinda like minners in a bar.
Omg lol i totally agree, i only work at mcdonalds and i still get this. Not with the tipping ( my country doesn't tip) but with the complaining. We get all the crabby old (also uoung and normal looking but r secretly evil) women yelling about how that one potato chip was cold and they had to wait that whooole 2 and a half minutes for it blah blah.
Tldr: guys r soooooo much easier to serve!
I always tip a minimum of 25% and round up, but whatever makes your own judgement and generalizations. 🙄 Good thing for you is that many men on this site hate women because they haven't gotten laid since the dawn of time, and they're projecting their anger.
Exactly. Dry, bitter, pickled dick having ass no gooders.😂
Theses something I want to add. I feel like women are more likely to argue with the staff. I’ll never forget the time I was with a group of friends and this girl that was a friend of a friend complained to the chief that she got a smaller egg than the person next to her (because sunny side up eggs obviously come in different sizes). She was such a bitch that one of us stayed behind to apologize to the waitress.
I would have told her to shut her stupid monkey face and eat her God damn food, damn child.
Her egg was smaller... Fer fk sakes. I would have fk'n lost it right then and there.
Ummm I disagree. Actually I tip a lot regardless because it’s clearly not the waiter’s fault how long it takes or how good the food is. My father and step brother on the other hand are awfully rude to waiters over the tiniest things embarrassing our entire family. I’ve even come up to the waiters after the dinner before to apologise for their behaviour and tip them. Wouldn’t generalise like that next time really
Funny thing is, I just read in Consumer Reports magazine that women are better tippers than men. However, I agree with you that men are better tippers. I have breakfast once/twice a month with a group of firefighters and we always make sure the wait staff has at least a 20% tip. Women will figure a 15% tip right down to the last penny.
Okay. Lets just talk about the tip.. Leave the rest aside.
Yeah, i haven't seened it so i could be wrong..
But i always thought that thats how it is.. Men tip bigger, to impress or be liked by that waitress sexy female.. Or just to look big.
While females think of the best way to save money.. Anyways they have no one to impress with money..
If it would be a waiter instead of a waitress.. Males would tip much less..
females think the best way to save money is to let the guy pay.
@dmgstarfleet no.. Thats no why we want the guy to pay..
But speaking of tipping.. Its absolutely useless for us.
I am happy I live in a country where the tip is included in the bill.
Its so much better that way...
Because women have been running their homes since the beginning of time and so we know how do administrate money better and efficiently. You can say women are stingy but the truth is most women prefer to spend that extra dollar in cleaning supplies for their homes or on the lettuce to serve dinner. We don’t just go around wasting money!
Young female bartenders make a ton. Older ones do not. Maybe the guys are suckers & subconsciously think tipping a lot will make you like them?
I tip 0 to 20%. 20 for ‘basic job with pleasant tude’. Less for bad tude/poor service.
I'm stifling a laugh-if you think women are hard to "wait" on think about us poor guys having to "date" on them. If they are picky and judgmental about their food and dole out miserly reward over food think about the hoops we have to jump through for the miserly sex they impart. Women by nature are judgmental and picky-not all but enough to make it a cliche'.
Because most of the servers are women. And guys, take note: it has been shown that when a server touches you in some way- brushes your hand when taking away the menu, taps you on the shoulder as she goes around the table asking for orders, etc., guys give more money, so beware- or just enjoy it.