This guy says he enjoyed sex with me but he came quick, is he lying?

[Anonymous]

I had sex with this guy once and I asked him if he liked it. He said he enjoyed it very much. But he came quick so how could he have enjoyed it? I didn't like it because I felt it was over too fast. But I did give him oral sex beforehand. I want to try it again because I like the way he touched my breasts. He said he enjoyed it but I don't think he liked it.

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The other guy I have sex with doesn't cum quick. And he can go multiple times.

[MrOracle]

You can't judge one guy based on another - every guy has his own "normal". For some guys, lasting 2 minutes is a marathon, and their average is more like 1 minute. For other guys, their average might be 20 or 30 minutes, which means "cumming quick" might be 10 minutes.

The point is: every guy has his own "average time", and you can only judge "quick" or "long time" based on HIS average, not on someone else's average.

I'm sure you're well aware that women are also very different sexually - what one girl loves, the next girl may hate or just feel nothing for. Yet we all accept that that's true - well, it's the same for guys, just in different ways.

[R4vedave]

Cumming really quick is a sign that he really really enjoyed it lmfao.

Either that or he's just chronically premature ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Asker]

How is that a sign that he enjoyed it? Most guys don't cum quick.

[R4vedave]

A) It's real hard to generalize any group of guys like that, since I assume your sample size isn't huge lol.

B) The better sex feels, the faster you orgasm. Now obviously there are other factors like personal stamina, willpower, and the like, and every guy is different, but overall if he finishes super quick it's likely that it felt so good that he just couldn't hold back.

[Asker]

Well the other guy I have sex with lasts awhile and can cum multiple times.

[Twalli]

So the other guy might not like it as much, or he has more control, willpower, and/or stamina.

[Asker]

@Twalli That doesn't mean the other guy doesn't like it as much. I don't know where you get it from he told me he liked it.

[R4vedave]

That's why he listed the other factors I mentioned previously lol. He might have enjoyed it, but just had more control over himself, and is able to last longer.

[Jasmine55]

He needs to learn how to control himself. Not many women would bother with a man who comes quick - nothing much in it for them

[Twalli]

It is hard for guys to hold off from cumming when they get to that point. Harder than you can probably imagine.

[Jasmine55]

@Twalli I am 63 so I think I know that. Does not change what I said. I would not bother with a guy who cannot make it great for me.

[TadCurious]

He might not have had sex for a while and at any rate he definitely had never had sex with you before. There can be an intense excitement the first time that may have led to him cumming too fast. I know that's frustrating for girls though, and also for the guy. The sensation of being horny and having your erect penis inside a vagina is so amazingly good that a guy has to sort of manage the pleasure to delay his orgasm. But I would believe the guy when says he enjoyed it.

[Friendship_7]

You are wrong. He enjoyed you too much. You should take that as a complement to your skills. But yes, you don't want to excite him too much - That makes things happen too fast and both you and him miss out. But he did enjoy you.

[boggboss]

I love the comment most guys don't cum quick lol clearly you don't fuck many guys there are many that fun vary quick how would he fun quick and think it's shit that don't make sence

[Asker]

Ok so the other guy I have sex with lasts longer and can do it multiple times.

[boggboss]

Great so you got 2 test subjects and make claims that most guys last long 🤣

[Asker]

Lol at test subjects you are funny. :)

[boggboss]

That's what they are init lol

[0112358]

So if you aren't enjoying sex, do you magically orgasm really fast?

[AcidT0y]

If he didn't like it so much he probably would have lasted longer

[Asker]

That’s not true at all.

[AcidT0y]

If you say so. Guess he hated it then

[Asker]

I'm saying it's not true that he wouldn't of liked it if he lasted longer. I've had sex with another guy who lasted a long time. And he was able to do it multiple times that doesn't mean he didn't like it.

[AcidT0y]

Oh I see. No that's not what I meant.

I'm saying if he didn't like it he wouldn't have finished so quickly. That's not to say that if he takes a long time he didn't like it.
Sounds like the other guy is better anyway. Probably just stick with him.

[Asker]

I want to try again with him.

[AcidT0y]

Do it then. Maybe he hadn't fucked in a long time. That could have caused him to finish quick too.

[ronaldo75]

No, he came quickly because it felt so good. Do some research on what he can do to last longer so you can come too. Or maybe have him give you oral before or after.

[winterfox10]

Cumming quickly is just his lack of control; I'm sure the sex was fantastic.

[1amcurious]

Cumming quick maybe because he enjoyed it very much 😋

[Anonymous]

He came quick because he is bad at sex. Pussy is pussy, it all feels the same.
If he came quick, he likely always cums quick.

[Asker]

All pussy doesn't feel the same.

[Twalli]

How would you know unless you've experienced it?

[Asker]

@Twalli Because everyone is different some women are looser than others It is not all the same.

[WhoDatGuy]

Pretty sure we've been in way more vaginas then you.

[Asker]

@WhoDatGuy I’ve read about this and all vaginas are not the same.

[WhoDatGuy]

It's a warm squishy place to put your cock.
There really isn't that much difference, and I've had around 50

[Twalli]

@WhoDatGuy there's a difference in how the woman reacts, and one who has done kegels can do a lot more than one whi hasn't, but the feeling of just being inside is pretty much standard around the board.

[WhoDatGuy]

Nailed it there.

[WhoDatGuy]

Banging multiple dudes. Classy

[Asker]

Not at the same time the other guy was 5 months ago.

[WhoDatGuy]

OK. Fair enough. That guy just is clueless in bed.
And I bet he jizzes that quick every time.

[Anonymous]

Lmao... if he came quick it means it felt good...

[Asker]

No, it doesn't.

[Asker]

Most guys don't cum quick.

[Opinion Owner]

Well since you already have the answers, why waste your time on here? Typcial women blaming men for everything

[Asker]

I'm not blaming him I'm just asking.

[Twalli]

Based on a sample size of 2? Also what do you mean by quick?

[Asker]

@Twalli You've never heard about a guy cumming quick? Jeez.

[Twalli]

I have, but quick is different for different people some people consider less than an hour quick others say less than 20 minutes, some say it's quick if it takes less than 5 minutes. In other words saying he cyms quickly is entirely subjective.

[bangyourhead]

He liked it if he came quick.

[YHL6965]

If he came quickly, that means he loved it.