Guys, do you think women who are (or above) 30 years old have lower value?

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Im 31. I still date often.  But i just wanna know your opinion about this.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

We're talking about Social Market Value (SMV) here, and, yes, your SMV drops as you pass 30. Keep in mind that your SMV was incredibly high in your 20s - higher than any man will ever reach, because you were nearly universally attractive to men from 15-85. Men, meanwhile, in their teens and 20s, have fairly low social value, especially compared to women during those ages. (As always, there are individual exceptions.)

Guys, do you think women who are (or above) 30 years old have lower value?

Entering your 30s, you are entering the final 1/3 or 1/4 of your fertility period (the time when, on average, women can conceive and give birth to healthy children naturally), and men for millions of years have learned to be attracted to women at the beginning of the fertility period, because those are the men who tended to have children that survived to reproduce themselves - men who chose older women were much less likely to have children who survived to reproduce. That's the foundation of the high SMV that women have in their late teens and 20s, and why it drops in their 30s.

Men, meanwhile, are valued on their ability to provide and protect, and men's ability to do those things are very limited until they're around 30, as it takes time to establish a career and gain enough status and seniority to have stability and a significant income - so men's SMV doesn't start to grow until their 30s, which means they spend their teens and 20s with much lower SMV than women have.

ChurchOfIron · Accepted Answer

Of course. Obviously. Women have extraordinarily high value in their 20s, and it starts going downhill in the 30s. It's not coincidental that women are most physically attractive when they are most fertile. I. e. the 20s.

Likewise, men have extraordinarily low value in their early 20s, and their value increases into the 30s.

A woman is at her sexual peak (meaning desirability) at 22-26 years old.

A man is at his sexual peak (meaning desirability) at 32-35 years old.

I definitely think about that. You know, it's unfortunate. But life in general is unfortunate. But that doesn't mean older women have *no* value. They also gain perspective and experience, which does have value.

But they'll never equal a younger woman, the same as a younger man will never equal an older man. That's just how we're built.

Personally, I think female value is very inflated in their 20s. I think it more balances out back to a reasonable level in their 30s.

LoU_Hades · Answer

No... it's not lower value.
As I have been together with 12 years older woman (20 she 32) I wished really that she would be at least in my age. I had very good emotional connection with her and sex was 5 times better than with my partner before.
We went on a party with her, a bouncer who is my friend and in same age, said "now... you're playing the gigolo with older ladies?" in a sarcastic way. I didn't say no one of my friends or family that I'm with an older woman together. It's somehow a social stigmata (at least here) to have a much older partner as male.
However I think a 30 yo woman shouldn't be such a big "social" problem for 27-29 old guys.

Unit1 · Answer

Mature women are the best ❤️️💕 They're extremely sexy and beautiful!!! I love them. I wish I had one of them! 😍

Love2Jackit · Answer

No I think they have a higher value. Reason being they say a woman starts 2 hit her sexual peak ages 30 2 40. That's when they are suppose 2 have their best sexual times. By that age they know what they want. Along with what turns them on. Also by the age they are starting 2 have a career in the work force.

boogiediablo · Answer

when I was in my '20s I used to find older woman attractive because they knew what they wanted and they wouldn't play games like the little younger girls so maybe that's what the guys like doesn't mean that they're easy it just means that they're not going to play games with you

Finchie40 · Answer

Age is just a number , it's the person that counts , i dated girls that were older then me and Girls younger then me , it never really crossed my mind about their age as long as they treated me right is all that matters

0112358 · Answer

There's no magic wall at age 30. For both men and women, there's sort of a peak attractiveness range, and then a slow decline beyond that. Yes, the female peak is a little earlier and higher, but there's no magic wall.

cryoseus · Answer

Absolutely not. Personally I prefer women either my age or older. I've dated younger women and from my experience they aren't ready for the type of relationship and commitment that I'm looking for at this point in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

10000%  If a guy has a choice to have sex with a 30+ female or a 18/19 female. The younger female will almost always win because her body is tighter and hotter.

thiggster · Answer

Yes for sure. I work with 1000s of women all ages and men (all ages) will naturally want to befriend younger, more attractive women while older women will have to noticeably work harder. Its not the end of the world though, older women can still have a good dating/social life but it WILL take extra work (eg some people pass their driving test after 10 lessons, other after a 100. Both people passed but one worked harder to get there).

Lliam · Answer

Hell no! Women over 30 are still gorgeous and they have learned a thing or two (about life in general, not just sex. But they've gotten pretty damn good at that, too).

MrMilti · Answer

Regarding their fertility, women above 30 slowly lose value. Most men want children and it might be harsh to say that, but many man would not enter a relationship with a woman, who is approaching the wall.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

I don't think so. They tend to have more worldly experience which is more attractive than someone who has been sheltered and has only seen life from 1 or 2 perspectives.

omegajosh · Answer

Women in their thirties tend to be even sexier then they were in their 20's because they have more experience and their look has matured into it's prime. Which too me gives them higher value

Grobmate · Answer

I think the complete opposite! Over 30 means mature and normally free from childish drama.

Anonymous · Answer

No.. and not becouse I am over 30 at the moment too but actually becouse I always dated over 30 womens even in my twenties... I always had this though that womens between 30 and 40 are at the peak of their beauty since then it is the period when they developed some kind of taste and chose some kind of comfort in life... they are also very elegant and read enough books to have decent and long conversations and also they have like just the right amount of sensuality.

YHL6965 · Answer

To me, 30 is the golden age for a woman : she has the beauty of her youth, she is more mature, has more experience with life and goes straight to the point instead of playing games.

adolescentswede · Answer

Yes i trust in stastitics and there is a couple ways women lose value with age, though some are general or unisex like highet medical cost and death risk on average

bill_towers · Answer

For dating, no problem. But I would prefer a woman in her 20s to start a family with. Wasn't sure what you mean with 'value' because everyone has a different definiton when it comes to this topic.

R4vedave · Answer

Of course not. At no point does a person lose value like that

J2ohhhhh · Answer

If you picked up some legit experience and values it's not a problem, but if you act like a 20 yo but look like 30 it ain't good.

abc3643 · Answer

I married my wife when she was 44. She had PLENTY of value.

Djaay · Answer

The value of someone isn't determined through another's eyes. You are you're own fortune cookie and you yourself determines and demonstrates your own value to others.

YvanKarma · Answer

Low value? how so? if anything, women in their 30's and up are in their prime.

TadCurious · Answer

No I don't think that at all. But that is a meme pushed by the MGTOW/incel losers.

sidhk69 · Answer

Do u know wine gets better as it age Ok... Serious and straight reply, no. First of all age to a great extent by is just a number And further, 30 is not quite old

Vivekkguptaa · Answer

I guess they are matured and smarter than the younger one and sometimes fresh and young is not always considered as a more value... So for e it's fine to be more thn 30

jeffjeffjeffjeffjeff · Answer

No, women who are in their thirties or above hold value equal to those under thirty.

Cask23 · Answer

Yes, but not as bad as when you hit 35. By that point you better start stocking up on cat food and litter because your heading to be a crazy cat lady.

Dhanushan · Answer

I don't know. Actually i'm ok if the figure comfortable for me. I think it is bad if you have a family. Otherwise 31 is pretty good for dates.

TisTheTruth · Answer

As long as you're a person you'll always have value. The fact that you're still dating shows that you're doing quiet well in the scene

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