So me and this guy have been friends with benefits for almost two years. At first it was one sided. I liked him and he didn’t like me. He treated me like shit actually and we would constantly go on breaks and end up hooking up again. This was in the early beginning tho. I eventually began dating someone else and got over him, then when me and my boyfriend broke up we found our way back to each other but this time we were finally on the same page and I strictly only wanted friends with benefits. Lately we’ve been seeing each other a lot more and our conversations in person been a lot more longer. We laugh together more compared to before when we first met it was awkward and I was too scared to even giggle around him. Now he’s the only guy I’ve known that I’ve been so comfortable with. And today we saw each other again and cuddled and he looks at me a lot more and longer than usual when I don’t notice we also don’t fuck right away. Today when I came home he texted me saying he doesn’t want to see me again because he feels like I’m using him. And it was the most out of ordinary thing I’ve ever got. Today we got closer than usual and now he’s saying I’m using him and I can tell he’s too scared to admit a lot of things to me he’s dodging my questions. But if he feels like I’m using him doesn’t that mean he wants more? Why else would a guy say that. I told him he shouldn’t feel that way and he’s been acting moody ever since but I’m trying to make him admit what’s the real problem I just don’t know how or if it’s the fact he has feelings for me. After a year and a half of me chasing after him and then finally only wanting what he wanted.. now he wants more?
Is my friends with benefits starting to catch feelings?
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