Why are men rude to women they find ugly and nice to the ones they find beautiful?

[Anonymous]

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, I want to say that this shouldn’t be a blanket statement to all men, as I personally don’t treat women I find unattractive to me, in a rude manner. Now that aside, I suppose it’s natural or biological to treat those we find beautiful, handsome, or attractive differently than those we do not find as physically appealing. I think this better treatment towards attractive people is due to the fact that we find these individuals capable of being potential mating partners or that we incline towards ensuring these individuals’ genes spread to the next generation. I think these feelings are deeply innate, probably coming from some evolutionary biology hardwiring of our brain.

[SuperManiac]

I don't think I am, but I'm interested in befriending both sexes which might be somewhat unusual. I always was. It might be unusual in the West but common here in Japan. So I never found any strong reason to be rude to someone of the opposite sex, or someone much older than me, or younger than me. There's always an opportunity to make a friend as I see it. It doesn't always work out that way, but I find potential value in every social encounter that way.

[SuperManiac]

Well, in some way I'm rude to everyone (even attractive girls). :-D But I'm not mean. I'm just a little bit barbaric. I'm the one at the wine tasting events one-shotting wine and saying, "Woo-hoo, let's party!" while others are swishing and spitting the wine out and I'm like, "WTF! Why'd you spit it out? What a waste of nice wine." So I'm rude that way to everyone, but not in a mean way.

[normalice]

same reason men are mean to gay men - they don't want to risk giving any indication that they are interested. It's a defense mechanism, because if an 'ugly' girl offered to suck our cocks, we'd probably let her, probably like it, and probably let her do it again and again until all the 'beautiful' girls were gone.

[Asker]

Ugly women are not equal to gay men.

[normalice]

at no point did I say they were.

[Seket]

No, actually I'm rude to those who befriend me and nice to strangers.

[DDpsy]

The same reason that motivates women's behavior towards attractive and unattractive men.
Because we want to fuck the beautiful ones and don't realy give the slightest amount of shit about the others.

[BestUserName100]

I’m rude to everyone tho.

[Fuentes]

I treat all the same