I feel really sorry for you. You're so, obviously, openly hurting. And you're hurting yourself more by doing this. You dangle the bait and then rapidly whip it away as soon as a guy shows interest, and those guys will be fine, but you're the one missing out on even a CONVERSATION. I appreciate you've been hurt, you're hurting, I'm sorry about that. But you're not helping yourself.
If you want to put yourself out there, give it a chance. You'll get the feedback and experience you need. But this negative, doomed mindset won't help, you need to help yourself and lift the gloom, there's hope if you're willing to embrace it. Some great guys out there. Cher's wrong. She's wrong. Nobody's doing deep sea fishing, ice road truck driving, mining, farming, construction, primary resource work, military engagement among other jobs, if guys don't. That's no luxury. That's an absolute necessity. We need food, buildings and resources.
As for sex and cuddles, no woman actually prefers the love pillow and vibrator combo.
You don't have to have one. But we are drawn to each other and don't feel complete without that love. That love can be filled in by God or other passions, but I don't know it is the same.
I actually think it is healthy to be whole on your own, but to yearn for sharing the love you have with another.
You are young, the feeling is hopeless because of your lost love. That one is strong, but there will be others. So focus on growing to be your best so you have all to give when they come along.
men are not things so no I don't think they're are a "luxury, like dessert" and having a companion is not a necessity but a choice, we choose to share our lives with someone.. or not
No I wouldn’t put it like that. A good man is priceless. But obviously that’s not just any man, if they treat you shot then of course you’re better without. Just don’t generalise.
Finally some modesty. Thank you.
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Listening to celebs and what they say is a retarded idea. They walk around all day being taken care of. They have pets that are taken care of for them. They have people walking behind them telling them how to be fit. They have people cooking food for them, etc.
Anything a celeb says is planned out for profit and popularity.
In terms other than reproduction. Yes essentially. They can enhance someone’s life very much. Having a partner to love & share life with raise children with etc but we can live life without a partner as can a man without a woman.
That's mean to men. But relationships are a luxury, not a necessity!
Also, I think that good relationships are better than being single, but being single is WAY better than being in a bad relationship.
Preach queen
Joke about women being objects
- get life ruined by feminism
Joke about men being objects
-no one cares
We are not things for women to exploit.
In that sense use word like luxury isn't the correct word to use.
Is a relationship with a man required for female happiness , no.
Should you value a good relationship with a man yes you should.
Women: we are not objects
Also women:"men are a luxury not a necessity like dessert"
Feminist hypocrites at its finest and they wonder why guys dont like them and date them
Exactly. They can talk shit whatever on Earth they want. Us men don't have to care about it. We tend to love soft and caring and faithful women, that's it. My girlfriend could be very bossy and she even drinks with friends until past-midnight, but I'm okay with that. She made that clear once that I gotta learn how to cook since she wouldn't do that for me, but only for special occasions. Again, I finally gave in.
There’s no objectification in the message.
Mikey. You hold that bitch down and fuck her in the ass until she's purring your name!!! Don't give in brother!
Or like. Leave and find someone better
@Rodgerinho ahahaha nah I won't do that. She's not keen on sex and stuff and since we're in a real distant relationship - I'm in Vietnam and she's in the USA, I just hope someday we can meet soon and making sweet love to each other. :P I know I'm stuck with her, I can't find anyone like that in my life anymore.
Dude. You're 27. Twenty-fucking-seven! Prime of your life and the world wide open to you. You live in Vietnam. Okay. You don't have a relationship, you have a leash. This chick is playing you brother. No interest in sex? In a long distance relationship. . . . mannn. That isn't going to change. You need to find a girl who wants to suck the colour right out of your dick. Find someone willing to commit and prioritise you. And trust me, you can DEFINITELY find some far off chick who stays out drinking and doesn't want to fuck you. Those aren't hard to find my man.
No a man is not a "luxury" a man is a human. He deserves rights just like a woman does. And no one should ever say "OhOouwuwuh im going to be single forever becky omGGGGG" because no one ever knows that.
At 20 you’ll likely meet someone eventually 😂😂🤣you don’t look bad at all either but no I think the opposite sex is a necessity we crave food, we crave water, we crave sex this is in our nature a leopard can’t change its spots. Life is definitely missing something when you’re not in love but if there’s nothing you can do about it you have to occupy your time with hobbies and interests until the next person comes along
You're not going to be single forever. You're a beautiful young woman, with seemingly a nice personality. You've got many years ahead of you.
As for men being a luxury, not for me. I mean if that were the case I wouldn't be able to afford myself.
Some people have live in maids, she had a live in drug dealer (assistant) so she could be out of her mind 24/7... She was a pop singer not a philosopher.
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I don’t like the word ‘luxury’. I don’t think you need a man to be happy. I think a man should complement your already happy life if that makes sense.
As humans, its only natural that we'd like to settle down one day with someone we found love with and start a family. Hell, are whole existence is to make children! I wouldn't say it's natural but I respect your decision in doing so.
Women need men just as much as men need women, don't deny your instincts, you'll go back to them sooner or later, it's only nature
Who is she to have her words heard? Just because she's famous? Famous people can say the dumbest shit and people would listen and follow just because idiots speak loudest and it gets worse when they're famous.
Luxury, no. But more like an option to be in a relationship.
The fact that you're trying to convince yourself of that is the best proof it's wrong.
If it was true, you'd just live without it, you wouldn't try to convince you that you don't need it.
As for being single forever... We'll talk about that again next year and see how you find that stupid now that you're not single anymore.
I'm many things but I'd never think I was luxurious in any shape or form! lol
In the sense that you personally can continue living without a man; yes, a man is a luxury. In the sense that the species could continue without men; I personally doubt it, I think men are a necessity for humanity/society.
Yes. I agree. Just the same way women are... I personally need a woman to prepare food and give me a warm pussy to fuck. That’s about it. And even then, I know how to cook very well, and I can pay someone to give it to me.. or we have sex dolls, or toys.. lol soo the same logic applies both ways
The last part I am. I was trying to be some kind of way.. but the truth is, the logic goes both ways...
Well, if a woman doesn’t have drive, ambition, dreams and a very healthy work ethic than, yes that is all she is... a woman has to be able and willing to work just like a man does. Don’t expect to be headed everything and treated like you own the world. I respect all women, but I truly respect those that work just as hard if not harder than me. Period. If she doesn’t, then there is no value in her.
Jeez that’s harsh. I agree people need motivation and drive in life, but that doesn’t mean I think those without it are only useful for their bodies or for menial tasks. It just means they need to work harder.
That's what he said - "personally." That's his opinion. If you don't like it, go away.
@Mikey_Ramone um you go away? Nobody asked for you to comment so butt out. And it’s called having a discussion. I’m allowed to have an opinion just as much as he does. So chill tf out.
@RedScarlett and I don't ask you to reply my comment either. You're the one to chill out.
@Mikey_Ramone what the actual fuck is wrong with you. You’re the one who replied to mine first. Grow up will you.
@RedScarlett what a snowflake haha.
@redscarlett so what is there worth if you have someone that doesn’t do much, doesn’t want to work harder, doesn’t have drive. So people that do or suppose to give them the same level of respect as someone that’s pushing for success everyday. Why should I be with, and respect a woman that sits around the house all day, wanting to lay around, go shopping and buy stuff that she didn’t pay for, or expect me to spoil her when she does nothing to contribute to our collective well being. The only thing she does if I’m in that situation anyways is get food when I ask for it.. or have sex.. usually have to ask for that too because if the laziness factor. (Yes, I was young and have been in that situation).
To me there is nothing worse than an person that isn’t driven and has the work ethic of a particular of sand at the beach. Which is why I made that statement, it may be harsh, but I can go without a woman is that’s what the outcome will be.
You're nothing but authentic bro. That's called Thoughtful, not the bitches like to bitch around or being triggered.
Lol why would you be single forever? Just work on yourself maybe instead of swearing off an entire gender, that would be the rational thing to do anyways
That's also called Generalization. Judging an individual based on their whole gender in general. It's completely wrong.
Absolutely. You are not going to DIE if you don’t have a boyfriend. Those kinds of things are luxuries. No one “deserves” or “needs” to be in a relationship.
I think men are wonderful, if you find the right one. I believe there is always someone out there for someone, you just gotta make yourself available and open minded when they come. That means get rid of the side men, the baggage, heartbreak, or anything that’s keeping you from going for your happiness. So to answer your question, men are neither, they are rather an asset.
No one essentially needs anyone I guess, but you will see a decline in mental stability from a lack of attention from the opposite sex
Unholywood tried to make Sonny and Cher look tall when they were filming their shows. That little ugly troll could walk right underneath my arm her and Meryl Streep both, I know I've seen them both up close in person. Yeah that's how tall the untalented no singing Cher the shrimp is. And I would like to take a moment to thank Cher for her contribution to MGTOW.
You've decided at 20 that you are going to be single forever and turned into an evil bitch because of it? Wow, you ARE going to be single forever, and it's 100% your fault.
Get therapy.
THERAPY!
THE
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She didn't say anything bad about men though... she only said she's trying to get used to being single for life. 😂
No, I don't believe that line from a leftist Liberal. Men and women are different their own ways, that's it. Don't make anyone being cynical or skeptical about the opposite sex. I have my entitled opinion, and my girlfriend has hers.
I don't know but I do know that women are indeed a luxury item, an expensive tedious one at that.. like Shih Tzus
Maybe stop opting for the expensive hooker's then?
why would you pay for a woman? (I. e prostitution) first off that's illegal, second off that is extremely disrespectful. and it is sad you think that's ok. no wonder you haven't found a nice woman who doesn't want all your money. it's because you think that solicitation and using them are ok.
Relationships is a luxury, not a necessity would be a more accurate statement.
I deeply appreciate this viewpoint of yours and wholeheartedly agree. I also feel that the man or woman, individually, are not the prize to be placed on the pedestal, but the bond the relationship can create is the true prize.
No but you can just as easily flip that onto women. Also why single forever?
Sounds like a decent reason honestly 🙂
Lol that’s funny. She wouldn’t be here if her mother didn’t lie w a man.
I think both parties are luxuries. Men and women are both luxury. Both sides should never depend on one another
I feel the same can be said about women in regards to a romantic relationship, but not for reproduction. Not counting female friends.
Sort of. You technically don't need a man to be successful and happy.
I a man not sure some 70 year old lady that wear butt floss pants on her wrinkly ass is the best person to find advice from
To the species we're essential. In history we are defining. To our children we are required, and in love we complete women.
Sounds like Cher.. funny how she was conceived by a Man and a Woman
If you are financially, physically, sociologically, emotionally, psycologically independent then you don't require men
I mean in the sense of dating. Yeah. I obviously have priorities.
Maybe also ask her how she got children and who would buy her music, if people didn't procreate.
it's as simple as companionship we all want some 1 who. can feel that part which makes us whole in our hone life
l just want to be wanted and to be loved its not true what you are saying
And cher is a LEMON
I disagree. We're a necessity to keep the world populated and do the job that you guys won't do.
Depends, you want to reproduce? 😂😂 Things on earth will end quickly without men.
Relationships/sex/dating... they are all privileges, nothing more. Just bonus points in life.
I agree. You can survive without a guy.
Don't you like dessert?
@Chris00987 I do. I also like guys. But I can live without one if I have to.
Famous last words...
You're stronger than me.
I need women to complicate my life or I go crazy.
@Chris00987 ngl, complications can be fun
I’m seeing someone rn, but I was basically single last year and I made it through okay.
Or dangerous.
I can't make it.
I'm glad you found someone. : )
No. The statement is on par with what comes from the Flat Earth Society's Twitter account.
I would have dated you, but you have had a previous first love/relationship, so no.
Weird... there must be a bug on this site.
big-time feminism in this thread
Well tell your Father that lol
You're a female, you have inherent power conceded by society on your hands.
Truth. I don't be need a man.
Good luck keeping the species alive without us.
And look what happened to her daughter...
just as long as men see women same way yea
everything Cher says goes.
so yes.
I'm a man, not a luxury or necessity.
Don’t be so overdramatic, Alice. 🙄
Women are a luxury not a necessity
Cher is a hypocrite.
Is her son necessary?
Only if you are trying to hurt my feelings
Sweet i'm luxurious!
Haha.
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