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We're talking about Social Market Value (SMV) here, and, yes, your SMV drops as you pass 30. Keep in mind that your SMV was incredibly high in your 20s - higher than any man will ever reach, because you were nearly universally attractive to men from 15-85. Men, meanwhile, in their teens and 20s, have fairly low social value, especially compared to women during those ages. (As always, there are individual exceptions.)
Entering your 30s, you are entering the final 1/3 or 1/4 of your fertility period (the time when, on average, women can conceive and give birth to healthy children naturally), and men for millions of years have learned to be attracted to women at the beginning of the fertility period, because those are the men who tended to have children that survived to reproduce themselves - men who chose older women were much less likely to have children who survived to reproduce. That's the foundation of the high SMV that women have in their late teens and 20s, and why it drops in their 30s.
Men, meanwhile, are valued on their ability to provide and protect, and men's ability to do those things are very limited until they're around 30, as it takes time to establish a career and gain enough status and seniority to have stability and a significant income - so men's SMV doesn't start to grow until their 30s, which means they spend their teens and 20s with much lower SMV than women have.
Of course. Obviously. Women have extraordinarily high value in their 20s, and it starts going downhill in the 30s. It's not coincidental that women are most physically attractive when they are most fertile. I. e. the 20s.
Likewise, men have extraordinarily low value in their early 20s, and their value increases into the 30s.
A woman is at her sexual peak (meaning desirability) at 22-26 years old.
A man is at his sexual peak (meaning desirability) at 32-35 years old.
I definitely think about that. You know, it's unfortunate. But life in general is unfortunate. But that doesn't mean older women have *no* value. They also gain perspective and experience, which does have value.
But they'll never equal a younger woman, the same as a younger man will never equal an older man. That's just how we're built.
Personally, I think female value is very inflated in their 20s. I think it more balances out back to a reasonable level in their 30s.
No... it's not lower value.
As I have been together with 12 years older woman (20 she 32) I wished really that she would be at least in my age. I had very good emotional connection with her and sex was 5 times better than with my partner before.
We went on a party with her, a bouncer who is my friend and in same age, said "now... you're playing the gigolo with older ladies?" in a sarcastic way. I didn't say no one of my friends or family that I'm with an older woman together. It's somehow a social stigmata (at least here) to have a much older partner as male.
However I think a 30 yo woman shouldn't be such a big "social" problem for 27-29 old guys.
Mature women are the best ❤️️💕 They're extremely sexy and beautiful!!!
I love them. I wish I had one of them! 😍
No I think they have a higher value. Reason being they say a woman starts 2 hit her sexual peak ages 30 2 40. That's when they are suppose 2 have their best sexual times. By that age they know what they want. Along with what turns them on. Also by the age they are starting 2 have a career in the work force.
when I was in my '20s I used to find older woman attractive because they knew what they wanted and they wouldn't play games like the little younger girls so maybe that's what the guys like doesn't mean that they're easy it just means that they're not going to play games with you
Age is just a number , it's the person that counts , i dated girls that were older then me and Girls younger then me , it never really crossed my mind about their age as long as they treated me right is all that matters
There's no magic wall at age 30. For both men and women, there's sort of a peak attractiveness range, and then a slow decline beyond that. Yes, the female peak is a little earlier and higher, but there's no magic wall.
Absolutely not. Personally I prefer women either my age or older. I've dated younger women and from my experience they aren't ready for the type of relationship and commitment that I'm looking for at this point in my life.
10000%
If a guy has a choice to have sex with a 30+ female or a 18/19 female.
The younger female will almost always win because her body is tighter and hotter.
Hell no! Women over 30 are still gorgeous and they have learned a thing or two (about life in general, not just sex. But they've gotten pretty damn good at that, too).
Regarding their fertility, women above 30 slowly lose value. Most men want children and it might be harsh to say that, but many man would not enter a relationship with a woman, who is approaching the wall.
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