No message a week after sex?

[Anonymous]

Should I assume that I did something wrong? Or that he seriously doesn’t like me? Any other reasons for this?

[Anonymous]

You can send a message and his reply if he replies don't double send messages and be friendly quickly just take it slowly. If he doesn't reply I really suggest you block his ass

[Asker]

I think he would reply but I don’t want to give in.. if that makes sense

[dragonfruitA]

A week? Damn. Either he's a shy guy waiting for you to message him or he just wanted your body.

[Asker]

I know right, it’s been really getting me down 😔

[Asker]

I don’t think he is waiting for me to message him, he’s not shy

[dragonfruitA]

Hmm, try texting him a brief, simple message. If he doesn't reply, you'll know he's not interested and you can move on.

[Asker]

I feel so silly doing that though, I feel like he should

[Asker]

Also can i ask you something non related to this

[dragonfruitA]

sure.

[Asker]

Sorry this might be a bit weird, but i only realised this recently but in porn a lot of the girls have no colour on the skin around their butt holes, is that normal? Is pigment uncommon, I have no idea and I am really insecure now...

[cougarclaw87]

Never compare yourself physically to the ladies who do porn for a living.

[Asker]

Not just porn though I tried looking on sub Reddit’s and nobody with pigmented butt holes were there and I feel like I’m gross now

[cougarclaw87]

Stop comparing your butthole with porn workers and random shit on Reddit. Your butthole, more than likely, wasn't the issue. Don't message the guy. It was a hook up. It happens to women and men all the time. Try not to let it happen again to avoid feeling used or having hurt feelings.

[unfair2you4fun]

Unless you are trying to look more slutty don't bleach ur butt hole. But if u do wanna turn ur man on with a sexier bum hole, u can buy the cream to do it with on amazon. PM me if u want more advice on how to look better... and how to just look cheap. I'll help u figure out what look u are going for.

[Asker]

Wtf hahaha I didn’t think my butt was the issue lmao? Clearly he didn’t leave cause of that, I was just saying I was insecure about it , and I’m not going to message him you’re the one who’s putting words in my mouth

[cougarclaw87]

Unfortunately... You were probably a hook up. Avoid sleeping with people right after you meet them. Avoid sleeping with people before you go on actual dates (dates... Plural! More than 3... at least) (unless you really want to get laid) otherwise you run the risk of getting ran threw by a bunch of dudes that don't care about and just want sex.

[Asker]

We didn’t just meet..

[Asker]

😔😔😔

[Anonymous]

Depends on whether you were doing a hookup/fwb thing or actually going out?

If its the former - yeah he got what he wanted and is now acting cold cos he has no reason to chase after you now

If its the later - then yeah that's rude and he should call or message

[magzz]

I would think a guy should text you the next day after sex 100%. I’m sorry to say but i don’t think he is interested anymore. You could try and text him if you want something with him?

[unfair2you4fun]

Most likely the guy lost respect for you because ur was so easy to get u to have sex with him. But, it MIGHT also be because he is actually overwhelmed with feelings and inexperienced at relationships, or reciprocation. He might be too shy or too scared to find out if your feelings were mutual and he may worry he didn't do well.

The only way to know for sure is to directly ask him. Preferably by call, but text if he's not answering.

[Asker]

Lol I’m not that easy to have sex with we didn’t have sex for like a year

[Asker]

Or he might be a cunt ahah

[Asker]

But nah he didn’t do super well but it wasn’t really his fault entirely

[Anonymous]

tell him ‘i love how you nutted in me last week and now you’re afraid to send a message’

[Asker]

Omg 😂

[Anonymous]

He made his mind up that he didn’t like something about you and is going to ignore you now. Sounds about right

[Asker]

Ouch...

[Asker]

So I did something wrong..

[Opinion Owner]

Only in his mind...

[Jean667]

Have you texted him and if so how many times?

[Asker]

Have not texted him cause I’m not giving in

[rgb008]

you were just a hookup to him

[Asker]

Really)

[Asker]

*really?

[Tryme85]

He ia a dickhead.