Why do men follow random girls on Instagram?

[Anonymous]

If they have a girlfriend why would they keep following attainable girls (not models) on Instagram?

[BlueWalker]

Because men are pigs.

Anyone who actively looks at and follows random women on the internet (or in real life) while in a relationship is a pig in my opinion. Like, why are you in a committed relationship if all you want to do is look at other women? What does that say about the girl he's with, his "attraction" to her, or any kind of deeper love for her? Like, seriously. That kind of behaviour and activity is just an excuse to have a bachelor lifestyle while being in the "comfort" and "security" of a relationship. Sadly, it's one reason why women become used by guys, because guys use their relationship with them as a "backup" or a "safety net" while they look at, or for other women. It's sad AF.

It also bothers the crap out of me how a part of our society just says "it's okay", or "that's just what guys do". That's just telling guys that it's "okay" to keep looking at other women while giving them free license to be that way. Don't justify or defend their actions and give them the approval to continue to be that way. The narrative of "it's just boys being boys" keeps repeating over and over, and people wonder why guys are pigs? Come on, we can do better than this! 🙄

Rant over.

[Asker]

Yeah! I noticed that my ex still likes photos from a girl he had a fling with in the summer and also looks at my stories and we don’t even follow eachother in addition to following so many random girls. He hasn’t changed one bit since we ended things. I wonder how his girlfriend would feel if she knew he still looked at his exes.

[Asker]

And would you be able to tell me why in the world exes who dump YOU still look at your Instagram? (I can tell because of the story views). We haven’t spoken in 5 months and I saw him recently view it. I thought after 5 months of not speaking and a new girlfriend that he would have forgotten about me... guess not? We were off and on.

[BlueWalker]

Yeah, unfortunately, too much of that kind of thing goes on. 🙁 It's sad, because we let guys like that get away with it, and by saying it's "okay" or "that's just what guys do" (no matter who says it), it sends guys the message that it IS okay to look at other women while they are in a so-called "committed" relationship. It's also surprising to me how an alarming amount of women don't seem to care or think it isn't an issue, but then wonder why guys are such pigs when things go wrong. 🙁

But it's only when we change as a society that guys will be held accountable for their actions and to be better partners toward the women they "say" they want to dedicate their love and attention to. Sadly, this is all such a common part of our culture... because we allow it. And I don't just mean women are allowing it, but guys have to change and be a better example too. Change needs to come from both sides, and we ALL need to hold men accountable.

It's just sad that people don't seem to See or understand why this is damaging... because this behaviour has become normalized within our society. Guys who choose to be that way love it, because they can continue to look at other women while having their partner essentially say "it's okay". It's asinine. It's sad to me to see women think it's "no big deal", because it's a part of our culture that has us all brainwashed, and is ultimately a behaviour that doesn't constructively add or hold merit toward a relationship. It's ridiculous.

But I am sorry to hear you had to go through a relationship with a guy like that. 😕 I can only hope that you can take something from that experience that keeps you from being with someone like that again, because you deserve SO much better than that as a woman. 🙁 Just take it as an experience (as negative as it was) and use that as strength to find a guy who won't do that to you. You deserve better. 👍💙

[BlueWalker]

Sorry, I just saw your second message. 😊

It seems he keeps looking at you online because, despite what may have happened to end the relationship, there is still something about you that appeals to his sexual urges and attractions. But his compulsions are empty. It seems he is more concerned about his feelings of physical attraction instead of substance.

In the end he showed himself to be that instead of someone who truly valued you as a woman for WHO you are, and not just what you (or others) look like. For certain guys like that, having a bunch of women they are attracted to is like having a list of women's phone numbers in their phone. It strokes their ego and makes them feel sexually "wanted", and for some: even powerful. It gets to some guy's heads.

Ultimately, you made the right decision. Your heart and your soul told you he wasn't right for you, because he couldn't be what you need: someone who loves you unconditionally and loves you ONLY.

You did the right thing because now you can find a guy who will never cause you to feel unloved or insecure ever again. Again, you deserve better than him. 🙂😊

[Asker]

Thank you! ❤️ and I agree! But as I asked why do exes still creep you if they’re with somebody else? I don’t understand

[Asker]

Oh sorry I am reading it now!

[Asker]

I completely agree with you! And I feel like they do this to keep you as a backup plan -by unblocking you then throwing the occasional breadcrumb just in case things don’t work out. I think any man who continuously has eyes for every woman but the one right in front of him is selfish and doesn’t actually love the woman -he’s with her for arm candy and ego.

[SkyPink28]

I agree with you as well.

[Asker]

Also I notice that even when a man dumps you, they still don’t want anybody else to have you so they keep tabs on you to make sure nobody has taken over their control over you that they think they have. This man also referred to me as property and calls his girlfriend the same thing then deletes the comments. He’s super fucked up.

[BlueWalker]

@Asker, Haha! Yeah, it seems our timing was a bit off there for a minute or two. lol 😊 I just got back from eating dinner, so I'm just catching up now. 🙂...

Yep. I agree with you wholeheartedly! I just don't understand how someone can split their attractions and their attention with other people and think they are in a "committed" relationship. Furthermore, I don't understand how anyone thinks it is "okay" to do, because it can cause so many insecurities, feelings of being unloved, as well as pain. 🙁 To do that and not See or care about what the consequences your own behaviour can do to other people is something I will never understand.

But again, it has all become so normalized in our culture that even women have been brainwashed with this nonsense. It's ridiculous and it's sad. 😞 I fully believe men need to be held to a higher standard than they are. Both by women and other men. Because, without true devotion and loyalty, true love cannot exist in my opinion.

I'm to see you know all this in your heart, because that will lead you to a true soulmae. 🙂 Someone who will TRULY See you, love you and WANT to dedicate all his attention, love and dedication toward you only.

Just keep your head up, keep that standard for yourself and be an example for others in what a REAL man should be. Because in my opinion, real men don't share their attractions with other women. They share them with their soulmate only. 😉🙂

(my response to your other part is coming)...

[BlueWalker]

@Asker, Unfortunately, yeah, any guy that doesn't want other guys to have you after breaking up with you goes right back to that ego thing in how you being "his" strokes his ego and his sexual "prowess" so to speak. It's possessive ego trip. 😕

I am so glad you're not with him anymore, because guys like that are only players who are hungry for how a woman makes him feel between his legs, instead of how she makes him feel in his heart. 😕

Good riddance in my opinion. That kind of possessiveness is not a good thing and you don't need that in your life. Again, you deserve so much better than that. I'd suggest blocking him, because that kind of behaviour and negativity is not something you need in your everyday life. Life is too short to wonder about him anyway. It seems you have a good head on your shoulders about it all, so it seems you're well on your way anyway. Good on you! 🙂

[BlueWalker]

@SkyPink28 Thanks! 😊 Good to see you have a higher standard for yourself too. 🙂 No guy like that is worth it because they'll never be able to give you undivided love. I'm glad to see you demand better than that. Good for you. 🙂

[Asker]

@BlueWalker It’s all about ego with younger men nowadays and social media doesn’t help. Men that are that possessive and feel the need to control and hover even when they dumped you are just narcissist in my opinion or have some other kind of mental problem. And they will never see that they are the toxic ones because they think they are so superior to everyone and don’t have any faults. So tired of it all

[BlueWalker]

@Asker My apologies in advance for such a long response. You've got me kind of impassioned about this subject, so I hope you don't mind my long reply. 😊...

But yep. Completely agreed. Again, I am so glad you see all this for yourself too. Sadly, narcissism is a toxic plague that continues to affect our society. 😕 But those things are an ego trip for older guys as well. Guys haven't changed much, it's just that some of us have matured into Seeing, caring and loving people (I've always thought and felt this way though).

But the advent of the internet has created and posed many challenges that may not have existed in the same way 25+ years ago. There is no denying that. It just makes it so much easier and prolific for guys to be creeps and have literally no accountability for their behaviour. In many ways, it sets progress back for sure, because without true accountability, it slows the pace of change and makes it an uphill battle. Which is partly why I feel impassioned to talk at length about these things.

But again, I couldn't agree more. Any guy who is possessive like that is at minimum someone to be ignored and at worse, and I hate to say it: even someone to be feared. 😕 I certainly don't mean to imply that about your ex, but guys who become vocal, imposing and/or use fear or bullying tactics to control and possess a woman is someone to stay well clear of. But I know you know that. Again, I don't mean to say that about your ex in particular, I just mean guys who show those behaviours.

But there just seems to be a flaw in how we have let our culture develop into something that allows guys to be attracted to other women and to feel possessive about them if she decides to leave, as if she is a "prize" or an object. 😕 (more)...

[BlueWalker]

In my opinion, there are very deep faults within the male culture and psyche that breed these things, which only help to support their behaviours that cause them to justify them as "normal". That kind of narcissism and negligence is completely foreign and illogical to me. I always struggle to wrap my head around how men can be so ignorant with a lack of care about what their actions do to women. It's a sad state of affairs. 🙁

We still have a ways to go to change these things in our society. Some men can be so careless, unfeeling and even downright scary. It's a sickness that our society is inflicted with, but it doesn't have to be that way. All we can do, as both caring women and men, is be an example for others and to show, and stand up for a different way forward and for a higher standard. Because true love, care and Seeing cannot be something we are lax about. It's something worth striving for and fighting for in my opinion.

Anyway, I've gone on WAY too long now, so again, my apologies for such a long response. 😊 I just feel passionate about some of these issues and it is good to talk with someone who understands and cares. 😊

[Asker]

Oh my god no I don’t mind at all! I completely agree and I found that my ex showed his true colours at the end. I lost my virginity to him so when we broke up and tried to stay friends, he got so angry and yelled at me that I was seeing and sleeping with another guy -still thinking that I was his property. He called me horrible names and I told him off a few weeks later and he blocked me and we haven’t spoken much since. The blocking feature makes it so much easier for people to remove or run away from the truth of their actions to avoid their ego being crushed. So I don’t take offence to anything you said because that’s exactly how my ex turned out. And from the looks of how fast he seemed to move on, it was simply because he ran out of girls who believed in his lies and he needed somebody who’d give him constant ego boosts but he’s still following new girls on a daily basis. I suspect if something goes wrong like they break up or something that he’ll be crawling back and I will be blocking his ass lol. I don’t want to block him now because any little action from me shows that I’m thinking about him. And exactly, a lot of men don’t seem to realize how hurtful it is for them to follow girls all the time on Instagram. And we’re not talking Instagram models, we are talking people who live 30 minutes away who they can easily go and cheat on us with and it DOES happen. And somehow we are called “controlling” when really that’s an excuse a man uses when he knows he’s doing something wrong and is getting put in his place for doing so. A lot of males wouldn’t like if we were staring at men 24/7 so why should they be allowed to do it.

[Asker]

And the fact that he still looks at my stuff months later as I said is such an uneasy feeling because a lot of men as you said do it because they’re still attracted to you but also because it could mean they consider you a reliable option for the future

[BlueWalker]

Ugh! 🙁 What a piece of work your ex is! To be that possessive and to show that kind of anger, and behaviour are pretty big red flags. I am so glad you came out of it okay, but I am so sorry you've had to be subjected to his BS. 😕 But by the speed in which he moved on says a lot about him as well. Again, it only seems he is interested in women as a "trophy object" to stroke his ego, rather than someone to truly love. 😕

But you hit the nail on the head. Guys like that eventually run out of options and come crawling back because they see the women they broke up with as a rebound option that only continues to feed their ego and insecurity. Again, good riddance to him! I am so glad to hear you have shut him out of your life and that you have no intentions of feeding his ego or supporting his behaviour ever again. That's your strength and self-worth as a woman speaking loudly. 😉😄💙

No woman needs to be subjected to that. It's just sad to think he'll do this with other women and only leave a trail of heartache and pain in his wake. It's guys like that who really get under my skin as far as people who are so utterly incapable of caring or Seeing what they do to others is harmful toward women. Again, to be so ignorant and/or uncaring is illogical to me. I don't get it at all, and I never will. 🙁 But I guess that is the twisted mind of a selfish, arrogant narcissist. I'll never be able to make sense of it. 😕

[BlueWalker]

But yeah, the men who do these things really don't get it. They don't understand (or care) about the amount of utterly needless self-doubt, insecurity, self-esteem issues, and pain this causes women. It's so upsetting. I don't get how men (or women who don't think it's a big deal) don't See or understand what this can cause. By brushing it off, they are supporting that kind of behaviour that could potentially subject themselves to it, but it shows men it's okay to do it with other women too. I mean, even if you feel it's "okay", why encourage that kind of temptation for a guy who chooses to look at other women? I just don't understand the logic or any supposed "merit" behind people thinking this is "okay" or "no big deal" at all.

And yes, that is one of the biggest defence mechanisms a guy like that will do, which is to flip it on her and shame her into thinking she is being "controlling" and "unreasonable", and to make her feel guilty for the behaviour HE has subjected her to. It's sad that some women fall victim to their shame tactics, but that's just another emblematic symptom of how our culture has massaged women to think this is "normal" and to take it upon themselves to change and/or soak it up: "Maybe it is my fault? Maybe I really AM overreacting and being controlling?" It's so sad. 🙁 But guys like that have women right where they want them within our society's "norms", in that they get to be pigs AND have it seem "normal", AND make women feel like it is their fault for their actions! It's so incredibly messed up. 🙁😞

[BlueWalker]

And that's the hypocrisy of it all: that guys wouldn't like it the other way around at all. As it shouldn't be either. As I said, I believe true love can only exist if their love for one another is mutual and exclusive. True love includes, and is based on the complete love, respect and CARE for that person, and to not ever want to cause them pain or self-doubt due to your own actions. Why people can't See that by saying it is "okay" is beyond me.

Sadly, our culture has a long way to go. *sighs 🙁

[Asker]

I’d like to think that he maybe loves this girl but when I was snooping around (not proud of that) I caught him comment “who’s property” on her photo. 15 minutes later he unliked her photo AND deleted the comment. First of all who refers to their girlfriend as PROPERTY? And then UNLIKES their girlfriends photo? It’s probably because he knows he wrote the exact same thing to
The girl he was seeing while seeing me in the summer and didn’t want her being able to trace it. I think he lusts her but he doesn’t LOVE her and I always kept asking myself why it looks like she’s treating her better but he isn’t -they’ve only been together for a few months, he hasn’t had time to
Show his true colours yet. Controlling jealous men don’t change based on the relationship they’re in -they pass it on to each and every one. I hope that poor girl realizes it sooner or later but right now I think she’s “soooo in love” that it is blinding her judgment. Any gifts he’s giving her is just so that she thinks he's the best, not the other way around. It’s always self serving with these narcissistic men.

[Asker]

He is an extremely toxic person and the part that really upsets me is nobody has seen it so people treat him like he’s a saint. I thought he was too, he was soooooo amazing with me in the beginning when we first met but those are usually the people you end up having to watch out for.

He also RARELY posts her on his stories like she does. I know people say “oh if someone really loves somebody they don’t need to post it to prove it” and while that’s true, it depends on the person we’re talking about. He posted a few of her in November but recently the only ever picture he posted of her was a few weeks ago and she was taking it and he was in the background in bed 😂 so that shows she probably asked “why do you never post me, let me take a picture” . He hides her most of the time so that it’s easier for him to sneak around if he has too. It find it extremely odd. Their relationship always seemed so non genuine to me because I know how he is. When
We broke up we did stay friends and he did say he is dating to marry somebody and love someone but I don’t think he knows what any of that is.

[Asker]

Last summer even even blocked me for two months when something I did him upset him

[Asker]

And he popped back up and expected me to be okay with that when I know for sure he was seeing other women. He’s a psycho. That’s why this time around he unblocked me a few weeks later -so just in case anything goes wrong he has easy access to me. I have no doubt he still keeps an eye out for me and looks through my social media to make sure he still has control.

[BlueWalker]

Ugh! I am sooooo, SO sorry for not getting back to you. 🙁 Unfortunately, last weekend my home flooded during a storm (ice and a deluge of rainwater don't mix well) and I have been dealing with the mess ever since. I have been offline for the most part for the last week, but I hope to be back online (temporarily anyway) within the next few days. But again, I am so sorry for disappearing on you like that. 🙁 I've just been dealing with getting my feet back on the ground. The last week has been so stressful and hectic.

If you like though, you can message me to continue chatting about all this and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Or we can continue here. 😊 I have been enjoying chatting about this with you and I'd like to continue if you like. 🙂

Again, my apologies for seemingly disappearing out of thin air like that. I'm still dealing with things after the flood, but I hope to be back sooner than later.

All the best and I hope to chat with you again soon! 🙂

[Asker]

Omg no problem! No need to apologize for something like that. I am so sorry to hear what you’re going through -I hope everything gets better! And yes so have I, would love to continue our conversation too.

[TaylornotSwift]

What if it is a woman who is following men who are in a relationship? Do you feel the same way about them as you do men who do it?

[fisher]

Why do men follow random girls on Instagram?

It's no secret that men are visual creatures. And what's more visually stimulating than a beautiful woman? So it should come as no surprise that one of the most popular activities on Instagram is for men to follow random girls.

There are a few reasons why men follow random girls on Instagram.

First, as we mentioned, men are visual creatures and they enjoy seeing beautiful women.

Second, many men are hoping to get a glimpse into the lives of these beautiful women. They want to see what they're up to, what they're wearing, and where they're going.

Lastly, following random girls on Instagram can be a way for men to feel connected to these women, even if they don't actually know them.

So there you have it! These are just a few of the reasons why men follow random girls on Instagram.

[Anonymous]

So this dude only follows girls or is that the only thing you took notice to? Because guys follow random guys that are interesting as well. Not everything has a sexual undertone to it.

[BlueWalker]

I would agree not always, but I would say in the vast majority of cases it is.

[Opinion Owner]

@BlueWalker True enough. I can agree with that.

[jane71]

Bulldhit

[Anonymous]

just because they have a girlfriend doesn’t mean they don’t find other women attractive, i used to be bothered when my ex did it but it’s just not realistic to think that your boyfriend finds only you attractive

[Asker]

Yeah but he’s the type of person who if it does bother you, won’t care and will keep doing it. That points to the fact that that man doesn’t really love his girlfriend and doesn’t care about her feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

yes, my ex was like that as well, but i realized the only reason why i was upset was bc i personally had my own self-esteem issues and i thought that he believed these other people were better than me. i had to become comfortable in my own skin and also stop looking and worrying about who he was following.

[BlueWalker]

@Anonymous/opinion owner, Please read my response to this question. This may not be the best thing to do, or to set as an example for other women. Because in many other cases, saying this kind of behaviour by guys is okay can lead to heartache. The acceptance of this kind of behaviour seems to be a constant narrative in our culture that keeps being played over and over again, and it sets a precedent that doesn't allow guys to be held accountable for being that way when things go wrong.

[SarahsSummer]

I agree. It’s our own insecurities that are the real issue.

[Opinion Owner]

@BlueWalker i’m not saying she should accept it, if it bothers her than she has every right to end things w him bc she shouldn’t be forced to tolerate it. i am saying however that you can’t expect your significant other to not be attracted to other people and that even if they are attracted to others, it doesn’t mean that they don’t think you’re attractive as well.

[BlueWalker]

I don't know, I guess I am just wired differently. When I fall in love with someone, it is with her ONLY. I don't get people who galavant around and ogle/follow/friend other people out of sexual attraction for someone who ISN'T the person they have supposedly chosen to be their "soulmate". If people aren't willing or capable of fully directing their attention towards the person they have chosen to be with, then what's the point of being with them and dedicating your devotion, and loyalty toward them? I don't understand the split in attraction. For me, true love is mutual and exclusive, and that cannot fully exist if their attraction is shown or given toward other people.

[Asker]

SarahsSummer, I’m speaking of my ex. I remember him saying he does not care and it isn’t my business. Now he has a new girlfriend and it seems like he hasn’t changed one bit - he even looks at my social media. And cheating over Instagram is very common.

[Asker]

We don’t always have to assume we have insecurities when it is very possible that he can be speaking to one of these girls.

[SarahsSummer]

I guess the difference is trust then. I know my guy talks to other women. Many I’m sure are way better looking than me but I’m not going to restrict who he can talk to

[Asker]

Well if he is friends with them that’s a totally different thing. But if he constantly follows girls that are easy to go out see and not just celebrities or models then it raises a lot of suspicion.

[SarahsSummer]

Then if you don’t trust your guy, you should tell him.

[Opinion Owner]

ohh i thought you meant he followed instagram models, in that case, if he’s refusing to stop then i do find that suspicious and you should break up if he can’t respect your wishes. i’m sorry i misunderstood the question!

[Asker]

No no don’t worry! And yeah I just find it so shady.

[Danny_dan92]

Correct. Would you rather have the boyfriend follow nothing but dudes? That would make you question his sexual preference

[jane71]

He can find others attractive without stalking them
Online in sexual situTiondb

[SarahsSummer]

What do you mean by “attainable girls”? Girls he knows and or has a friendship with? If that’s the case, it seems to answer the question right there.

[SkyPink28]

You can read a question that I asked with tons of guys replying with their perspective
Why do guys follow hot Instagram girls? ↗

[BlueWalker]

Cool. 👍 I'll have to leave a reply to your question later. But please, don't allow him to form your self-esteem or your value as a woman in this world. You deserve so much better than that. 🙁 You're beautiful the way you are.

[SkyPink28]

@BlueWalker Your comments are very genuine and sincere. Don't worry about investing your time commenting on my post because I have already learned some much from your comments on this question!

[BlueWalker]

@SkyPink28 Awwwww, thank you so much! You are too kind. 😊 Also, thank you for seeing my comments as genuine and sincere. That is always something that is not easy to convey in text, especially on the internet where people can masquerade as something they are not. So again, thank you for Seeing my words as such. That means a lot. 😊

And I am glad you felt I was helpful in some way. That is the one of the kindest things anyone can say. I don't mind at all to invest my time with other people though. To a "fault", it's a part of what I do and who I am as a person. 😊 But it's my pleasure to converse and help in any way I can, so you are more than welcome. 🙂

Again, thank you and take care! 😊

[SkyPink28]

@BlueWalker Please, you take care as well! I wish you the best in life!

[BlueWalker]

@SkyPink28 You too! 😊😊

[howhigh420]

well my ex boyfriend is worse he had pictures of his nakedfucking shocking a mean i wouldn't friend who he turned out to be the girl he was cheating on me with one from flirtfinder and one he had a one night stand with and got her pregnant and she had a miscarage wiles he was with me and this other girl he's with now i cpuldnt care if it was celebrity girls but come on my sister also said what i was thinking why does he have pictures of this girl in his phone naked if he said he's not intrested why are they not deleted a said yip same thing i was thinking now he still wants to sleep with me he's never gonny change he's the kinda guy that can't control his dick when a women says something hot ab9ut him he just flings it right at them obv they must have seen it on pics he was sending theyv'e obv said something about his cock cause it is huge and cause of that he's dived right into bed with them nd flung his cock right in them like he did to me and the other 2 girls nd plenty more he's irasponsable for 28 years old when he's in his 30z i think he will stsrt to understand how much he's actually hurting other people that are innocent

[howhigh420]

so naked pics of his lassie friend fucking prick he is user

[howhigh420]

he ended up leaving me for her the shit he put me through was terrible nd all i did was love him the beginig he was loving but when he started being suspisious i was kinda susing him out asked him about but he started moanin nd a was right all along he never showed me his pic in his phone either until the night he left me

[EmbraceThePain]

To me, it’s rather simple. Do you think these men want to learn anything insightful from following these Instagram model-type women? The answer is no. The vast majority of these men follow these types of women because these women are attractive to them and provide these men with sexy, flattering, attractive, or hot photos or videos to look at while on Instagram.

[itsalyssaagain]

I mean some don’t really care and just do it for the sake of it. I had an ex who followed loads of women while we were together because he felt insecure with me. Like I would leave him any minute.


At the end of the day it doesn’t really bother me and I don’t think it’s a big deal.


But if I’m married I will be pissed because it will make me look bad in front of people.

[TenkRealist]

Eh I don't really. Looking at random (usually caked on with plastic and makeup) doesn't do anything for me personally. I know guys who get a hard on over it but yeah. Not my thing. Do they look nice? Sure. Are they good to bang? Sure. But I'm not really interested in banging them so... yeah.

[Danny_dan92]

Would you rather him follow nothing but men?




Honestly this mindset that women have is insecure and controlling.




I have dated and talked too women that complained about me following a lot of women, I’m a straight male. No shit, the same way I would see them following a shit load of men 😂 but they wouldn’t see me complaining. Only if I catch them talking to them and flirting with them. That’s a different story

[Anonymous]

They're not attainable trust me lol. Just attention seekers.

But for many guys it's "nothing" and "means" nothing. You're simply following someone on social media, not sleeping with them. They probably have never met or even talked. Even yourself, if you're on there, you probably have guys you don't know following you right? Even myself as a guy, I don't have a pic, talk or post anything, but I get people following me lol. Makes no sense at all.

[Anonymous]

Attainable girls is an oxymoron unless you're a celebrity with money. Most men had a hard enough time finding their girlfriend, if she leaves they know it's going to be a long time before they find another and that's only if they're lucky. Might as well have reach for any option possible

[Sour-rose]

:)...
Bruh, what do you think.
It's a young woman
Girl + Dic instead of brain= horny feelings

[spartan55]

Man, you girls just cannot deal with stupid Instagram and all that comes with it.

[MyExperience]

It’s quite simple really. Guys like to look at hot chicks.

[jane71]

Well I’m sick of it. It is painful he can look away but I’m not gonna be around for it to hurt me anymore next man for me will look at me not flirt with tand wishes or else he can be alone. He ain’t that hot either

[TheSpaceGnome]

Only 2 reasons to follow someone, either you're friends with them, or they post stuff you like.

[karlpierre]

Friend, maybe? If you want them to unfollow you can say that.

[zagor]

Don't use Instagram so I'm not sure what the social niceties are.

[jasmine453luv]

I fellow random men on Instagram so what’s your point 🤷‍♀️

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why women follow random guys on instagram

[Chopinocturne]

Maybe he want to have back up girls in case of relationship brake.

[slatyb]

Why do people consume any sort of entertainment?

[waynecollins]

Why do women fallow random men?

[Subarugirl]

In hopes that they will were something they want