Do GUYS honestly like straight forwardness, when it comes to a girl telling him that she likes him?

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I am sick of playing the game of cat and mouse with this guy I've like for several months now. He has sent signals, I've caught him looking at me and when we talk it's great, I feel like his actions and conversations were real and sincere. He hasn't called me but that doesn't bug me much, cause when we see each other we're pretty cool.

I am not sure if he has a girl friend, but by the complements and attention that he has given to me, it doesn't seem so.

I am tired of over analyzing, asking so many of friends for advice on what to do and if he's into (which feels like he is), and agonizing over every move played. I have reached the breaking point IT's DRIVING ME CRAZY!

I don't want to look back and regret never telling him anything but at same time I don't want to screw up my chances, IF I do tell him!

WOULD IT BE SO WRONG TO TELL HIM THAT I LIKE HIM and or ASK IF HE'S IN TO ME (cause of the attention he gives me)?

HOW COULD I TELL HIM WITH OUT COMING OFF AS PUSHY or DESPERATE ?

DO GUYS LIKE STRAIGHT FORWARDNESS?

thanks so much for you time!

william2228 · Accepted Answer

I think it really depends on the guy. first off when I finally started going out with my girlfriend it took, no joke about a month for me to get that she liked me. She just kept telling me stories about boys she liked and then one day I told her I liked this one chick. Later that night I was talking to her and she seemed way bummed so I asked her what was wrong. She said this guys I like told me today that he likes someone else! So finally I got the hint I told her I liked her and things took off. But I think all in all most guys are to stupid to get the hint some times girls just have to give a bigger hint like a big yellow sign that says hey I like you, metaphorically speaking.

To answer your two questions more directly guarantee he won't think your pushy or desperate personally I don't think I have ever had one guy say a girl is to pushy or desperate especially if they have just been casually talking with the girl and giving them complements like you say he does.

I think a lot of guys would like straight forwardness as I said before it depends on the guy personally a lot of guys are to big of a wuss to tell the girl he actually likes her, well just not straight forward. Hoping that the girl gives him a big enough hint because I think a lot of girls and guys are scared to get rejected.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

are you kidding me. I have 3 words. Yes Yes yes! guys actualy find it a turn on. just stay nice. do you know how many of my guy friends think women have totaly lossed interest in men. if not for this site I would have thought the same. You can actualy turn on a guy who was not interested in you by saing these three words  I LIKE YOU. you say that and smile and you will be fulfilling part of the male fantasy about women. did you know guys actualy dream about women asking them out or saying they like them. don't listen to your girlfriends. Somehow tons of girls think guys don't want girls to be assertive. if you smile and get lost in his eyes you will have him re living that moment forever. once you fulfill this part of the male fantasy of womanhood no girl will be able to compete with you. don't listen to any girl who tells you otherwise.

missjosie417 · Accepted Answer

Ask him if he's single. If he's NOT, you can say Ohhh and then play like you were wanting to fix him up with someone you knew. That way you don't look rejected. LOL

But if he says he IS single, the ball's in your court and I would run with it!

shadowsex001 · Answer

I do I don't know any guys that a mind reader so its kinda good to have a girl tell you what she thinking

Do GUYS honestly like straight forwardness, when it comes to a girl telling him that she likes him?

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