Why does he stare at me if i'm curveless?

[Anonymous]

I noticed this guy staring at me whenever I was around or walked by. I'm a curveless, plain jane and have a plain boring face. Totally unattractive.

[Piteka5]

I know a lot of guys who like curveless women. There's no sure way to be attractive because every guy will have his own definition. I can only tell you my own perspective cause I only know myself, I do prefer curvy girls, but I also always found pale girls, specially redheads beautiful. A girl could be one thing and not be the other and I could still find her pretty.
But more than that, my girlfriend was none of the above, but she was a sweetheart that cared a lot about others, liked the same things as me and had the same goals in life. So looks are not everything either

[Mantinziza]

Why are you selling yourself short?
Every individual has there own..., "thing" going on.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder they say, and blind people are really lucky in a sort of fashion.

Personally I like it when women don't shave, Don't know why. I couldn't begin to explain it.

Best I can say is I like "natural".

But I know me, so yeah and whatever.

Very good possibility that your his "rarity", and he can't help but look.

The world would be a boring place if everyone was the same.

[mgomezburnett]

Maybe he finds you attractive. Just because you look in the mirror and don't believe you are beautiful, people around you do. And if he doesn't find you attractive, he's an asshole for staring.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion! I've had countless bad experiences and guys making learn the hard way that i'm unattractive by the way they treated me, I just learned my lessons and stopped giving in to feelings or guys around me. It just made me wonder why would a guy even go there when I look like nothing.

[John_Doesnt]

Because he wants to be a plastic surgeon and Upgrayedd you.

[Massageman]

He has the advantage on us - he's actually seen you.

[Asker]

Could you explain?

[Massageman]

Seriously? sigh. You aren't showing us your picture, so how can WE tell?

[Asker]

It's not a showroom and my question is clearly anonymous. I'm asking for assumptions coming from guys like himself so I can clear my confusions, as in what other reasons would Guys generally have to stare at a girl who doesn't fit the hot profile.

[Massageman]

Circular argument. Back to my original reply. Can't come to valid conclusion unless we can see what you consider "totally unattractive". case closed.

[Asker]

Sir, I nonetheless doubt the validity of your opinion when it comes to your age and the dating pool I take reference from.

[Giggletr0n]

You think that way, he doesn't

[botsumsup]

Maybe he thinks otherwise

[blythely]

Like a wolf oggles prey?

[Asker]

No more like a curious lingering look, like he would stop what he was doing, turn my way and be looking at me as if trying to make eye contact

[Anonymous]

guys like different things

[Gedaria]

To you maybe...