So for the sake of privacy we’ll call my boyfriend C. So me and C were arguing again I’ve the phone and I was so upset that I had enough and hung up on him he was at the gym and he punched the wall with his bare hand and hurt himself and the next day at school his friends asked him about it and he looked at me and I’d get nervous and he’d say “yeah, you know what you did” and would laugh. Should I get out? I’m scared for my own safety my friends say that it was a bad sign that he got violent over something stupid and she said “it’s always gonna be the wall until it becomes you.” Should I leave him?
That’s toxic behavior. If you don’t want to be with someone who acts this way. Get out of it. That’s all I know what to say.
It’s definitely not your fault. Honestly. If long time down the road. If you married him. Would you want him tearing your walls up and blaming you?
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Hitting inanimate objects is actually a pretty healthy expression of anger or frustration. What you should be concerned about is why you're arguing with each other and try deal with the root of the problem.
You leave him. Men who can't control their anger have no right being in relationships. It's only a matter of time before it's something other than a wall.
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That behavior is very troubling. It's abusive. And it will turn into him hitting you.
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