Does this guy like me after having sex with each other?

[holly6090]

So I have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks now. The first date was drinks and dinner. Right after, he texted me quite fast and told me that he had a great time and he would like to see me again soon. We had the second date plan. We went out on the second date and then went out to dinner afterward. Fast forward, I invite him into my apartment and he sleeps over. We don't have sex but do make out. During this, he is kissing and massaging me as well. He also loves holding our hands together and interlocking our fingers as well. The next morning, we both have work and to make my life easier, he starts doing my dishes. I tell him that I need to get some coffee and again one thing leads to another, and he is driving us to Starbucks to get us coffee. He even buys a sandwich and offers it to me as well. The next time we see each other is a couple of days later and I come over to his place. We watch a movie and he orders us food as well. We start making out and then eventually have sex in his bed. After sex, he tells me how "incredible" I am and the sex as well. He offers me his t-shirt and his pj pants to go to sleep in and starts cuddling me as well. We head to sleep and in the morning he says good morning and kisses me. We talk a bit before I have to go to work. I even ask him "do you still want to see me after this?" and he says "Yes, of course I do!". I try to get out of bed and of course, he wants to still be cuddling me. I start getting ready for work and talk about needing coffee and breakfast. One thing leads to another and he's asking me how I like my eggs and starts making me eggs and coffee as well. Finally, he walks me back to my car. We hugged for a while and I tell him I would like it if we planned to do something for this weekend. He agrees but says he needs to focus on his job (he's an engineer and has been working overtime) and then try for something for the weekend. I tell him I understand and we go separate ways.

[Oliverlogan263]

The signs definitely seem pretty positive that he likes you! After just a couple dates already having sex shows a good connection. And his actions after like making you breakfast, wanting to cuddle and hold hands, telling you how incredible you are, and still wanting to see you clearly indicate interest. Offering to cook and bring you coffee after is sweet too.

The fact that he's working a lot does seem legit if he's an engineer with overtime. My only slight hesitation is him not committing fully to weekend plans yet, but it really could just be workload. His job may need to come first till a project wraps up or something. I'd say keep communicating, maybe shoot him a fun text during the week to stay connected, and see if he follows through on trying to hang out this weekend. If so, that's a great sign. And if he has to cancel plans for work, at least give him the benefit of the doubt for now. Overall from what you've said, I'd say it definitely sounds like he's into you! Things seem promising so far :)

[holly6090]

Hello, I have an update. He texted yesterday night to ask how my day went. We did some banter a bit back and forth and he mostly said “have a great day today!” But hasn’t talked about plans. Should I put the ball in his court to make plans for this weekend?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, I think at this point you can gently put the ball in his court to make plans for the weekend. You've shown interest and he said he wants to see you again, so it wouldn't hurt to nudge him a little.

I'd text him something casual like "So, looking forward to hanging out this weekend if you can swing it after work. Let me know if you're free for anything specific." That reminds him without pressuring.

If he doesn't suggest something concrete in the next day or two, you could follow up with "Any idea what your schedule is looking like yet? No pressure either way, just thought I'd check in."

Give him a chance to organize things since he said he's busy. But a light reminder shows you're still optimistic. And if he keeps putting it off without plans, then you'll at least know not to sit around waiting.

For now, assume positive intent on his part since things have been going well. A little prompt never hurt - hopefully he comes through! Keep me posted on how it plays out.

[kylee2437]

I’d say take the situation for face value and don’t look too much into it. Two weeks is not really enough time to truly know if you even like him yourself. Seems like it’s working right now, make sure it continues.

[laly520]

not anymore
sex ruins lot of potential relationships

[kylee2437]

There’s no truth behind your answer

[laly520]

there is lot of truth behind it but u r free to believe whatever u want

[boggboss]

Sounds like he liked u before the sex lol

[holly6090]

I agree with you. I want to see him this weekend. Do you think he will text me?

[boggboss]

No clue