
Why do guys stare at girls they find attractive? Do you tend to stare at people you find attractive?


Guys do staring more imao. As we all know, their memory works better in visual elements. Studies tell that attractive women cause men to behave stupidly around them (I don't think its fully true but yeah OK)
If you ask if I do that, hell yeah baby. Whether its a bus stop or same sex, if you're attractive I'll keep sneaking glances at you. Sometimes I'm picky sometimes I'm not. Depends on my mood.
But yeah, if you're dealing w me, it pretty much looks like I'm nonchalant who's too good for you. I send wrong messages all the time😂
Guys definitely don’t have better memory than girls especially as we both age
I stare at people without being attracted to them (not on purpose). And people I'm attracted to, I guess I feel too embarrassed to look at for too long. My face goes red when I look at my boyfriend even though we've dated for almost 3 years xD
How do you not stare at somebody on purpose?
Why would you not look at someone who you think is attractive? Of course people will stare at someone they think is attractive. Now people often don't want to be caught staring so it might just be a casual look or glance before they can be noticed. Staring can be considered creepy and it takes a certain kind of confidence and self esteem to hold a look at someone while they look back at you.
No staring at someone is rude no doubt about that.
People in general sucks at reading cues that differs from their own or the one they only have learned.
People tends to judge the styles they haven't learned yet instead of learning there are different one's and tryto understand them (especially narrow minded people).
Not what I asked
Indirectly did you do that.
Some stare because they are interested in some way. tries to get your attention. some others do it because that person does something. dislikes. disgusted.
Even it can just be that this person are in their own world with their mind and the brain turns on autopilot with behavior like fallow people with their eyes without being present or aware of it in their countios part of their mind.
Some people perceive it as stare because they are bad at reading others, are uncomfortable, dislike of some sort, that they like it or are interested but their defense get triggered because of the the wall they have built up or image/front. insecurity.
Try to read other cues at the same time that the person gives and ad them together, you get more accurate reading than but you have always those there it means something different, you get an advantage if you have open up yourself to sense others energy and feel the difference in the communication the energy gives.
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Haha I am too chicken to do that. What if they come up to me and ask why I am starting or may be just notice that I am
Ever had a guy stare at you?
Could be something chemical, could be as simple as it's something we really want to see because we don't have it or just plain want it.
As a guy, I'm a visual person, and staring helps ingrain the person's image in my brain so I can use that for later.
Of course with porn so easily accessible, I don't look nearly as much as I used to because I can just use that.
What does being a guy have to do with you seeing? That sounds stupid. I don’t like when guys say that, makes no sense.
Sounds dumb, I don’t agree at all.
Use that for later? What?
No, I don't like to be stared at so I avoid staring others.
You’ve ever seen a guy stare at your gf?
It happens sometimes.
She just ignores them and so do I, we agree that all they can do is look and "be envious of me" (her words).
Not really. I mean I take notice that they are there, no question! I take some glances at them, but really stare is something I avoid. Not that I don't want to, I do, but I don't want to get caught doing it.
i'm not one to stare. I take quick glances. I feel like staring is kind of rude and creepy? Men have no tact, when they seen an attractive woman their eyes stick like glue.
I look for 3 seconds or so, then look away, then look back. Guess its not staring but it might make her feel creeped out if she didn't want my attention haha.
I don't stare. Sometimes people stare at me.
I think many guys stare because they find that person attractive but are too incompetent at being subtle about it
I don’t make it obvious but if I find someone attractive I do find myself looking at them more often.
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I don't stare, but I do glance more often than I usually do with people.
Only if I have a crush on them, and even then, I don't stare in such a way that is inappropriate or will make them uncomfortable.
I always get double takes in public it’s kinda annoying but I guess it’s one of the downsides of being extremely attractive...
Fake it till you make it huh?
I like it
Because it's such a beautiful site. We fantasize about being with them. Taking them to the fair, movies, nice restaurant, etc. Sometimes we think about sex but it's mostly about companionship
That’s weird
How so?
Fantasizing about being with someone random is weird.
Checking out if she likes me, of course with my luck she is always in a relationship and will look away like a spooked victim in. Horror movie. "If I don't look at him back maybe hd disappears
How would you know from a look if she likes you?
A smile... her looking back directly at. If I really like her snd she smiled at me, I would have enough courage and even hand her my number and name or so..
Good night from Austria for now... 3:30am...
And don't jump the gun. And leave the sex option out for no discussion... if you want to be loved instead of used...
I did more when I was younger, now not much but I will catch myself doing it from time to time.
Its human nature as anything humans find attractive they stare at it
l don't like to stare at a girl l can see the girl with out staring at her
No, I don't want to be accused of sexual harassment since I'm not an attractive guy.
because they’re too immature to treat you like a normal person. You need a man
Well, why wouldn't you? You'd rather just ignore the person and pretend they don't exist?
Lots of people do that
Not stare, but I check them out.
So why do guys stare?
Guys are less classy than girls.
@americanteengirl let the cute guy catch you checking him out
What do you mean? Like don’t look away when he looks at me?
Catch his eye and smile. Let him see you looking at him.
Why?
So he knows you’re interested. You’re hot. Sometimes guys are afraid to approach hot girls.
But he might have a girlfriend I don't know
If he approaches you, assume he’s single till you find out otherwise. In the course of the convo, casually ask if he has a girlfriend.
Glances are okay, stares are fuckin creepy lol
You new to this whole human experience thing?
Wat?
I was curious as to whether or not you've ever met any men. Men and women tend to experience the visual world differently. Women like purdy things too, no doubt. But men tend to be highly, extra stimulated by certain forms of feminine visuals.
I don’t believe that visual crap. Many men don’t care if women are ugly or not, they will still sleep with them.
Cool. And I'd love to tell my creditors that I don't believe in their invoices. I may even be able to convince myself if I threw in enough attitude. "I don't believe in your ledger crap!" Not sure how much it would change the situation, but what the hell? It's worth a shot!
Anyone who says "all men," has missed the mark. "On average," is a better way to look at it. And who knows? Maybe it is all a sham. Anything is possible. Women, by and large, may very well be more capable of thriving on the football field than most men. It's just that up til this point, the evidence doesn't point to that. Yes, I can say "I don't believe in that crap!" And there is actually validity in doing so. We should be challenging things. It gets us past BS hangups. And you could be right. All I have thus far is experience, and it tells me that many, many men, are hyper-visual. But don't take my word for it. Check out the balance sheets of the most popular online porn companies. Their product is the digital representation, that is pixels, i. e., visualization of feminine expressions in the context of sex. If we're completely off base, then they'll probably be standing in the breadline by Monday morning.
I wouldn't. it'd just piss me off if I did.
Lmao you’d be pissed at your own self if you stared?
I'd be pissed because attractive people remind me that I'm not and she probably doesn't even notice my existance
Everyone has different tastes I’m sure there are girls who find ya attractive
Because they find them attractive!
Yes I do tend to stare at people I find attractive
Because they are nice to look at...
I used to stare at pics from @laurenok
nope bad h as nil as bite
Yes it's so true
Why do u do that?
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