MY BOYFRIEND PUNCHED A WALL WHEN HE WAS ANGRY. SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

[Anonymous]

so my boyfriend went into a little drama and he punched the wall.. he wasn’t angry at me but he got accused of something that’s why he did that. As he punched it it made me flinch. Should I be worried? Is this the start of something worse?

[killmejerusalem]

It's not a good sign but it's also not incriminating evidence that he's abusive. I personally would advise against dating anyone who takes things out on anything physically or ever yells at you (I can't imagine raising my voice to a significant other, never have, it's not okay). But if you love him, just please watch out for more serious signs in the future. If it ever becomes you being hit, leave immediately.

[B-ry46912]

Hard to say without knowing him but I have punched walls a few times but I was angry about something really worth like girlfriend cheating on me but I would never hurt a women but if this guy has anger problems and shows signs of aggression towards you then get away definitely need more info on the person in question

[Passionate790]

Just be glad that wall isn’t you. Stop overreacting. He’s not abusive he was just angry and took it out on the wall

[SuperChocoBrownie]

OMG you need to check the wall is ok? Is it crying? has it suffered any injury? :[ call an Ambulance if you're worried that the wall is hurt.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Haha it depends what got him angry
I think it shows lack of self-control

[Guanfei]

He got angry and punched a wall, big deal. Most guys did that at some point.

[Logorithim]

I wouldn't worry about it at this point.

[Asker]

When should I start worrying?

[Jackblue]

How long have you been together if I might ask?

[Asker]

6 months and in some days we going to 7

[Jackblue]

Has he ever done that before?

[Asker]

No he has not, he has only yelled at me sometimes and this is the first time that he actually have done that.

[Jackblue]

Then I don't think he is a violent man, though you must of course, judge for yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you

[betaTester]

yeah, you should be worried about his hand

[Anonymous]

Be careful